So im aware this subject appears in several other threads however i have a problem with the many many too many acronyms and fragmented/outdated info.
Been playing eso for a while now but with huge breaks so im not sure if from the 2 years ive actually got more than 3-4 months of playing. Being that im now in my 30s and have been playing mmos most of my life, i am a quite peculiar type of player these days who prefers to stay away from drama and the usual berating that goes on when stuff goes wrong in groups. Basically ive quite isolated myself and only cared about solo challeges with my healer class. I never paid attention to guides and such things as i just wanted to deal with things while experiencing them for myself. However i reached that time when i do need to start running vet dungeons and i find the whole thing a bother. I dont want to hinder my group. I realized that in these past two years much has changed and possibly my specs now are not the choices i would make if i were to start again, nor are my gears. But im not sure where to start.
Im looking for suggestions in terms of gear, hp, skills and without the acronyms which i see everywhere (for sets and dungeons and classes too). Im not trying to be the superhero healer, just to know whether i meet the basics or not. Thank you!