Not connecting but group finder keeps timing out or "unusually long search time". Xbox na

I'm getting almost every day. Log in play a bit. Sometimes a few minutes, sometimes longer getting disconnected. And booted from server.
Can't log back in
If I switch accounts works fine no problem.
Always happens on my main account. Pc na

Had the same issue this morning. I was stuck on "Request character load" for about 1 minute and a half, then I was finally able to get to the loading screen. Login on my main took bloody ages (about 5 mins or so). PC EU

As a side note, on things that is going on for months now is that very often, while we are in a dungeon, usually in the very hectic moments (when there is a lot of stuff going on since we usually do Vet DLC Hardmodes) one of us it booted out from the server. It may or may not happen, in different boss fights, different dungeons, but the pattern is always the same. Hectic moment, the screen freeze for a bit (4 or 5 seconds) then you are booted out from the server and you have to wait about 5 mins before being able to login again. Happens quite randomly but quite regularly (let say at least once every evening) to someone of us (sometimes happens to me, sometimes to one of my friends, but almost every evening at least one of us get booted out for some reason).