Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
I've returned to the game about a week ago, and I can't stress enough how important it is to take a break from this game.Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
Stovahkiin wrote: »You’re not alone. Over the last couple years, I’ve found it very difficult to stick with the game for more than a week at a time. Especially since One Tam dropped, there just isn’t any real sense of progression or long term goal for me.
So my brother and I are kind of casual. We don't raid, we don't even do any repetitive content like dungeon farming. We kind of care about good gear, though, so we go for the best crafted options, because they are good in this game and also easy to get. We quest together and enjoy some activities like everything that has to do with stealth and thievery. My brother is from Skyrim with no MMO history, so you get why he is like this. I'm with a lot of MMO history, someone who's done it all, been to the top in other games and now can't be bothered anymore.
However, when it comes to it, we struggle to find a long-term goal in this game. We see no point in personal houses because they have little purpose. Hoarding money can be fun for a while, but it can't be the ultimate goal. Personally, I'm a fashion freak, so motif-hunting can be fun to some extent, but at some point I realized I have more styles than I would ever need, and even if I discovered something new and attractive I wouldn't bother creating an outfit with it. And my brother couldn't care less about looks.
So what we need is something attractive and purposeful that we enjoy doing. Stealing worked for us, while we still needed money for unlocks and gear. It's actually still great, I'm just finding less and less reason to justify doing it. As far as I'm concerned Morrowind was the greatest expansion ever as I love the Great Houses, their stories and styles, and the game provided a lot of reason and opportunity to go crazy on the island. Now it's over. Time for Summerset and I fear it's the end for us if the game doesn't bring something along the lines of what we need.
Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
So my brother and I are kind of casual. We don't raid, we don't even do any repetitive content like dungeon farming. We kind of care about good gear, though, so we go for the best crafted options, because they are good in this game and also easy to get. We quest together and enjoy some activities like everything that has to do with stealth and thievery. My brother is from Skyrim with no MMO history, so you get why he is like this. I'm with a lot of MMO history, someone who's done it all, been to the top in other games and now can't be bothered anymore.
However, when it comes to it, we struggle to find a long-term goal in this game. We see no point in personal houses because they have little purpose. Hoarding money can be fun for a while, but it can't be the ultimate goal. Personally, I'm a fashion freak, so motif-hunting can be fun to some extent, but at some point I realized I have more styles than I would ever need, and even if I discovered something new and attractive I wouldn't bother creating an outfit with it. And my brother couldn't care less about looks.
So what we need is something attractive and purposeful that we enjoy doing. Stealing worked for us, while we still needed money for unlocks and gear. It's actually still great, I'm just finding less and less reason to justify doing it. As far as I'm concerned Morrowind was the greatest expansion ever as I love the Great Houses, their stories and styles, and the game provided a lot of reason and opportunity to go crazy on the island. Now it's over. Time for Summerset and I fear it's the end for us if the game doesn't bring something along the lines of what we need.
Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
Great comments, guys. You got me to think more about this and I realize that the last time I really enjoyed a game was when I was in a guild with friends. Not just a few, but a lot. It reminded me of when I was a kid, I could just show up at a friend's house and they would come out and we would go on an adventure. Now, obviously the sense of exploration has long died out in every MMO, but you can still have adventures you can undertake with your friends, right?
Except what? We stick to doing the main story and regional quests with my brother and it gets old. Destroy 3 magical wards in every quest. Every disease turns people into zombies. Every questline culminates in a nearby cave or crypt where you kill a bad joke of a boss. It is really repetitive, but what else to do? I genuinely don't know. We can go and kill every delve boss in an area, but what happens is there are other players in the delves who already killed the mobs and the boss is like a total joke, it takes 1-2 hits from each of us before it dies and we are lucky if we even notice that we were fighting the actual boss. What about daily quests? Exact same, except with even more people on them.
The point is there is no adventures to go on. I miss something that allows you to call a friend and it keeps you busy for at least an hour. The only reason I still can't get the RIFT Online out of my head is because that was the only game that had these duo dungeons that nobody played but they fulfilled I guess all my wishes: they took time, they required cooperation and they were quite hard - felt like an acheivement. In ESO I don't know what to do beside questing. We did the TG/DB which was kinda nice as we were at least working towards the same goal and did the main quests together.
