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A story...about a wannabe elitist

  • zaria
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    DocFrost72 wrote: »
    As @johnnified mentioned, you're elite, not elitist. Difference is one knows what they are doing, the other just knows what they are told.

    Thank you for being positive.
    Yes, and think we all know this, the real elite players tend to have an positive attitude.
    then you have jerks like the cp400, vWS1 is easier than nIcP

    Edited by zaria on July 14, 2017 2:02PM
    Grinding just make you go in circles.
    Asking ZoS for nerfs is as stupid as asking for close air support from the death star.
  • DivinityDay
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    I've been playing since pc beta, at my own pace so I don't have the champ points to show for it lol.

    I play very well and never struggle in any game play here. I'm also the best person to have in any content that you're failing in.

    There is no productivity in insulting nor blaming others, only in working together to find a solution.
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  • TARAFRAKA
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    I stopped paying attention when you mentioned "console"...lol
    actually, good on you for keeping the player on!

    I have truly never understood why people look down upon us lowly peasants for using a different platform to play the SAME DAMN GAME.
    Ill never understand the whole console vs PC argument.

    My console quip was meant tongue in cheek, but the common perception is that "console" players are younger and more immature than those on PC. I'm not of this belief but that does seem to be the common perception among PC, from what I understand. (I just purchased my first console in 30 yrs. Got a PS4 but mostly for the sports titles. They suck ass on the PC).

    That makes sense. they assume people playing on Console are younger and therefore less mature. what's funny about that is I know more than a few people playing on consoles that are well over 40 years old lol.
  • Vipstaakki
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    Now if only you did this with every dungeon que you get.
  • DisgracefulMind
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    This just reminds me of this really cool time my friend Swaggasm and I (we both have Swag friends) did group finder because we like to mingle with the community (and yes, we're both extremely top tier players and have both held some awesome past records and such). Well we get this CP120 Redguard Templar healer named Tupac (not kidding!). This guy had it going on. He had baby Spell Power Cure, was using heal orbs, ele drained mobs. I mean, we had amazing resource management from him lol! His heals were also great. We took him into vWGT, cleared it on HM, everything. He was legit amazing. After all three pledges were done and completed on HM, I got a really nice whisper from him saying thanks for us giving him a chance. Like, legit, there's no reason to be awful to people with low CP who are just trying to learn the game. You can be an elite player without a demeaning manner.

    Thanks for this post, made me happy (:
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  • FearAndPatching
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    @TARAFRAKA funny story I have about a pug group I ran Wayrest 1 with about a month ago. Was on my StamWard at the time leveling undaunted and getting skill points.

    Anyways the group I was in had a CP 400ish tank and CP 200ish dps and a CP 241 healer (I remember the healers CP because he is the one this is about)

    Anyways not long into the run I noticed incoming damage was rather high and no ones health bars seemed to be getting healed quickly at all. The tank and other dps both had died multiple times by second boss and found myself having to play very defensively rather than really dealing damage. I noticed the healer kept spamming jabs and did not see any healing springs or other attempts at healing or supporting the group.

    I asked the healer why he keeps spamming jabs and if he could try and throw out some healing springs or shards and let us do most the damage. His response was, "I can't heal you all if I'm dead and I have to use jabs to keep myself alive"

    I than tried to tell him that using healing springs would heal himself and the group as well and that breath of life would also heal himself. His response, "I've done all content in game and healing springs is garbage the amount it heals for isn't as high as breath of life so it's not worth using resources on"

    I ask him than if he has cleared VMOL and VHOF (first week it came out) since he claims he has done all content in game in game on Hardmode. He proceeds to tell me how he runs VMOL and VHOF and how easy they are for him. Having cleared VMOL many times myself I knew this was absolute BS but I didn't want to really get in a headset war so I just remained somewhat quiet trying to give advice about fight mechanics to the rest of the group as we went.

    When we got to the last boss I started to tell the group that this boss has some crazy one shot mechanics and was trying to go over the fight for the other dps who had not been in there before. The healer continuously would cut me off and say how the fight is not hard what so ever and how we are just wasting time.

