So this is just a story of something that happened to me and I wanted to hear everyone's opinion.
Context: I'm a PvPer who ques as a tank to do my random daily dungeon on normal. I don't have ESO plus active and haven't purchased many DLCs outright, so the list of dungeons available to me is pretty minimal and pretty easy.
So there you go. Yes I fake tank and yes it's to skip the que. I do try my best to be a good tank though, aside from the gear. I taunt, debuff, try to group things, and do decent damage.
I loaded into Blackheart Haven and stood there for 5 or 10 seconds looking at the CP levels of who was on my team and waiting to see if they started out across the docks or wanted to swim to bypass some pirates. Nobody, at this point, said they were looking for gear or trying to do the quest. But we did go over the docks, and I noticed two players were being slower than myself and the healer. I paused at the end of the docks and waited before doing the big pulls at the base of the wrecked ships. We made it through this as a team and did the boss who kicks people off the deck. I took him into the little room so nobody got kicked off the deck. Killed him... Had to go around and finish off some adds before using the door-- which is normal at this point in this dungeon I think.
When I went through the door I just kept going. I don't run through areas from boss to boss... But I was melting these low level mobs, so I guess I was going pretty fast although killing literally everything as I went. At a point I did realize the two were still lagging behind but I honestly just thought they were slow, and I'll admit I didn't want to wait because I didn't know why they were slow.
Made it to the next boss, Atarus the Masher or whatever... And did actually wait about 30 seconds to see if anyone else was coming. They didn't come. I pulled. At the exact (basically,) time I pulled one of the two typed "stop being in combat please I'm doing the quest!" But it was too late. The healer and I killed the boss, during which time the other person had said some other things... "Oh great," and "looks like it's time to make another character."
The last thing seemed especially over the top to me and when we killed the boss I typed "oh relax." To which they responded "I'm a completionist." And I said "well you can do the dungeon again... I wouldn't have done that if I'd known, I'm sorry."
With everyone caught up now, no longer having a reason to go slow I guess, we completed the dungeon as a 4-man. Before starting the final boss I stopped and said "sorry again," and they said "it's okay, not your fault, I'm a completionist."
After the dungeon the healer, who'd kept up with me all along, whispered me and said "you have nothing to apologize for, you were nicer than some people would've been," and this made me laugh because I thought to myself man this fellow must use the forums.
But so I guess I just want to ask if I did anything wrong. I could've said something better than "relax" I suppose but the thought of this person making a new character because they didn't get some Blackheart Haven achievement first time through made my eyes roll. In the end it was very amicable, so that makes me happy.
But ultimately if you enter a dungeon and you have some special goals in mind shouldn't you say so in the beginning?