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Guild Mail 3 Days in... Option to opt out please!

  • templar_heal
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    What is really irritating for me is that you actually can't delete this guild messages after reading them! They just stuck in your post until expiring!
  • hiyde
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    What is really irritating for me is that you actually can't delete this guild messages after reading them! They just stuck in your post until expiring!

    This is likely an addon conflict. Hopefully the related addons will get updates soon.

    Also another tip for another addon issue:
    If you can't open the Guild Mail section - click it, close mail, reopen and click again. It should open on the 2nd try.

    For GMs/Officers:
    *delete* guild mails that are no longer relevant (like for a raffle that's been drawn). This will retract it from everyone's inboxes and help reduce clutter.
    Edited by hiyde on June 18, 2026 7:30AM
    @Hiyde GM/Founder - Bleakrock Barter Co (Trade Guild - PC/NA) | Blackbriar Barter Co (Trade Guild-PC/NA)
  • DragonRacer
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    What is really irritating for me is that you actually can't delete this guild messages after reading them! They just stuck in your post until expiring!

    That sounds like a bug or add-on conflict. I have had no issues deleting guild mail I have received (from my own guild or other guilds).
    PS5 NA. GM of The PTK's - a free trading guild (CP 500+). Also a werewolf, bites are free when they're available. PSN = DragonRacer13
  • Destai
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    hiyde wrote: »

    Everything I need to know is posted in Discord for us to see at our own leisure.

    The point is that different people pay attention to different things. For every "I'd prefer everything be on Discord" person, there's a person that doesn't use Discord or ignores notifications. If you were the only member of my guild, I'd be happy to tailor communication to your exact preferences! But we're talking about 500 people who all engage in different ways.

    First and foremost, Guilds should be able to effectively communicate activities *in* the game. Guild Mail is a terrific tool to have in the toolbox. Other platforms like Discord, Social Media, website, etc are also good to do.

    I'm noticing some folks displaying quite a bit of animosity towards GMs & Officers trying to communicate with their guilds, ( I've also not seen one complaint from anyone getting carpet-bombed with overwhelming amounts of Guild Mail.)

    GMs and Officers are unpaid volunteers who are donating their time to providing you a great guild and trying to use various tools to let people know what's going on with the guild and to deliver on whatever the guild has promised to it's members. An active Guild & Officer team should be treasured, not treated as an annoyance.

    If a guild is sending you multiple raffle mails, it means *they are trying to pay for the bid* that won the kiosk you are selling on. They are trying to get as many people as possible to share the costs of it, instead of relying on a select few big contributors. That's a really good thing.

    In exchange for the features the guild is providing, is it really that big of a deal to scan their mails for information that interests you and ignore if it doesn't? I am sad to see some of the responses here.

    Also, not everyone is an E-Mail marketing expert. Give them some time to figure out best uses. Provide constructive feedback. If you truly cannot stomach Guild Mail, find a guild that communicates less (or make one!).
    :)

    I wouldn't say it's animosity on my end, it's just more of communicating preferences and frustrations with the existing system. I'm not blaming GMs for what they have to do. It's just not for me because my threshold is pretty low from other stressors. A lot of guilds demand you join discord, participate in raffles, donate - the list goes on. It does start to feel like a job after a while. I've been in guilds that overshare, and this is one more avenue for that, so it's helpful to share how it impacts people.

    And I get it from the GM perspective, I do. You guys are providing a service. When I was a more active trader, those services were helpful. Now, with a stressful job, a toddler, and an infant, the last thing I want to deal with is a guild asking for donations and my time.
  • hiyde
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    Destai wrote: »

    I wouldn't say it's animosity on my end, it's just more of communicating preferences and frustrations with the existing system. I'm not blaming GMs for what they have to do. It's just not for me because my threshold is pretty low from other stressors. A lot of guilds demand you join discord, participate in raffles, donate - the list goes on. It does start to feel like a job after a while. I've been in guilds that overshare, and this is one more avenue for that, so it's helpful to share how it impacts people.

    And I get it from the GM perspective, I do. You guys are providing a service. When I was a more active trader, those services were helpful. Now, with a stressful job, a toddler, and an infant, the last thing I want to deal with is a guild asking for donations and my time.

    I appreciate the productive dialogue, @Destai! I could be wrong, but it sounds like you may have joined guild(s) for highly active traders and your situation changed. If you aren't able to support them at the level they need/want, it might make sense to change guilds. There are trade guilds in good locations that are more laid back with little or no requirements. There are chill social guilds that don't make you join Discord or attend PvP nights.