So my brother and I are kind of casual. We don't raid, we don't even do any repetitive content like dungeon farming. We kind of care about good gear, though, so we go for the best crafted options, because they are good in this game and also easy to get. We quest together and enjoy some activities like everything that has to do with stealth and thievery. My brother is from Skyrim with no MMO history, so you get why he is like this. I'm with a lot of MMO history, someone who's done it all, been to the top in other games and now can't be bothered anymore.
However, when it comes to it, we struggle to find a long-term goal in this game. We see no point in personal houses because they have little purpose. Hoarding money can be fun for a while, but it can't be the ultimate goal. Personally, I'm a fashion freak, so motif-hunting can be fun to some extent, but at some point I realized I have more styles than I would ever need, and even if I discovered something new and attractive I wouldn't bother creating an outfit with it. And my brother couldn't care less about looks.
So what we need is something attractive and purposeful that we enjoy doing. Stealing worked for us, while we still needed money for unlocks and gear. It's actually still great, I'm just finding less and less reason to justify doing it. As far as I'm concerned Morrowind was the greatest expansion ever as I love the Great Houses, their stories and styles, and the game provided a lot of reason and opportunity to go crazy on the island. Now it's over. Time for Summerset and I fear it's the end for us if the game doesn't bring something along the lines of what we need.
Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
So my brother and I are kind of casual. We don't raid, we don't even do any repetitive content like dungeon farming. We kind of care about good gear, though, so we go for the best crafted options, because they are good in this game and also easy to get. We quest together and enjoy some activities like everything that has to do with stealth and thievery. My brother is from Skyrim with no MMO history, so you get why he is like this. I'm with a lot of MMO history, someone who's done it all, been to the top in other games and now can't be bothered anymore.
However, when it comes to it, we struggle to find a long-term goal in this game. We see no point in personal houses because they have little purpose. Hoarding money can be fun for a while, but it can't be the ultimate goal. Personally, I'm a fashion freak, so motif-hunting can be fun to some extent, but at some point I realized I have more styles than I would ever need, and even if I discovered something new and attractive I wouldn't bother creating an outfit with it. And my brother couldn't care less about looks.
So what we need is something attractive and purposeful that we enjoy doing. Stealing worked for us, while we still needed money for unlocks and gear. It's actually still great, I'm just finding less and less reason to justify doing it. As far as I'm concerned Morrowind was the greatest expansion ever as I love the Great Houses, their stories and styles, and the game provided a lot of reason and opportunity to go crazy on the island. Now it's over. Time for Summerset and I fear it's the end for us if the game doesn't bring something along the lines of what we need.
Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
So you don't do end-game content and wonder you feel as if there is no end-game? MMOs by their nature are social games...if you take the social aspect out of ESO, all you are left with is a game that you beat...just like Skyrim, or any other open-world game...eventually you run out of quests and things to do that are not group-oriented. If this is you...simply take a break from ESO until the next expansion comes out, then come back and finish the new content, then go on a break and repeat. You are acting like any given single-player game has more single-player content...and that isn't true. Don't like dungeons? Go get the flawless conqueror achievement from vMA. That will give you a goal to work toward for awhile, or take your brother and go duo vDSA, that will be fun challenge
I've returned to the game about a week ago, and I can't stress enough how important it is to take a break from this game.Like I said in the title, a special kind of player. I don't expect people to relate to this, but it would certainly help to know there are others like us. Because otherwise it may just be that we have grown out of gaming, which would be a problem.
The problem with "carrot on a stick" mechanics is exactly what you're feeling: no "end game" in sight, just constant grinding.
Finding "something to do, achieve, work for" in this game is difficult because the "end game" is the better gear as they game is set up. Vet dungeons aren't there just for the 1%. This is where you go to take what you've earned in the game playing all this time so you can start bragging about your new exploits.
If this isn't something you care to do, then it's apparent you've decided upon your "end game" and it's unlikely any new content will change this.
The carrot is going to win unless you find something unique and special to work towards. Perhaps achievement hunting? I hear fishing is one of the hardest to get in the game.
Take a break from the game. Read up on some articles or watch YT videos/live streams.
The reality is no matter how much advice you ask for, ultimately, it's going to come down to how you want to have fun.
Games stop being fun if you're viewing them as a chore.