    So we pull and within 10 seconds of the fight boss teleports to healer and BAM one shot dead. So I res him and 5 seconds later BAM one shot dead. This continues to happen several more times so I say to him "Bro I thought you do hard modes in your sleep?" He becomes insanely irritated by this point and is yelling and all sorts of things thru out the rest of fight, which we ended up beating first try because I was adamant about keeping up with the res's.

    So after the fight the tank and other dps leave almost instantly and the healer actually stays and talks to me and actually starts asking advice. He goes on to tell me how he has 1400 spell power and that he has higher spell power than any other player he's met and that he is trying to get his spell damage as high as possible. I ask him if he wants pure spell damage if he has tried Julianos out his response and I quote, "I tried Julianos but I don't like stamina sets for healing".....

    This is pretty much my story, sorry I know it's a lot to read but I found it rather entertaining



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  • Artis
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Hmm maybe that explains why there were a few people who seem to react so negatively to a fun experience I had in the game on this thread. They are associating me with the term elitist. I didn't realize that being an elitist meant that you would rage at people who weren't very good. I don't do that and never have. I always thought the term just met someone who played the game to a very competitive level. That's why I freely admitted that I was an elitist in the original post. Because I was using a completely different definition. Well now that explains a lot.

    Yeah, it's precisely what it means - whoever avoids/insults players who aren't good. Not even necessary rage. If you refuse to play with somebody because they aren't good enough for you - you are an elitist.

    But that's not why people reacted negatively. See below.
    I don't understand the negative comments. It was a positive story about persistence and valor - I enjoyed reading it. Without these type of posts, this forum would be suicide inducing.

    I'll explain the negative reaction and what Urkraft meant. It's pretty obvious, I don't understand why you guys don't see it.

    The reason is the tone of the post and the fact that OP created a whole separate topic for this post as well. This is screaming of attention-seeking and "look how awesome I am". The tone of the post is also very self-masturbatory, like I can see how OP is full of herself and sitting there shocked by how awesome she is compared to all those other guys. Like, they are elitists and bad, but I'm elite and helped a newbie, so I'm good - give me your awesomes and attention.

    It wasn't a comment in a thread about pugs and elitists, which are plentiful. No, she had to create a whole new thread to make sure a lot of people will read and to get more reactions. The analogue of this post is a selfie on fb or ig with a long wannabe deep text under it.

    That's why negative reactions. People don't like uninvited bragging. And it comes across as bragging.

    And I'm not leaving any negative reactions, I would simply post after the first paragraph., but since this topic started and I saw so many people asking/wondering why negative reactions - well that's why.

    p.s. also to think about it, OP is an elitist anyway. Just not as bad as that cp400 guy. That guy was raging, she simply refused to play with low cp in DLC dungeons (not mother Theresa, right). Also, I bet that her guild has requirements and she only plays with a certain circle of people who are good enough and not everyone can play with them. Yeah still an elitist, just not the raging type. This paragraph is for people who say "elite but not an elitist". It might seem that way, but if you really look at this post...
    Edited by Artis on July 15, 2017 12:35AM
  • Stania
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    I highly despise elitists (the correct term defined in several responses here) and I enjoy seeing one getting what they deserve. But I have to point out that I cannot avoid seeing a big piece of humblebragging in some of these kind of stories, sounding like:

    "Me, a true elite player and proud with all skins, cp 2000, former emperor six times, solo-ed every trial HM, top ten leaderboards every week, taught a humility lesson to a pathetic lower-level-than-me elitist who hasn't even completed a normal trial (poor little thing), for being a show-off and an *** towards another player. I'm such a hero".

    EDIT: Just found out that Artis put it better than me.
    Edited by Stania on July 14, 2017 9:31PM
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  • CaptainBeerDude
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    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.
  • Iselin
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    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.