    Hell, there are guilds out there that only exist for free ports, or to provide a guild crafting house (we actually have a low-key 3rd guild that purely exists for Guild House crafting access (Our "Crafting Village" / Target Dummy / Mundus setup is beautiful and organized for quick access to everything - if anyone needs a quiet guild like that on PC-NA, hit me up here or in-game!). Or, anyone on PCNA can bookmark and visit, even without being a member of any of our guilds:
    |H1:housing:46:@bbcguild|h[Scenic Crafting Village]|h
    Plenty of other guilds open their Guild House to all.

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    For the trade guild(s) you're in, perhaps reach out to the management, tell them your RL situation has changed and ask if the support you're providing now is sufficient to stay.

    In the case of guild mail, we're talking about clicking through some mails to turn off the "new" indicator and maybe clicking x to delete. Not a huge deal if the guild is worth it otherwise.

    Also just to be clear, I'm not in favor of endless/low-value Guild Mail spam. We send 2-3 per week and strive to ensure they are interesting/entertainting and/or contain solid content that we feel members would find value in. Like any communications platform if low quality repetitive messages are sent, the danger of people tuning out/ignoring it rises.

    And if anyone in my guilds has an issue with our communications, I welcome the feedback and would absolutely adapt good suggestions. What I don't welcome is some of the disdain I've been seeing here on the forum. Most of us are trying to do our best to help others get the most out of ESO and make our guild a helpful ESO community.
    :)
    Edited by hiyde on June 18, 2026 2:47PM
    @Hiyde GM/Founder - Bleakrock Barter Co (Trade Guild - PC/NA) | Blackbriar Barter Co (Trade Guild-PC/NA)
  • DragonRacer
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    hiyde wrote: »
    Destai wrote: »

    I wouldn't say it's animosity on my end, it's just more of communicating preferences and frustrations with the existing system. I'm not blaming GMs for what they have to do. It's just not for me because my threshold is pretty low from other stressors. A lot of guilds demand you join discord, participate in raffles, donate - the list goes on. It does start to feel like a job after a while. I've been in guilds that overshare, and this is one more avenue for that, so it's helpful to share how it impacts people.

    And I get it from the GM perspective, I do. You guys are providing a service. When I was a more active trader, those services were helpful. Now, with a stressful job, a toddler, and an infant, the last thing I want to deal with is a guild asking for donations and my time.

    I appreciate the productive dialogue. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you may have joined guild(s) for highly active traders and your situation changed. If you aren't able to support them at the level they need/want, it might make sense to change guilds. There are trade guilds in good locations that are more laid back with little or no requirements. There are chill social guilds that don't make you join Discord or attend PvP nights. Hell there are guilds out there that only exist for free ports, or to provide a guild crafting house (we actually have a low-key 3rd guild that purely exists for Guild Houses crafting access (it's on PC-NA and our Crafting Village / Target Dummy area is beautiful and organized for quick access to everything - if anyone needs a quiet guild like that on PC-NA, hit me up here or in-game!).

    For the trade guild(s) you're in, perhaps reach out to the management, tell them your RL situation has changed and ask if the support you're providing now is sufficient to stay.

    In the case of guild mail, we're talking about clicking through some mails to turn off the "new" indicator and maybe clicking x to delete. Not a huge deal if the guild is worth it otherwise.

    Also just to be clear, I'm not in favor of endless Guild Mail spam. We send 2-3 per week and strive to ensure they are interesting/entertainting and/or contain solid content that we feel members would find value in. Like any communications platform if low quality repetitive messages are sent, the danger of people tuning out/ignoring it rises.

    And if anyone in my guilds has an issue with our communications, I welcome the feedback and would absolutely adapt good suggestions. What I don't welcome is some of the disdain I've been seeing. Most of us are trying to do our best to help others get the most out of ESO and make our guild a helpful ESO community.
    :)

    This. I know I said I made my last post on all this, but what you summed up above kinda gives voice to the awkwardness I was feeling in this thread last night.

    Asking that guilds not abuse this new system by spamming multiple mails a day/multiple mails a week/mails that have no purpose or don’t contribute is completely and totally valid. It’s logical. It’s fair. I myself am also a human being with a busy life besides being a GM here and I myself don’t want to be spammed with guild mails.

    It’s the attitude of “if you dare send more than one mail every few months” or “if my trader guild sends even ONE mail about raffle, I am immediately quitting that guild!” that I found wildly shocking. I don’t think that’s a very fair or reasonable onus to put on your guild’s GM or officers, particularly the latter which is essentially a direct quote from a post in this very thread. It comes off as guilting people about using a new, wanted feature at all like how dare we.

