It's specifically bad recently. I need people to stay in PvP. I'd hate for PvP and Bg's to lose people because they get thrown in terrible, horrible matchups and decide to quit.

Going to respond to a few parts of your post, which I've quoted below.

Xebov wrote: »

1. Now half of the players run around in more or less specialized PvE gear and the other half runs around with more or less specialized PvP gear. Matches often become very one sided and after i tried it again in Dragonhold i can say its a shitshow, nothing more.

2. I tried recently to get some PvP gear going but all it does is letting me survive like 7 seconds instead of 5 and for the equal games it had no benefit.

3. I dont see any room for improvement anymore because 5-7s life spawns dont offer much room to try and get into it and in the matches i get stomped im dead ~75% of the time anyways and waiting for a respawn.

4. So long story short, i realy would like to have fun in PvP, but so far it only ends up as a grave for the gold spend on equipment and me turning into a sand bag for "pro players". Im sure im not the only one.

On point 1.

There is no specialised PvP gear, really. There's a few sets that 'reduce damage done by players' but in general, these sets are actually not good and not used. What you're running into are builds that have very strong synergising sets - sometimes even good in PvE. Know what these sets are and how to use them in a build is half the work.

On point 2.

Not sure what you mean by trying on PvP gear but you're better off looking for some guides or tips from ingame players that you know are good players and play your class. Their advice on what sets they use, which skills they use and what they use to defend and attack will be ten times more useful to you than any focussed PvP set.

On point 3.

This is true. I often wonder how new players learn in PvP. I mean, if you fight smallscale, 80% of the time, you're fighting people that are comfortable in smallscale and will destroy you. If you then choose large scale, your own build and skill doesn't matter because you win through numbers and light attacks. So you don't learn, meaning you keep zerging or dying in 5 seconds. While I doubt I can think of a fix in general. If you have no opportunities to learn, perhaps ask people that killed you or that beat you in BG's if they can share some advice, tips and tricks. Some of what they'll tell you might be eye-opening

On Point 4.

You're not the only one. Advice was given earlier in this thread to queue solo. Well I did. And then I was fighting premades with a team of new players. MMR needs to sort out premades and not match them up with solo players. Pre-mades imo is anything that is a group when you queue. 2 players is a pre-made. When the pre-made is 3 people, it can uniquely search for high MMR players to fill that last slot. And yes, that means queues will be long. Solo Queue should be solo queue. All solo. With a combined team MMR to assure that in general, teams are sort of matched.

If anything, the takeaway is: Ask for help from players that beat you. If you get Kill Counter addon, you can see who killed you and whisper them to ask for advice. Learn from that, because the game itself is too brutal to learn from.