    Is the auction horse crown crate only?
  • TazESO
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Disclaimer: It seems that I have been using the wrong definition of elitist. I thought the term meant someone who played this game to a competitive level. I have since realized from replies it is someone who is competitive but is also very abusive to other players. That caused a few people to react negatively when I freely admit in the following post that I am an elitist. My apologies.

    So a friend and I que for the pledges. We are both near 1000 CP, all hardmode trials completed, leaderboard regulars blah blah blah...what some would describe as...dun dun dun..an elitist.
    We were bored. I needed the skill points on my warden and he..he just goes where I drag him typically.
    We land in Wayrest 1 Veteran. Easy peasy, right?.
    I, on my trial geared warden healer, Swagg is on an OP magsorc, one dps and one tank we dont know. We start blowing thru adds paying no mind to either of the 2 randoms.
    Then I see this pop up in group chat from the CP 400 DD.
    Whyyyyy are you doing vet dungeons??

    Now at first, I dont know what or who he is referring to. So I ask, what do you mean?

    Well...he is not talking to me. He is talking to the poor CP 94 tank with a two hand weapon, yes, but is actually holding taunt and staying ALIVE.
    I couldve easily asked Mr CP 400 the same thing.

    And so our conversation begins..
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    I decide at this moment...I am going to show him just what a REAL elitist is...I explain to this "elite" CP 400 DPS in heavy armor and a 2H that my friend Swagg and I top leaderboards so we should be more than capable of carrying someone thru Wayrest except...unfortunately we are not going to be carrying HIM.

    I vote to kick him and of course, it passes immediately. The CP 94 is apologizing profusely in group and area chat.
    We reassure him that he is doing fine, give him a few pointers on tanking and continue. We were fine until last boss who one shotted him repeatedly thru his 16k health.
    But in this moment I WAS DEDICATED.

    I decided to switch to my tank. My tank who has tanked Vmol while I breastfed.

    *Meanwhile, I notice Mr CP 400 has whispered me...and called me a "console pleb".
    I swap from my healer to tank and respond to Mr CP 400.
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    Apparently, he doesn't realize that he is whispering me on console as well which makes him also a...console pleb.

    But! Mr CP 400 inspired me. I was going to carry this low-level through whatever dungeon showed up for pledges today because I was inspired!
    Yes
    ! I am an elitist and I am proud of it, but I am an elitist with a heart and the memory..of when I too..was a noob. (It was last week, I think :wink:) A noob hard casting crystal frags in heavy reinforced non set armor.

    So I got on my BIS DK tank with Ebon and Alkosh and I tanked the ever loving hell out of that final boss while CP 94 heavy attacked like his life depended on it.

    Did she oneshot him every 3.5 seconds? Yes. Did she enrage? Yes. Did her soul tether instakill him? Good god YES.
    But he got back up, (I made Swagg res him after every death even though we didnt need him, it was the principle of the matter, I wanted him on his FEET and ALIVE when she died dammit) and he continued to be a team player (I told him not to taunt) until she died.
    It was his first clear ever in a vet dungeon. And we 3 manned it. Well, technically 2 cause he didnt count but whatever.
    It was the funnest, most absurd predicament and I loved every moment of it.

    I loved it so much, I drug him along to do the 2nd pledge (Not the DLC, I may have my saint moments but Im not Mother Theresa) and he heavy attacked his way to another skill point in BC.
    Could I have kicked him in Wayrest and run it in 5 mins flat? Yes. Could I have chosen not to drag him thru a 2nd dungeon? Yes.
    But he inspired me. To rub it in Mr CP 400's face that a true elitist..a real elitist? They can carry anyone thru just about anything (except the twins, dear god no).

    So, if you are complaining or you are worried about having ONE low CP noob in your easy peasy level 1 veteran dungeon..well, then you're probably not as much of an elitist as you think you are.


    Word of advice, if you are going to single out someone for being low level, make sure you are at the very least MAX level your damned self.

    Shoutout to that CP 94(now 96 after the pledges!) for hanging in there. There ARE elitists out there that are helpful and willing to play as a team.