    Surely there is a happy medium.
    PS5 NA. GM of The PTK's - a free trading guild (CP 500+). Also a werewolf, bites are free when they're available. PSN = DragonRacer13
  • DragonRacer
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    Just the concept that literally sending even ONE mail is now “pestering” people. I don’t even know how to reasonably process a statement so extreme as that other than to feel sorry for the stress the person is under because if one innocuous mail from a trading guild announcing a raffle to support people having a trader to even sell goods in is the bar for pestering/causing folks to leave guilds then I’m afraid I must be suffering from some extreme cognitive dissonance regarding guild structures.
    PS5 NA. GM of The PTK's - a free trading guild (CP 500+). Also a werewolf, bites are free when they're available. PSN = DragonRacer13
  • Destai
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    It’s the attitude of “if you dare send more than one mail every few months” or “if my trader guild sends even ONE mail about raffle, I am immediately quitting that guild!” that I found wildly shocking. I don’t think that’s a very fair or reasonable onus to put on your guild’s GM or officers, particularly the latter which is essentially a direct quote from a post in this very thread. It comes off as guilting people about using a new, wanted feature at all like how dare we.

    Surely there is a happy medium.

    Here's where that statement comes from. I was in a guild that updated the MOTD multiple times an hour. I typically don't mind if it's once a day or whatever, but it was every time I turned around. So right away, they're overcommunicating. Now, typically, I don't play with the chat window on, and when I do, literally all I see is raffles and auctions from these guys. Again, nothing wrong with that, just not my thing. But then, test emails started coming out, and then the raffle email landed. I made the decision that guild's not for me. I know where it was going and that's that.

    But taking a step back here, here's what I see right on log in:
    1. Guild MOTDs
    2. Crown Store pop ups.
    3. Crafter emails.
    4. Tomes dailies.
    5. Whatever event thing is going on.
    6. The latest golden pursuit.
    7. Curtaros. God.
    8. Someone spamming spells.

    It can be a lot. Now, I do apologize for coming off as cranky. Newborn has me sleeping really little, but still wanted to convey where these mailers can quickly land in some annoying territory. I take ownership of the fact that a lot of it is on me and my situation, and I adjust my memberships and setting accordingly. But in the interest of the community building, it's good to know some people have lower thresholds. Best of luck finding that happy medium.
  • SilverBride
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    Blame spam emails and postal junk mail for lowering the threshold for in game mail. It's bad enough to have to deal with these IRL but please, not in my game where I come to relax.
    PCNA
  • DragonRacer
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    Destai wrote: »

    It’s the attitude of “if you dare send more than one mail every few months” or “if my trader guild sends even ONE mail about raffle, I am immediately quitting that guild!” that I found wildly shocking. I don’t think that’s a very fair or reasonable onus to put on your guild’s GM or officers, particularly the latter which is essentially a direct quote from a post in this very thread. It comes off as guilting people about using a new, wanted feature at all like how dare we.

    Surely there is a happy medium.

    Here's where that statement comes from. I was in a guild that updated the MOTD multiple times an hour. I typically don't mind if it's once a day or whatever, but it was every time I turned around. So right away, they're overcommunicating. Now, typically, I don't play with the chat window on, and when I do, literally all I see is raffles and auctions from these guys. Again, nothing wrong with that, just not my thing. But then, test emails started coming out, and then the raffle email landed. I made the decision that guild's not for me. I know where it was going and that's that.

    But taking a step back here, here's what I see right on log in:
    1. Guild MOTDs
    2. Crown Store pop ups.
    3. Crafter emails.
    4. Tomes dailies.
    5. Whatever event thing is going on.
    6. The latest golden pursuit.
    7. Curtaros. God.
    8. Someone spamming spells.

    It can be a lot. Now, I do apologize for coming off as cranky. Newborn has me sleeping really little, but still wanted to convey where these mailers can quickly land in some annoying territory. I take ownership of the fact that a lot of it is on me and my situation, and I adjust my memberships and setting accordingly. But in the interest of the community building, it's good to know some people have lower thresholds. Best of luck finding that happy medium.

    I do agree ESO in general has a ton of notification overload.

    And that guild sounds entirely over the top, I agree on that very clearly. That’s something I would view as an individual guild issue, though, rather than what originally felt like a blanket statement regarding all guilds daring to use the new mail system even once.

    For my part, I feel like this new system - for my trading guild, at least - will actually lead to LESS spamming plus will give me time back. There is a noticeable uptick in people buying raffle tickets when I would put the typical “reminder” in guild text chat every few hours or so. Which, of course, only catches people online at the time and who are even noticing chat. People log in, get distracted by the 8,000 other notifications, and forget. Go off and do their thing. See the GM advertise raffle in text chat and suddenly remember “Oh, right, I had wanted to buy tickets. Let me do that right now.” And ding pops my mail.

    I have had folks even say in chat that they had meant to buy tickets, had forgotten, and appreciated the reminder.

