But as a customer (and just as someone who appreciates the medium) I too-often feel disappointed and/or disrespected by the company's products and actions (or lack thereof) in some areas, and am just the type of person who's inclined to call it like I see it. I don't have a negative take on things because it's fun or because I have unrealistic standards that are impossible to meet -- it's just genuinely how I see things a lot of times with ESO, sadly. It's honestly disappointing and frustrating; which is in no small part where the negative attitudes come from for a lot of us, unsurprisingly.
then stop being a customer. If you like a shop but the shop doesn't treat you properly as a customer, sadly for the good of both, you have to break it up. Only you suffer in this relationship. They will suffer if they lose their customers. Losing you will mean nothing, losing everyone will mean the change everyone wants. As long as greed is fed, it will be stronger than quality. It is not necessarily customer's fault, but the fault of customers that continue paying even though they receive less quality both of a product and company than it should be.