    I love this kind of stuff. Kudos to you!


  • TazESO
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Tasear wrote: »
    >:) I did vet dungeons at the equivalent of cp 10. So thanks to all those who carried me, now I am the same. It's my opinion that such drastic issues arised from one tamerial, dungeons got harder, and these didn't scale while people stayed the same.

    Now Morrowind sorta fixed a that by front loading cp, and capping attribute gains. So you can probably get away with doing most dungeon at even cp 10 given even tenacious. Though make sure you buy food and gear yourself to level.

    I tried giving him food but then I realized I only had food for cp160! So that's when I decided I was going to have to tank it but I was not going to leave that dungeon until he had completed it.


    I pulled two twenty somethings new to dungeons through Darkshade 2 (normal, so not bad) last night. They listened, tried, and rarely died.

    Feelz for realz, they were very appreciative and learned a lot.
  • drake88131
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Disclaimer: It seems that I have been using the wrong definition of elitist. I thought the term meant someone who played this game to a competitive level. I have since realized from replies it is someone who is competitive but is also very abusive to other players. That caused a few people to react negatively when I freely admit in the following post that I am an elitist. My apologies.

    So a friend and I que for the pledges. We are both near 1000 CP, all hardmode trials completed, leaderboard regulars blah blah blah...what some would describe as...dun dun dun..an elitist.
    We were bored. I needed the skill points on my warden and he..he just goes where I drag him typically.
    We land in Wayrest 1 Veteran. Easy peasy, right?.
    I, on my trial geared warden healer, Swagg is on an OP magsorc, one dps and one tank we dont know. We start blowing thru adds paying no mind to either of the 2 randoms.
    Then I see this pop up in group chat from the CP 400 DD.
    Whyyyyy are you doing vet dungeons??

    Now at first, I dont know what or who he is referring to. So I ask, what do you mean?

    Well...he is not talking to me. He is talking to the poor CP 94 tank with a two hand weapon, yes, but is actually holding taunt and staying ALIVE.
    I couldve easily asked Mr CP 400 the same thing.

    And so our conversation begins..
    LZWHQQY.jpg

    I decide at this moment...I am going to show him just what a REAL elitist is...I explain to this "elite" CP 400 DPS in heavy armor and a 2H that my friend Swagg and I top leaderboards so we should be more than capable of carrying someone thru Wayrest except...unfortunately we are not going to be carrying HIM.

    I vote to kick him and of course, it passes immediately. The CP 94 is apologizing profusely in group and area chat.
    We reassure him that he is doing fine, give him a few pointers on tanking and continue. We were fine until last boss who one shotted him repeatedly thru his 16k health.
    But in this moment I WAS DEDICATED.

    I decided to switch to my tank. My tank who has tanked Vmol while I breastfed.

    *Meanwhile, I notice Mr CP 400 has whispered me...and called me a "console pleb".
    I swap from my healer to tank and respond to Mr CP 400.
    9FirSFz.jpg

    Apparently, he doesn't realize that he is whispering me on console as well which makes him also a...console pleb.

    But! Mr CP 400 inspired me. I was going to carry this low-level through whatever dungeon showed up for pledges today because I was inspired!
    Yes
    ! I am an elitist and I am proud of it, but I am an elitist with a heart and the memory..of when I too..was a noob. (It was last week, I think :wink:) A noob hard casting crystal frags in heavy reinforced non set armor.

    So I got on my BIS DK tank with Ebon and Alkosh and I tanked the ever loving hell out of that final boss while CP 94 heavy attacked like his life depended on it.

    Did she oneshot him every 3.5 seconds? Yes. Did she enrage? Yes. Did her soul tether instakill him? Good god YES.
    But he got back up, (I made Swagg res him after every death even though we didnt need him, it was the principle of the matter, I wanted him on his FEET and ALIVE when she died dammit) and he continued to be a team player (I told him not to taunt) until she died.
    It was his first clear ever in a vet dungeon. And we 3 manned it. Well, technically 2 cause he didnt count but whatever.
    It was the funnest, most absurd predicament and I loved every moment of it.

