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  • CMFan1966
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    I did have some random guy tell me I had a nice rear end one time. I didn't have the heart to tell him I am the mother of two adult children and I don't look anything like my characters.....anymore.

    I need to find a way to name one of my characters "I don't look like this in real life", but that's too many spaces for ESO to handle. ;)
  • Dakmor_Kavu
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    MMORPG: many men online role playing girls.

    But yes, I get asked if i "want to erp?" at least 2-3 times a week on my character.
  • Magdalina
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    It's always funny to see people hitting on my male friends playing skimpy female characters in revealing costumes :p I am an actual girl but I prefer realistic armor, as do most other girls on eso that I know actually...kind of makes you wonder if they end up hitting up males more often than not ;)
  • Velvelya
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    As a general rule, the better looking and built the female character is the more likely a man is playing it.
  • Hanzus
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    Magdalina wrote: »
    It's always funny to see people hitting on my male friends playing skimpy female characters in revealing costumes :p I am an actual girl but I prefer realistic armor, as do most other girls on eso that I know actually...kind of makes you wonder if they end up hitting up males more often than not ;)
    This is actually the norm, I believe. My wife also prefers more realistic armor, as well as other women I know.
    Makes me wonder if all the skimpy outfit girls on here ARE men....hmmm :#

    "Walk always in the light, or we will drag you to it."
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  • platonicidealgirlfriend
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    this has never happened to me, and I'm going to go out and a limb and guess that it's related to being the only eso player to bottom out the breast slider
    Edited by platonicidealgirlfriend on September 26, 2017 12:08AM
  • Runefang
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    Hanzus wrote: »
    Magdalina wrote: »
    It's always funny to see people hitting on my male friends playing skimpy female characters in revealing costumes :p I am an actual girl but I prefer realistic armor, as do most other girls on eso that I know actually...kind of makes you wonder if they end up hitting up males more often than not ;)
    This is actually the norm, I believe. My wife also prefers more realistic armor, as well as other women I know.
    Makes me wonder if all the skimpy outfit girls on here ARE men....hmmm :#

    Wouldn't surprise me if the OP was a man.
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*
  • Hippie4927
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    Runefang wrote: »
    Hanzus wrote: »
    Magdalina wrote: »
    It's always funny to see people hitting on my male friends playing skimpy female characters in revealing costumes :p I am an actual girl but I prefer realistic armor, as do most other girls on eso that I know actually...kind of makes you wonder if they end up hitting up males more often than not ;)
    This is actually the norm, I believe. My wife also prefers more realistic armor, as well as other women I know.
    Makes me wonder if all the skimpy outfit girls on here ARE men....hmmm :#



    I can guarantee you that I am NOT a man! I am a 68 year old woman who just happens to really like that dark shaman outfit.
    Edited by Hippie4927 on September 26, 2017 12:16AM
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  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Icy_Waffles wrote: »
    You're clearly flattered.

    Nah, not flattered. Just find it funny. Instead of hitting on real women, these people resort to hitting on pixels.
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Runefang wrote: »
    Hanzus wrote: »
    Magdalina wrote: »
    It's always funny to see people hitting on my male friends playing skimpy female characters in revealing costumes :p I am an actual girl but I prefer realistic armor, as do most other girls on eso that I know actually...kind of makes you wonder if they end up hitting up males more often than not ;)
    This is actually the norm, I believe. My wife also prefers more realistic armor, as well as other women I know.
    Makes me wonder if all the skimpy outfit girls on here ARE men....hmmm :#

    Wouldn't surprise me if the OP was a man.

    Why would I complain if I were a man? Your statement is flawed, sir.
  • Verbal_Earthworm
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    Edited by Verbal_Earthworm on September 26, 2017 12:22AM
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.
  • Tasear
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    :lol: why is always a man who tells story? Do guys build better female characters? Maybe in perspective of men, because I keeping lookie at tiara and hairstyle a bit dumbfounded with that outfit not to mention the lip ring. It's very mysterious.
  • Verbal_Earthworm
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.

    I am a woman actually. Great argument you have there.
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.

    I am a woman actually. Great argument you have there.

    They still have professional help.
  • Verbal_Earthworm
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.

    I am a woman actually. Great argument you have there.

    They still have professional help.

    Try choosing a gender-neutral name next time. We all know what happens when people assume.
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.

    I am a woman actually. Great argument you have there.

    They still have professional help.

    Try choosing a gender-neutral name next time. We all know what happens when people assume.

