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ESO Isn't Your Personal Dating Site! =P

missjackieb14_ESO
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Okay, so this is what my toon looks like:

2w57wno.jpg

And for the past.. god knows how many weeks... I have had random guys come up to me, send me whispers, even give out marriage proposals, ask me if I'm single, if I don't want to be single anymore, etc.

Hey numbnuts, ESO isn't your personal dating site!

It doesn't really bother me. I find it more hilarious that guys have to be so pathetic. Any other people experience this?
  • Turelus
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    Needs more Dunmer before I am interested. :trollface:
    @Turelus - EU PC Megaserver
    "Don't count on others for help. In the end each of us is in this alone. The survivors are those who know how to look out for themselves."
  • PlagueSD
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    Everyone that plays MMO's should know that G.I.R.L. actually stands for.

    Guy
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    Life

  • stewhead2ub17_ESO
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    smh
  • Chufu
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    Well you have met a crazy person :D

    You could try the next time to do it like in South Parc ("Make Love, Not Warcraft") and tell him you are this man behind the screen:

    wow-south-park.jpg

    He will - of course - stop to talk with you :smiley:
  • WatchYourSixx
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    Hmm, weird, I'm a "girl" and usually wear the most revealing costumes I can find and I never get whispers...
    The only thing to fear is, fear itself. - FDR

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  • Koolio
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    I don't know what you are talking about. I met my girlfriend on Eso. Been a wonderful year since then too.
  • CavalryPK
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    if only my wife would be interested in games...................................
    THE CAVELRY HAS ARRIVED! Cav is a professional magblade, (in his not so professional opinion). He is immortal and is fighting for the Pact since 2E 572, amidst the turmoil of the Second Akaviri Invasion. He protects the provinces of Skyrim, Morrowind and Black Marsh.

    Check out his PVP YouTube channel !

    https://youtube.com/TheCavalryPK
  • Sigtric
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    Turelus wrote: »
    Needs more Dunmer before I am interested. :trollface:

    This

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    Scrub: Chews-on-Beavers - 50 EP DK Tank | Vera the Wild - 50 EP magicka Warden | Sigtric the Axe - 50 EP Dragonknight Crafter | Sigtric the Blade - 50 EP Lost Nightblade | Sigtric the Savage - 50 EP magicka Templar | Vibeka Shadowblade - 50 Ep Stealthy Ganky Nightblade |

    Show Me Your Dunmer
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  • Cyn_v84
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    This Khajiit, wearing all conceiling leathers, got one or two. This one found it very strange, yet amusing :p
  • Enemy-of-Coldharbour
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    Unlike me IRL my girls are all very attractive. I get hit on quite often when I just want to be left alone. Come-on guys, it's just a game. What exactly do you think is on the other side of the screen?

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  • ThePaleItalian
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    Not Orc enough.
    Conan, what is good in life?
    Crush your enemies. See them driven before you. Hear the lamentations of their women.

    PS4 Screen Name: The_Pale_Italian
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    Solstice StormHaven - Magika Sorc
    Oba Nobanaga - Stam NB
  • Wing
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    but its handy to meet someone in a hobby you both clearly enjoy no?
    ESO player since beta.
    previously full time subscriber, beta-2024, game got too disappointing.
    PC NA
    ( ^_^ )

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    DK one trick
  • SirAndy
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    My fat Naked Nord never gets any proposals, only hate whispers ...
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  • newtinmpls
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    Ask 'em to give you stuff. Might as well make it work for you.

    No.. that's not nice. But then I do give away random stuff, and have benefited greatly from generous strangers.

    I've been known to compliment someone in-game, but seeing as how I'm married to my gaming beloved, there is a boundary there.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
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    Order Draconis - well c'mon there has to be some explanation for all those dragon tattoos.
    House of Dibella - If you have ever seen or read "Memoirs of a Geisha" that's just the beginning...
    Nibenay Valley Chapterhouse - Where now stands only desolate ground and a dolmen there once was a thriving community supporting one of the major chapterhouses of the Order Draconis
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Hmm, weird, I'm a "girl" and usually wear the most revealing costumes I can find and I never get whispers...

