anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Well, I used to lead a guild for two years. That is HARD WORK and required a lot of time.
But they were nice people and we were happy, so yeah.
Then over the course of time some people left (real life, other games, etc...), new people joined. A new "guild culture" emerged, which I felt increasingly uncomfortable with. (People more interested in builds, numbers, achievements than in other people as humans, to sum it up).
As things became more and more obvious, I chose to give the crown over to someone whom I felt was able to run it in the long-term, with its new "mentality", and left.
Now I regret it. I should have organized for them to create their new guild instead of giving them "mine". I do mind that they use a name and an envelope that *I* created and liked and cared about, for creating a thing that I don't like, that I don't want to be associated with. It doesn't feel right.
I agree that things are bound to change and that I wasn't there to "dictate" a mentality and I accepted that. But using the name (and everything related to it : image, vocal server, website) that I used to be proud of for something that I am not proud of isn't right.
OP, if you have the slightest respect and are even a little bit thankful for what your former Guild Master did for you and your guild, just change the name as he asks.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »The situation is very different. The previous guild leader left the game so the reasons are not that the guild changed. The previous guild leader does not even play the game or see the guild name being used.
The previous guild leader obviously created his guild which is an extremely poor way to lead a guild. Even as he was leaving the game he considered it his guild which is why he wanted the name changed.
Members get attached to a guild and the name is part of that attachment. Guild leaders who are so self centered they do not consider what it's members want should not be guild leaders to begin with.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »RoamingRiverElk wrote: »I'd respect his wishes and change the guild name to something the community felt was good.
Guild names cannot be changed. Disbanding the guild and reforming is the only choice and with that one will always find some players who did not get the memo and think they got kicked and never come back including some who were out of game for a few days so the memo was deleted by the system before they got a chance to see it.
The bickering in this thead is pointless. OP clearly wanted peoples thoughts on the subject and nothing more.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »The situation is very different. The previous guild leader left the game so the reasons are not that the guild changed. The previous guild leader does not even play the game or see the guild name being used.
The previous guild leader obviously created his guild which is an extremely poor way to lead a guild. Even as he was leaving the game he considered it his guild which is why he wanted the name changed.
Members get attached to a guild and the name is part of that attachment. Guild leaders who are so self centered they do not consider what it's members want should not be guild leaders to begin with.
OK the situation is different, but I just wanted to give an example as to why a guild name could still matter to someone who has left it.
That being said... I have some questions :
- How, in your opinion, could the guild become a nice place to which people have become attached, if the leadership was so bad ?
- Even if the former GM was bad, he still is the one who created and managed the guild, so you should be thankful to him for existing as such
- What does it cost you to disband the guild and create a new one with the same people and a different name ? I understand you're "attached to the name" but is it such a big deal ?
I don't want to put some psychoanalytical stuff into this... but ... if you're happy that this guy's gone and you're attached to the guild, you should perhaps cut this ombilical cord once and for all - including changing the guild's name.
That being said, you're in the strong position anyway : if he's left the guild, he can't force you to change the name, by any means, and ZOS certainly won't interfere into something like that.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »People can enjoy the game with those in the guild even if the guild leader is self centered.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »But the guild is everyone's guild, not just his so the name is not just his. I doubt he has hit copyrighted.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »Disbanding the guild can cost members that may be offline for a few days so they did nto see the memo and hence think they just got kicked. Also, a lot of work for a guild the size OP claims.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »People can enjoy the game with those in the guild even if the guild leader is self centered.
I doubt that very much. If the guild was big and nice, he must have done some if not many things right.Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »But the guild is everyone's guild, not just his so the name is not just his. I doubt he has hit copyrighted.
Maybe. But going through this one easy step of changing the guild's name would make everyone happy and peaceful. If you keep the name, you'll always have this "salty" background. I tend to like small things that have big nice effects, regardless of who's theoretically wrong or right.Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »Disbanding the guild can cost members that may be offline for a few days so they did nto see the memo and hence think they just got kicked. Also, a lot of work for a guild the size OP claims.
Not really. I had to do it TWICE (had to change guild's name TWICE in the past for stupid technical reasons (accentuated character in the guild's name that conflicted after an update by ZOS).
- Keep members' @ID via screenshots
- Message everyone per ingame mail.
Done. Sure, it takes 3 hours. So what ? Still not much.
Where there's a will, there's a way. The problem here I think is that there's no will. For whatever reason. Not up to me to judge, really. I just feel for the former GM and the judgement he's facing now. So ungrateful - no matter how faulty or deserving he might be.
Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »It is really quite simple with no reason to be made complicated. If the members like the name or do not have an issue with it there is zero reason to change it. The former GM has left the game so he no longer gets a vote.
I don't mean to be rude, but if it's his name let him keep it. The rest of you will get over it.
To you (the ones who want to keep it) it's just a name. To him it's important.
Thing is, some people heavily invest into a guild, and to them, the guild name is part of their online identity. Something they've been a part of since the game started etc.
For some it's a meaningless name, but for others, they feel the name is just as important as the ex guild leader does.
And I can totally appreciate that. It's still his though.
The best solution for all would be if he could trust the new guild leader to run his baby in a proper way and the guild could have 2 chapters; one in ESO and one in Star Citizen or BDO or whatever
It's not his. He left the guild.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Giles.floydub17_ESO wrote: »It is really quite simple with no reason to be made complicated. If the members like the name or do not have an issue with it there is zero reason to change it. The former GM has left the game so he no longer gets a vote.
Yes, what a stupid idea to even consider taking someone into consideration that isn't there any more, and has technically no power. Absents are always wrong.
He built the house and devoted himself to it for two years - but that doesn't count, right ?
There's no need to have an emotional debate over this. It's fairly clear in the TOS.
Slammer99uk wrote: »I am not looking to bash any individual here, just posting a point of view......
Would you have prefered it if he (yes I know the guild master you are referring to) just disbanded it? It is his guild to do with as he wishes, he accepted you into his guild under his conditions which you were happy to do, no? He gave fair warning and his reasoning behind the changes.
Besides a guild is about the people in it not the name. It's ok for you to be upset about it, what is not ok is to come here soliciting opinions which will not change the outcome. Any discussion should be confined to the guild chat or what ever method they use for communication.
Just saying....
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »There's no need to have an emotional debate over this. It's fairly clear in the TOS.
But the question is asked in "emotional" terms, not legal or technical ones. Legally, of course there's no debate. The one with the crown does what he/she wants. But in human/emotional terms, it's different - and that's what being asked and discussed here.
How do you go about changing a guilds name?
You see how I agree with the OP about it being a bit silly?
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »You see how I agree with the OP about it being a bit silly?
It's not necessarily silly.
In my case, even though leaving 'my' guild (for the reasons I explained earlier) was three months ago. Until now, I still come across people in the game who tell me "I went raiding with your guild last night, there were many rude elitists, that was really unpleasant, what happened ?" and I have to explain once again that it isn't my guild anymore, that I gave the crown and left because the majority of members wanted to play elitist and leaderboards and that was not what I wanted nor what I was able to provide.
So yes that's annoying, not silly. I know it's too late now but if I could go backwards, I would tell them to gather in a different guild and a different name. The sky isn't falling, but it's unpleasant.
That's my case though, which is different from OP's case, I suppose.