    I loved it so much, I drug him along to do the 2nd pledge (Not the DLC, I may have my saint moments but Im not Mother Theresa) and he heavy attacked his way to another skill point in BC.
    Could I have kicked him in Wayrest and run it in 5 mins flat? Yes. Could I have chosen not to drag him thru a 2nd dungeon? Yes.
    But he inspired me. To rub it in Mr CP 400's face that a true elitist..a real elitist? They can carry anyone thru just about anything (except the twins, dear god no).

    So, if you are complaining or you are worried about having ONE low CP noob in your easy peasy level 1 veteran dungeon..well, then you're probably not as much of an elitist as you think you are.


    Word of advice, if you are going to single out someone for being low level, make sure you are at the very least MAX level your damned self.

    Shoutout to that CP 94(now 96 after the pledges!) for hanging in there. There ARE elitists out there that are helpful and willing to play as a team.


    Not going to lie. I felt awful last night when I was queuing the dailies as a tank on my dps to level my other skills only to find out my dps sorc was in vet blessed crucible. What an accidental ass I was but the team I was with was real cool and we beat it with ease. So I guess it's hit or miss?
  • TazESO
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    I was on my healer cp 220 at the time and I was standing near a dungeon and a low lv invited me to group and asked to help him thru the dungeon so I joined and got 2 other low lv in. I healed the crap out of them. End story was they finished it and was happy.

    Even though it's not a big deal that actually does make you really happy for a brief moment in time. That's why I shared this. it made me feel really good for a brief moment in time and I'm sure it made the other guy happy that he was able to complete something that he never completed before.

    I know exactly what you mean.
  • N0TPLAYER2
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    Hey op guess what??!!

    Cool story bro
  • Artis
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    Iselin wrote: »
    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.

    Is the auction horse crown crate only?

    hahah

    And no, I don't read forum by sections. I occasionally click 'recent" and open some threads on the first few pages. But I was surprised so much how oblivious some people are in this thread. Not to mention that the post is screaming elitist if you actually read it.

    Yeah I saw this guy taking his tears to at least 2 different trades about trading that in no way were about auction, but he had to bring it up.
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    Tanked vMoL while breastfeading, thats all the street cred you need.
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  • TARAFRAKA
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    Artis wrote: »
    Iselin wrote: »
    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.

    Is the auction horse crown crate only?

    hahah

    And no, I don't read forum by sections. I occasionally click 'recent" and open some threads on the first few pages. But I was surprised so much how oblivious some people are in this thread. Not to mention that the post is screaming elitist if you actually read it.

    Yeah I saw this guy taking his tears to at least 2 different trades about trading that in no way were about auction, but he had to bring it up.

    what are talking abt? i never brought this up anywhere else? i dont even comment on trade threads. im sorry but you are very mistaken. Its not hard to see someone post history, at all. So what you are talking about, it never happened!
    So either you are being flat-out disingenuous or you're lying.
    Edited by TARAFRAKA on July 15, 2017 7:16AM
  • TARAFRAKA
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    @TARAFRAKA funny story I have about a pug group I ran Wayrest 1 with about a month ago. Was on my StamWard at the time leveling undaunted and getting skill points.

    Anyways the group I was in had a CP 400ish tank and CP 200ish dps and a CP 241 healer (I remember the healers CP because he is the one this is about)

    Anyways not long into the run I noticed incoming damage was rather high and no ones health bars seemed to be getting healed quickly at all. The tank and other dps both had died multiple times by second boss and found myself having to play very defensively rather than really dealing damage. I noticed the healer kept spamming jabs and did not see any healing springs or other attempts at healing or supporting the group.

