SeaGtGruff wrote: »Yeah, I was tempted to take a screenshot of it and report the player, but I was in a hurry to log out for dinner so I didn't. Also, I'd rather not get into the practice of reporting other players and getting them banned or whatever, unless it's for something pretty extreme.
It is pretty extreme, Twitch bans streamers for using racist comments, including viewers as well also nearly every online game that i have played perm bans your accounts as well for using racial slurs
SeaGtGruff wrote: »Yeah, I was tempted to take a screenshot of it and report the player, but I was in a hurry to log out for dinner so I didn't. Also, I'd rather not get into the practice of reporting other players and getting them banned or whatever, unless it's for something pretty extreme.
DocFrost72 wrote: »
I've not had racist comments directed at me thankfully but I have had people tell me I have psychological problems because of the characters I play - one who kept on (and on, and on) insisting the only reason anyone has ever played a khajiit is because they're a furry and if I say that's nothing to do with it then I'm a furry in denial. And one who said I must be transsexual if I'm female in real life and playing a male character and I need to see a doctor and get cured.
This one confuses the heck out of me. If you play a *character* in a videogame that is different than you are irl, you need help? Does every male playing tomb raider need help? Does every woman playing Carl Johnson in GTA:SA need help? I'd argue if you can only ever play a toon that looks like or is you, you're closer to needing help. Additionally, trans =/= gender dysphoria. Just by being trans, there's nothing medically to treat.
The furry one is right though.Yes, that is sarcasm.
WuffyCerulei wrote: »To anyone saying “it’s the internet, get over it,” it’s no excuse to be a racist piece of garbage.
Note, I mean that slur and whatnot. Not the in-game racism between the races of Tamriel.
Goregrinder wrote: »WuffyCerulei wrote: »To anyone saying “it’s the internet, get over it,” it’s no excuse to be a racist piece of garbage.
Note, I mean that slur and whatnot. Not the in-game racism between the races of Tamriel.
It's just life advice. Being offended by everything, isn't an excuse to have to rectify everything, so you are longer offended by it. The world can't conform to your personal standards or morals, people can't be molded to always treat you the way you want them to treat you.
People are people, the universe is just a bunch of events happening that occasionally intersect each other at some point in time and space. Whether they are "good" or "bad" are always subjective based on whoever is observing them. I have stopped thinking with the mindset of how people "SHOULD" behave or act, because you cannot control that. You can't. You are not Thanos.
Instead, I ask myself how do I "want" to be treated. Once you decide, you give your time and energy to those who treat you the way you deemed acceptable, and don't give those who treat you otherwise, your time or energy. You can't force anything here, you can only choose where your time and energy gets spent. If someone hates your favorite band, then they hate it. If that offends you, well that is your right to have those feelings, but they are "your" feelings, your business, not their feelings, not their business.
This applies to anything negative in your life. The more effort you spend on trying to force other people to behave the way you think they should, is less effort spent on progressing your own life, your own goals, or enjoying your own time with people you really want to enjoy them with. And the argument of "Well if you're not AGAINST something...then you're promoting it!!" is an absolutist argument. It's not about whether you are for or against something...picking sides is such a linear way of thinking.
Really it is deciding if their is a problem, and if there is deciding if there are solutions, if there are, figuring out all possible solutions, and then determining which one would benefit everyone. It's not " well..it's either option A, or option B...pick..right NOW....".
Is it really worth getting upset about what someone says to you? Regardless of what words they use, what inflection they project, what their intentions may be...is it worth wasting your limited time on this planet over some words by some random human somewhere on the planet? I really don't feel it is. I've been heckled many times in my life, but honestly they are heckling my appearance which is tied to my body/vessel/vehicle (whatever adjective you want to use to describe it).
When I die, this body is going to decompose and probably be eaten by fauna, bugs, other organisms (assuming I don't get cremated or something), and will cease to exist as it is. But I don't define my existence based solely my body, looks, appearance. It is just a shell full of sensors enabling me to experience this 3rd dimension existence. Worrying about what he said she said, worrying about the guy down the street from you not obeying the HOA laws with his pink flamingos in his yard, worrying about what some dude in the youtube comments section said...it's just so pointless.
Words are are just random sounds we make with our mouths, and vibrations traveling through the air. They are also just different configurations of symbols we call "letters". They are a means to convey an idea, so really what offends you is actually the "idea" that someone has, not so much the literally act of speaking those words, and that their idea is vastly different from your ideas. But if that really offends you, then I really can't help you.
SeaGtGruff wrote: »Does anyone ever receive racist comments from other players while playing ESO?
I know that some players who are playing Dark Elf or High Elf characters sometimes like to RP and give players who are playing Argonian or Khajiit characters a hard time, talking about slavery.
