American RP Horror Story.

Thechemicals

dsalter wrote: »

have to admit tho trol or not, i'v been in a similar possition to the OP, she RP'd with a random guy, ended up cheating, ran off with him, 2 months later she calls from his place because he's keeping her as some sort of perverted slave, so ya be alittle understanding that it can be a sinister environment same as any

I can relate to you. I played Ultima Online and had a married woman latch on to me...i was maybe 19yrs old and i could have handled it properly but instead ran a muck with her and left a trail of hurt for her husband. After like 4 months the fling was over and she returned to him. I dont know what happened after, but i realized that the internet and Rp and new fresh social groups can cause all kinds of harm to people who really might love each other.Now im in the same predicament

I think that can be true in general thought process, especially American thought process where stimulation and independance make us hurl ourselves in every direction when it comes to things of the heart and physical lust and mental stimulation. I dont mean to draw comparisons, but i found out a lot about this rp guild and its members and learned the one guy was a drug addict in the worst way and had a serious mental disorder where the word "suicide" was often used as part of his emotional dialogue with my girl. He also had a low end job. Again i dont like to compare because its ugly, but i am a better man in all ways than this guy and yet he managed to seduce my girl temporarily.

I still consider myself to be strong of mind and body with mucho love and forgiveness to give, but the whole situation definately put a dent in my plate mail.

Armitas

Yeah people think love is a feeling. The feeling is a part of love but that is not love nor a sign that love exists or is lost. Love is a commitment to a person, in sickness and in health, in happy times and in terrible times. Love does not seek itself it seeks the other with a greater passion than ones own selfishness.

Thechemicals

Armitas wrote: »

Yeah people think love is a feeling. The feeling is a part of love but that is not love nor a sign that love exists or is lost. Love is a commitment to a person, in sickness and in health, in happy times and in terrible times. Love does not seek itself it seeks the other with a greater passion than ones own selfishness.

perfect.

Rune_Relic

Armitas wrote: »

Yeah people think love is a feeling. The feeling is a part of love but that is not love nor a sign that love exists or is lost. Love is a commitment to a person, in sickness and in health, in happy times and in terrible times. Love does not seek itself it seeks the other with a greater passion than ones own selfishness.

+1 if she's seeking stimulation outside of the relationship.... I dotn think you have much of a relationship to build. Sorry friend. Don't want to sound so cruel.

You deserve better than this...and you wont get it with who you are with. Maybe in 10 years when shes grown up and played the field. Shes not ready to settle down and be committed anyway.