    I asked the healer why he keeps spamming jabs and if he could try and throw out some healing springs or shards and let us do most the damage. His response was, "I can't heal you all if I'm dead and I have to use jabs to keep myself alive"

    I than tried to tell him that using healing springs would heal himself and the group as well and that breath of life would also heal himself. His response, "I've done all content in game and healing springs is garbage the amount it heals for isn't as high as breath of life so it's not worth using resources on"

    I ask him than if he has cleared VMOL and VHOF (first week it came out) since he claims he has done all content in game in game on Hardmode. He proceeds to tell me how he runs VMOL and VHOF and how easy they are for him. Having cleared VMOL many times myself I knew this was absolute BS but I didn't want to really get in a headset war so I just remained somewhat quiet trying to give advice about fight mechanics to the rest of the group as we went.

    When we got to the last boss I started to tell the group that this boss has some crazy one shot mechanics and was trying to go over the fight for the other dps who had not been in there before. The healer continuously would cut me off and say how the fight is not hard what so ever and how we are just wasting time.

    So we pull and within 10 seconds of the fight boss teleports to healer and BAM one shot dead. So I res him and 5 seconds later BAM one shot dead. This continues to happen several more times so I say to him "Bro I thought you do hard modes in your sleep?" He becomes insanely irritated by this point and is yelling and all sorts of things thru out the rest of fight, which we ended up beating first try because I was adamant about keeping up with the res's.

    So after the fight the tank and other dps leave almost instantly and the healer actually stays and talks to me and actually starts asking advice. He goes on to tell me how he has 1400 spell power and that he has higher spell power than any other player he's met and that he is trying to get his spell damage as high as possible. I ask him if he wants pure spell damage if he has tried Julianos out his response and I quote, "I tried Julianos but I don't like stamina sets for healing".....

    This is pretty much my story, sorry I know it's a lot to read but I found it rather entertaining



    That is absolutely hilarious. I find that rather entertaining as well.
  • TARAFRAKA
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    Artis wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Hmm maybe that explains why there were a few people who seem to react so negatively to a fun experience I had in the game on this thread. They are associating me with the term elitist. I didn't realize that being an elitist meant that you would rage at people who weren't very good. I don't do that and never have. I always thought the term just met someone who played the game to a very competitive level. That's why I freely admitted that I was an elitist in the original post. Because I was using a completely different definition. Well now that explains a lot.

    Yeah, it's precisely what it means - whoever avoids/insults players who aren't good. Not even necessary rage. If you refuse to play with somebody because they aren't good enough for you - you are an elitist.

    But that's not why people reacted negatively. See below.
    I don't understand the negative comments. It was a positive story about persistence and valor - I enjoyed reading it. Without these type of posts, this forum would be suicide inducing.

    I'll explain the negative reaction and what Urkraft meant. It's pretty obvious, I don't understand why you guys don't see it.

    The reason is the tone of the post and the fact that OP created a whole separate topic for this post as well. This is screaming of attention-seeking and "look how awesome I am". The tone of the post is also very self-masturbatory, like I can see how OP is full of herself and sitting there shocked by how awesome she is compared to all those other guys. Like, they are elitists and bad, but I'm elite and helped a newbie, so I'm good - give me your awesomes and attention.

    It wasn't a comment in a thread about pugs and elitists, which are plentiful. No, she had to create a whole new thread to make sure a lot of people will read and to get more reactions. The analogue of this post is a selfie on fb or ig with a long wannabe deep text under it.

    That's why negative reactions. People don't like uninvited bragging. And it comes across as bragging.

    And I'm not leaving any negative reactions, I would simply post after the first paragraph., but since this topic started and I saw so many people asking/wondering why negative reactions - well that's why.

    p.s. also to think about it, OP is an elitist anyway. Just not as bad as that cp400 guy. That guy was raging, she simply refused to play with low cp in DLC dungeons (not mother Theresa, right). Also, I bet that her guild has requirements and she only plays with a certain circle of people who are good enough and not everyone can play with them. Yeah still an elitist, just not the raging type. This paragraph is for people who say "elite but not an elitist". It might seem that way, but if you really look at this post...