And I've seen at least one player in one of the guilds I'm in being verbally abusive toward other players in the guild during AvA warfare in Cyrodiil, calling them "f*****s." I was shocked to see that, but I'm not sure if it was intended to be taken personally or was just supposed to be some sort of "army barracks" macho man talk.
Anyway, in my case I was playing a Redguard character and last night another player made a racist comment which I believe was aimed at me. Frankly, I tend to ignore the chat box while playing-- unless I'm doing a group activity-- so I didn't even notice his comments until afterward, and by then I'd moved away from the more densely populated area of the city I was in and couldn't see who had spoken. The reason I think he may have been speaking to me is because he asked whether I (or whoever he was speaking to) was a Breton or a "N*-**-guard," where "N*-**" was a 4-letter hyphenated form of "the N word." Although my character is a Redguard, he has a last name which might be taken as Breton. It was actually intended as an "occupational" name ("Outrider"), but in the real world I think it was mainly used in Britain-- at least, it got turned around to become a British surname ("Rideout") and its variant spellings.
It's possible that this other player wasn't even speaking to me, but he was clearly speaking to someone-- and his pejorative term for Redguard was clearly racist.
Although I found it to be offensive, the fact that I'm a 60-year-old white dude meant that I didn't react to it as strongly as someone else might have, but that's beside the point.
Do any of you ever receive racist or pejorative comments based on your characters? Or have you seen other players receiving such comments? How do you feel about this sort of thing? I know it's against the game's TOS, but that doesn't stop some people from doing it anyway.
Even the ZOS team isn't exactly diverse when it comes to racial backgrounds - so the urgency of the matter doesn't weigh against other issues that they have to contend with ...
...just because someone says that they haven't seen any instance of racism or haven't experienced it themselves doesn't invalidate its existence but reinforces their privilege.
I reported him and hopefully he received a ban. [snip] quote]
And we were doing so good too...
Chicharron wrote: »I have never experienced racism, although i do not usually pay attention to the chat, for me, any character that i see is an NPC.
I see more racism in the forum disguised.
I do not think it should be given that much importance, that kind of people are usually losers in real life.
SeaGtGruff wrote: »Does anyone ever receive racist comments from other players while playing ESO?
I know that some players who are playing Dark Elf or High Elf characters sometimes like to RP and give players who are playing Argonian or Khajiit characters a hard time, talking about slavery.
And I've seen at least one player in one of the guilds I'm in being verbally abusive toward other players in the guild during AvA warfare in Cyrodiil, calling them "f*****s." I was shocked to see that, but I'm not sure if it was intended to be taken personally or was just supposed to be some sort of "army barracks" macho man talk.
Anyway, in my case I was playing a Redguard character and last night another player made a racist comment which I believe was aimed at me. Frankly, I tend to ignore the chat box while playing-- unless I'm doing a group activity-- so I didn't even notice his comments until afterward, and by then I'd moved away from the more densely populated area of the city I was in and couldn't see who had spoken. The reason I think he may have been speaking to me is because he asked whether I (or whoever he was speaking to) was a Breton or a "N*-**-guard," where "N*-**" was a 4-letter hyphenated form of "the N word." Although my character is a Redguard, he has a last name which might be taken as Breton. It was actually intended as an "occupational" name ("Outrider"), but in the real world I think it was mainly used in Britain-- at least, it got turned around to become a British surname ("Rideout") and its variant spellings.
It's possible that this other player wasn't even speaking to me, but he was clearly speaking to someone-- and his pejorative term for Redguard was clearly racist.
Although I found it to be offensive, the fact that I'm a 60-year-old white dude meant that I didn't react to it as strongly as someone else might have, but that's beside the point.
Do any of you ever receive racist or pejorative comments based on your characters? Or have you seen other players receiving such comments? How do you feel about this sort of thing? I know it's against the game's TOS, but that doesn't stop some people from doing it anyway.
DocFrost72 wrote: »Not racist, no. I even played an argonian and the worst I ever got called was "Boots" by my wife in RP.
The word you saw used is OOC. It's fine if a breton thinks all redguard are shifty in an rp (there's lore explaining cultural clash and mistrust), it's not fine to bring real world racism into game. If it upsets you enough to do it and you still have the chat or screenshots of it, report and let ZOS adjudicate.
PrayingSeraph wrote: »Role play racism is perfectly fine, as long as it stays directed at the fictional races. If it bothers you, play a different game. Racism is a big part of TES lore, as are culture conflicts and integration issues. These make the world much more realistic and deep
If you want to roleplay a "racist" character, and they want to roleplay their argonian with you... why not? There can be a lot of fun roleplay to be had in many flavors... (And no, I am not talking about ERP raceplay!)Chicharron wrote: »If someone who does not care about the lore plays with an argonian just for the appearance.
Is it okay to be racist with him just because it fits the lore?