Have you tried your hand at apex mount farming through crown crates? It's the new alternative to PvP and I can assure you, there are never any bugs or performance issues.
PvP is such a small part of the game and typically is with this type of MMO.
As for OP, they have not fixed it in almost 5 years, certainly not before the last two MYMs. I do not think they will give in to your demand.
I wish they would take the approach they claim they are with GF events (though they are technically backing off that with MYM) and not have any GF events until they fix the GF. My guess is they will once again claim they thought they fixed it. Technically MYM is a GF event due to BGs. It is the same GF.
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