I was in Cyrodiil last night and this is what I saw on the chat.
“LFG”
“LFG”
“Why is no one helping!”
“PVP is stupid! I just want Vigor!”
“PVP is stupid! I just want Vigor!”
“PVP is stupid! I just want Vigor!”
You get the point. It went on and on. Essentially because no one gave this person a group invite within 30 seconds of asking he then started spamming the chat about how much he hates PVP. That in and of itself isn’t a big deal, but of course it prompted a few people to start trolling him - myself included. Nothing bad, but silly stuff like “soloing is the path you seek” type stuff. At that point the messages started getting spammed hardcore about how awful the people are and how we’re all just mean spirited jerks. Of course he admitted to only being in PVP because his guildmaster “demanded” that he upgrade Vigor but that’s besides the point.
The point is that if you want help, just ask nicely and don’t demand it. Someone will help you in a few minutes. But barging into any activity, PVP, PVE, knitting, poker, square dancing, thermal nuclear physics, whatever ... don’t start by telling all the people who are doing what they enjoy how stupid their chosen activity is. All you are going to get then is trolled and you’ll end up self fulfilling your own prophecy.
As for Cyrodiil specifically, just look for the biggest fight on your map, port there and spam some heals from the top of the wall. You’ll have Vigor in one night. You don’t even need a group or be able to actually help.
Anyway, I don’t think that joining a dungeon and spamming the chat about how stupid it is to run dungeons is going to endear you to PVErs so if you truly hate PVP, don’t make it worse on yourself. Just be cool and cool people will help.