    What? What does that even have to do with my original post? Are you off your rocker?
    Edited by missjackieb14_ESO on September 26, 2017 12:28AM
  • Verbal_Earthworm
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Verbal_Earthworm wrote: »
    OP, maybe stop dressing like a "lady of the night"

    Seriously? I can't wear a cute outfit without some dummy trying to shame me? *rolls eyes*

    You are clearly misleading everyone with this thread.

    Your character is not you, so your actual sex is still undetermined, so is the actual sex of anyone who propositioned you, or indeed myself.

    Just sounds like you want to bash men for little reason.

    I point out the obvious and you label me a "dummy".

    You shame yourself.



    *groan*

    I wasn't shaming men in the first place. I was making a funny post.. to point out something funny. It's obvious you have some hangups about women. They have professional help for that.

    I am a woman actually. Great argument you have there.

    They still have professional help.

    Try choosing a gender-neutral name next time. We all know what happens when people assume.

    What? What does that even have to do with my original post? Are you off your rocker?

    What does trying to label me as mentally unstable have to do with it either?

    Get a grip.

    Edited by Verbal_Earthworm on September 26, 2017 12:33AM
  • MudcrabSammich
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    I think from now on, I'm just going to lie and tell them I'm some 500 pound hairy naked guy, with sausage nips.

    we really need an eeeuw and a lol button
  • itehache
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    My character is a cute bosmer. I usually dress her up with nice costumes and stuff and I have never, ever ever, gotten any whisper like the ones you have received.
  • FrancisCrawford
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    WhitePawPrints wrote: »
    This one is a single, golden furred Khajiit, looking for another Khajiit, either sex interested in yoga, killing nords and orcs, and moonsugar cooking!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaJ9MpMbaNY

    A serious song, but a beautiful one that your post brought to mind. Only later did I recall that the singer has subsequently undergone a sex change from female to male.

  • FrancisCrawford
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    CMFan1966 wrote: »
    I did have some random guy tell me I had a nice rear end one time. I didn't have the heart to tell him I am the mother of two adult children and I don't look anything like my characters.....anymore.

    I need to find a way to name one of my characters "I don't look like this in real life", but that's too many spaces for ESO to handle. ;)

    That could be adapted into a great name for an Argonian.
    Edited by FrancisCrawford on September 26, 2017 1:22AM
  • ThePrinceOfBargains
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    I highly doubt this is true. While people have awkwardly hit on my wife (and me while playing a female character), it doesn’t happen that often. This seems more like you just wanted to share your character and felt you needed an excuse. Not sure why.
  • FrancisCrawford
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    itehache wrote: »
    My character is a cute bosmer. I usually dress her up with nice costumes and stuff and I have never, ever ever, gotten any whisper like the ones you have received.

    I had a female main in one game, and secondary female characters in some others (including ESO). I've been hit on maybe once, and that politely.

    But then, I usually play either solo or else with my wife. :)
    Edited by FrancisCrawford on September 26, 2017 2:01AM
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    TheMaster wrote: »
    I highly doubt this is true. While people have awkwardly hit on my wife (and me while playing a female character), it doesn’t happen that often. This seems more like you just wanted to share your character and felt you needed an excuse. Not sure why.

    It actually happened twice. I was just bored and wanted to share. :):p
  • ictopbasli
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    Thalmor rules!
  • missjackieb14_ESO
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    ictopbasli wrote: »
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    Are you happy to see me or is there a fire in your pants? *duck*
  • Wifeaggro13
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    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Okay, so this is what my toon looks like:

    2w57wno.jpg

    And for the past.. god knows how many weeks... I have had random guys come up to me, send me whispers, even give out marriage proposals, ask me if I'm single, if I don't want to be single anymore, etc.

    Hey numbnuts, ESO isn't your personal dating site!

    It doesn't really bother me. I find it more hilarious that guys have to be so pathetic. Any other people experience this?

    They just have not realised that 90 % of female toons have a fat bald guy behind the key board in a spagehtti stained briefs
  • Elsonso
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    Wifeaggro13 wrote: »
    missjackieb14_ESO wrote: »
    Okay, so this is what my toon looks like:

    2w57wno.jpg

    And for the past.. god knows how many weeks... I have had random guys come up to me, send me whispers, even give out marriage proposals, ask me if I'm single, if I don't want to be single anymore, etc.

    Hey numbnuts, ESO isn't your personal dating site!

    It doesn't really bother me. I find it more hilarious that guys have to be so pathetic. Any other people experience this?

    They just have not realised that 90 % of female toons have a fat bald guy behind the key board in a spagehtti stained briefs

    Zout works well to get those nasty spaghetti stains out. Errr. Or, so I hear.
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