Greetings.
First i wanna say that i played many other MMO's before like WoW, Aion, Tera and FFXIV. 3 Of those i left because they have gone to Oblivion. FF14 is still fine on the PvE side but i do a lot of PvP (Grand General in Aion, Lieutenant Commander in WoW, Hunter Wolf in FF14) and the PvP aspect of FF 14 is horrible wich i can say with ample experience since i made Top 100 in their rated PvP "Arenas" before the Changes that made pvp so bad. No Gear, no Crits, 10 skills max per Class/Job. It is utterly boring and dull.
So first when you start ESO you have to do 210 Levels, not 50 as it is stated. Because of the Items scaling with CP. Everything Gearwise you Gather before hitting CP 160 is of no worth.
Leveling through the dungeons i immediatly learned that reading or listening to quest text in dungeons is a NO NO in ESO, even if you tell them that you are new here. In some cases you get kicked if you dont skip your questtext and keep up with the group. So i skipped all Questtexts and googled it if i was interested in the Story surrounding certain quests.
In the End that lead to me leveling through a lot of low level battlegrounds wich were very fun. When i started: CTR, Chaosball and Domination still existed and i prefered those modes over Deathmatch.
Hitting 160 CP, i did stick to normal Dungeons for a while, those however were rediculously easy and i barely got to see any bossmechanics. So i went into Veteran Dungeons, i mean its available in the Random Dungeon search so it cant be that hard right? Wrong! I tried to play a DPS character in ESO since i tanked or healed in every other MMO before but damn, DPS in ESO requires you to Study every Skill, weaving and certain affinities in between skills while barswapping and hoping the Server doesnt lag you out. I managed to get to 25k singletarget dps but still got kicked or players instantly left. So here i was again, playing healer. I Read through some Stuff about buffing your Group, help them with sustain and of course keep them alive. Suddenly it worked and i believe i cleared every Vet dungeon available at this moment, DLC ones included. All of the accomplishments were dampened though, i did not want to heal again, but playing DPS has to much requirements in ESO.
I also kept playing PvP, mostly BG's. Suddenly there was only Deathmatch and as a Healer, you have a massive disadvantage when it comes to points. So my Daily BG spam got reduced to one BG daily for the Bonus and then trying Cyrodiil. First thing i noticed is that you are again duly squadoodled if you played just a month at this point. Riding speed to low: always to late. Requirement to play Cyrodiil effectively: 2 months playtime at least. Or someone who buys you Riding lessons. This is of course a pay 2 win thing. Creating a Problem wich you sell the Solution for: for real money. A widely spread problem in pay2plays.
Finally able to keep up with other players i noticed the horrible performance of the Servers. In the Evenings it sometimes takes 3 seconds or more till a skill fires. The Bugs are also plenty. One Evening i had 5 Debuffs going for 42000 hours. Sometimes i cannot run anymore or i cannot press any skill whatsoever and i am forced to relog to fix this problem. <--Especially unpleasant when you are holding a Elder Scroll at this moment. There are also players who actively abuse bugs regularly and despite uncountable reports they are still doing the same stuff.
Then i started leading loads of Groups in non CP Ravenwatch because the Pact apparently has very few leaders and suddenly found myself in Top 10. With the Assistance of 2 very nice people i became Emperor before hitting the 2 Month mark on playing the Game. Since then i was Emperor 5 more times within the same campaign though. It was a nice experience but heavily tainted by the bad servers and the players constantly abusing bugs or outright cheating.
My personal Conclusion for ESO: It could have been my new main game were it not for the incredibly bad moderation, monetisation"practices" and dismissive behaviour towards insulting and cheating/bugusing people. I once recorded 4 people with the Chaosball, bugging themselves to their graveyard so both other Teams couldnt reach it. The report with the video has 0 views to this day. Many of the bugs i encountered have plagued the Game for years as i have been told by many fellow pvpers and there was no effort on fixing them. The extremely high requirements for Players who want to play DPS do not help, they actively prevent me from playing what i wish to play. So when the FF14 Expansion goes live, i _might_ /will /likely play that again until i cleared all the PvE content wich is usually a lot and takes months to level/clear through. Then i _maybe_ come back for some BG's if CTR, Domination, Crazy king and so on are a thing again.
I am sure there are many typos and mistakes in this text but as you probably guessed: English is not my native Tongue.
Thanks for reading and have a pleasant day.
Edit: says he tried to fix some words and typos.
[edited for bashing & goodbye/quitting thread]
Edited so its no longer "bashing" or a straight Goodbye Thread as stated by ZoS.
Edited by Einar_Hrafnarsson on October 24, 2021 4:59PM