You are similar to me...i too am lf similar guild but have not had much luck. We even have same avatar 😊
I joing guilds and they are either too quiet where you say hello and noone responds so you feel ignored or they are all about parses and harcore hm vets. I'm friendly, respectful, have a sense of humour and I'm helpful but I also want my own space sometimes to do solo content.
I enjoy doing group dungeons too and even sometimes and trials but again not harcore sweaty hm trials.
I cant seem to find the right balance for me.