    Now, thanks to guild mail existing, I no longer have to a) feel weird/annoying about spamming guild chat every so often and b) can actually go play other games/run in trials/do other stuff besides guild management without feeling I am missing out on raffle reminders to support the guild trader. I can simply pop off a guild mail covering one to two updates and include the raffle reminder in it and know that every member received it. Not just who is online the same time I am. And I can do that once rather than spam chat throughout the day.

    To me, that feels far less spammy/annoying than the old methods we had for advertising guild fundraisers, hence part of my general excitement over the new system.

    Congrats on the newborn! I know it must be stressful and exhausting, but hopefully the rewarding experience as your family grows will more than make up for it. Wishing you wellness and happiness in that endeavor!
    PS5 NA. GM of The PTK's - a free trading guild (CP 500+). Also a werewolf, bites are free when they're available. PSN = DragonRacer13
  • katanagirl1
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    It is dependent on the player and the platform as mentioned above. Console has this shiny new tool and from my perspective it is very helpful. I’m not getting spammed with messages though. PC has probably dealt with spam mails longer and has a lower tolerance for it. We engage in guild text chat and voice chat (which PC does not have) so many like me prefer to communicate on the platform you are already using rather than do the second screen thing. I don’t even use discord on the PS because of the data breach they had, I feel safer using it on an iPad that has no personal account information on it. I just don’t like multitasking, plus as I said my off-screen time is my personal time, if I do go to discord it is for a minute or less and I haven’t logged in for a couple of weeks.

    It is up to the individual though, if you don’t communicate that you are getting too many notifications then it seems rude to threaten to quit over it. I don’t get bothered by zone text selling though, like other players do, so my threshold is pretty high and just letting them pass me by is easier than getting upset about it.
    PS5 NA
  • Sharlikran
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    What I find interesting is that over the years I've seen complaints about nearly every method guilds use to communicate.

    The Message of the Day is annoying. Guild chat is spam. Discord shouldn't be required. Mass mail addons were criticized. Now in-game guild mail is being criticized as well.

    At some point, though, successful guilds need a way to communicate with their members. Traders don't fund themselves, auctions don't organize themselves, raffles don't run themselves, and guild halls don't appear by magic. All of those things require volunteers contributing time, gold, resources, and effort.

    What stood out to me in this discussion is that some people seem to want all of the benefits of a highly organized guild while objecting to every method the guild uses to stay organized.

    This reminds me of discussions around sales-data addons. Many players want accurate pricing, personal sales tracking, and market information instantly available, but often don't want to think about the work required to collect, process, and maintain that information. It's a bit like expecting a streaming service experience without considering the infrastructure behind it.

    Not every guild has sales requirements, donations, raffles, or Discord expectations. There are plenty of casual guilds, social guilds, housing guilds, and crafting guilds available. If a guild's communication style or participation level isn't a good fit, finding a different guild is usually a better solution than expecting every guild to stop communicating.

    Of course nobody wants endless low-value spam. But a few well-timed messages each week about guild activities seem like a reasonable trade-off for the services and opportunities that active guilds provide.
  • Calastir
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    Nordstern wrote: »
    Idk if it's glitched but the problem for me is that the same old guild mails will pop up again when I log again, even tho I already deleted them. If it's intended that way, it needs to be changed. Makes zero sense.
    Same here. Deleted some 10 day old messages 10 times already, yet they keep returning and piling up along with the new ones.
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  • LalMirchi
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    Sometimes I wish we had a settings page only for options. There are so many facets of this games that make me wish for opting out (some parts of the game), ideally per character.

    However a dedicated Options Settings Page is unfortunately just my pipe dream.
  • FurryCandyHearts
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    The guild mail sucks. The first day of it i got a mail from a guild. After i read it i deleted it - or so i thought. Next day and every day since the original mail reappears in my box and every day i report to zos that their guild mail sucks and they cant write code and on and on and every day the mail s deleted and every day it returns. The guild isn't spamming me, zos is. They couldnt code a simple mail client? really?
  • spartaxoxo
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    Sadly, I find this in my daily job as well. It is a people problem. Some pay attention but many, many others do not and instead come to you asking things that *should* be obvious.

    Also sometimes life just happens and it can throw people off. Sometimes people are busy. Sometimes they're going through some private tragedy. Sometimes they've just not been getting enough sleep. So they'll ask questions they should already know or forget things that they meant to do.

    I think the guild mail system is a good thing.
    Edited by spartaxoxo on June 22, 2026 10:40PM
  • DenverRalphy
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    @ZOS_Icy @ZOS_Kevin This thread can be closed. It went wildy off in a direction of which I did not intend when I started it.
  • ZOS_Hadeostry
    Greetings,

    As the original creator of the thread requested it closed, we have done that.
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