    Hey, just because I'm a chick doesn't mean it gives someone the right to harass me.
  • Insandros
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    Should ask a few of those whispering you if they are Role Players before, might be surprised that maybe a lot of them would maybe never believe the toon as the same perfect shape as the player behind it :)
    Edited by Insandros on September 25, 2017 9:52PM
  • newtinmpls
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    Hey, just because I'm a chick doesn't mean it gives someone the right to harass me.

    I don't disagree.

    However it does increase the odds that they will.

    I love my "ignore" button.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
    ***
    Order Draconis - well c'mon there has to be some explanation for all those dragon tattoos.
    House of Dibella - If you have ever seen or read "Memoirs of a Geisha" that's just the beginning...
    Nibenay Valley Chapterhouse - Where now stands only desolate ground and a dolmen there once was a thriving community supporting one of the major chapterhouses of the Order Draconis
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Koolio wrote: »
    I don't know what you are talking about. I met my girlfriend on Eso. Been a wonderful year since then too.

    But, did you make sexual advances towards her to gain her attention? =P
  • geonsocal
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    Not Orc enough.

    this was my my first thought...hmmm, maybe I need to leave the house a little more...
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  • Thogard
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    My GF's level 8 night blade has been gathering dust for so long that I've managed to get its mountspeed to 60. And it wasn't exactly a priority either...
    PC NA - @dazkt - Dazk Ardoonkt / Sir Thogalot / Dask Dragoh’t / Dazk Dragoh’t / El Thogardo

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  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    I think from now on, I'm just going to lie and tell them I'm some 500 pound hairy naked guy, with sausage nips.
  • Stania
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    My male character gets some flattering or indecorous whispers from time to time, from both female and male characters.
    PC NA server
    ¡Hablo español!
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    My characters:
    <List of characters that no one cares to know with their classes and roles>

    "Inspirational quote"
  • Minno
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    CavalryPK wrote: »
    if only my wife would be interested in games...................................

    My fiance loves video games... Just not this one lol.
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  • ParaNostram
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    No kidding. I mean when I was in Cyrodiil in Vivec and one of the people who leads raids found out I was a girl (I can't say his name because that'd be naming and shaming) he started making sexual advances on me and when I said no he made jokes about how he'd just assault me anyways so didn't matter what I said.
    "Your mistake is you begged for your life, not for mercy. I will show you there are many fates worse than death."

    Para Nostram
    Bosmer Sorceress
    Witch of Evermore

    "Death is a privilege that can be denied by it's learned scholars."
    Order of the Black Worm
  • Subversus
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    Turelus wrote: »
    Needs more Dunmer before I am interested. :trollface:
    Needs more high elves for me :trollface:
  • Chronicburn
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    Nice looking toon but I gotta say lip rings are a big turn off - I'm just too old-fashioned
  • eso_nya
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    Some men r stupid af.
    Play along -> ask for money -> rob them blank -> say "ohhh, thats awkward, i thought u r a girl" -> enjoy the sound a slowly fading scream :D
  • paulsimonps
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    Well I found my new wife through the game so it worked out for em :tongue: But its pretty funny how often my wife gets hit on cause of her cute Bosmers she plays. Some are funny, some are just friendly compliments, and some are down right creepy.
  • Nestor
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    Enjoy the game, life is what you really want to be worried about.

    PakKat "Everything was going well, until I died"
    Gary Gravestink "I am glad you died, I needed the help"

  • zaria
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    Okay, so this is what my toon looks like:

    2w57wno.jpg

    And for the past.. god knows how many weeks... I have had random guys come up to me, send me whispers, even give out marriage proposals, ask me if I'm single, if I don't want to be single anymore, etc.

    Hey numbnuts, ESO isn't your personal dating site!

    It doesn't really bother me. I find it more hilarious that guys have to be so pathetic. Any other people experience this?
    LOL, I had an obvious teen boy trying to check my elf female up in another MMO.
    I was doing some low level RP as in this armor make me look fat and thought it caused it but it was more like I reached him some tricks.
    He was shocked that half the girls had male players.

    On the other hand some of the players checking you up is probably playing an game too.
    You have an nice character so you expect response.
    Grinding just make you go in circles.
    Asking ZoS for nerfs is as stupid as asking for close air support from the death star.
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