Every time my partner and I go into the instance, we end up in completely different instances, no matter what. We can't get into the same one. Any help on this?
Maybe. maybe not. My brother and I were trying to meet up in Mistral. We couldn't see one another. Well, I couldn't see him: He could see my 'cursor' (whatever he meant by that). We both tried teleporting, we tried logging out and in, nothing seemed to work. Then after giving up I went to deconstruct some loot. When I returned to the bank I saw him reading his scroll. So all I can recommend is to persevere!
Behold the great Oak. Just a little nut who stood his ground.