    omg.show me whole seperate post i created. because that never happened! this is the only post. the only one. history for people is not hard to see. And that never happened. As i stated before. I think it takes 2? clicks to see someones post history. Reclick please. Look at mine. I never brought this up in any of my other post on other threads and I didn't make a separate topic about this at all which is very easy to verify.
    Edited by TARAFRAKA on July 15, 2017 7:14AM
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    Disclaimer: It seems that I have been using the wrong definition of elitist. I thought the term meant someone who played this game to a competitive level. I have since realized from replies it is someone who is competitive but is also very abusive to other players. That caused a few people to react negatively when I freely admit in the following post that I am an elitist. My apologies.

    So a friend and I que for the pledges. We are both near 1000 CP, all hardmode trials completed, leaderboard regulars blah blah blah...what some would describe as...dun dun dun..an elitist.
    We were bored. I needed the skill points on my warden and he..he just goes where I drag him typically.
    We land in Wayrest 1 Veteran. Easy peasy, right?.
    I, on my trial geared warden healer, Swagg is on an OP magsorc, one dps and one tank we dont know. We start blowing thru adds paying no mind to either of the 2 randoms.
    Then I see this pop up in group chat from the CP 400 DD.
    Whyyyyy are you doing vet dungeons??

    Now at first, I dont know what or who he is referring to. So I ask, what do you mean?

    Well...he is not talking to me. He is talking to the poor CP 94 tank with a two hand weapon, yes, but is actually holding taunt and staying ALIVE.
    I couldve easily asked Mr CP 400 the same thing.

    And so our conversation begins..
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    I decide at this moment...I am going to show him just what a REAL elitist is...I explain to this "elite" CP 400 DPS in heavy armor and a 2H that my friend Swagg and I top leaderboards so we should be more than capable of carrying someone thru Wayrest except...unfortunately we are not going to be carrying HIM.

    I vote to kick him and of course, it passes immediately. The CP 94 is apologizing profusely in group and area chat.
    We reassure him that he is doing fine, give him a few pointers on tanking and continue. We were fine until last boss who one shotted him repeatedly thru his 16k health.
    But in this moment I WAS DEDICATED.

    I decided to switch to my tank. My tank who has tanked Vmol while I breastfed.

    *Meanwhile, I notice Mr CP 400 has whispered me...and called me a "console pleb".
    I swap from my healer to tank and respond to Mr CP 400.
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    Apparently, he doesn't realize that he is whispering me on console as well which makes him also a...console pleb.

    But! Mr CP 400 inspired me. I was going to carry this low-level through whatever dungeon showed up for pledges today because I was inspired!
    Yes
    ! I am an elitist and I am proud of it, but I am an elitist with a heart and the memory..of when I too..was a noob. (It was last week, I think :wink:) A noob hard casting crystal frags in heavy reinforced non set armor.

    So I got on my BIS DK tank with Ebon and Alkosh and I tanked the ever loving hell out of that final boss while CP 94 heavy attacked like his life depended on it.

    Did she oneshot him every 3.5 seconds? Yes. Did she enrage? Yes. Did her soul tether instakill him? Good god YES.
    But he got back up, (I made Swagg res him after every death even though we didnt need him, it was the principle of the matter, I wanted him on his FEET and ALIVE when she died dammit) and he continued to be a team player (I told him not to taunt) until she died.
    It was his first clear ever in a vet dungeon. And we 3 manned it. Well, technically 2 cause he didnt count but whatever.
    It was the funnest, most absurd predicament and I loved every moment of it.

    I loved it so much, I drug him along to do the 2nd pledge (Not the DLC, I may have my saint moments but Im not Mother Theresa) and he heavy attacked his way to another skill point in BC.
    Could I have kicked him in Wayrest and run it in 5 mins flat? Yes. Could I have chosen not to drag him thru a 2nd dungeon? Yes.
    But he inspired me. To rub it in Mr CP 400's face that a true elitist..a real elitist? They can carry anyone thru just about anything (except the twins, dear god no).

    So, if you are complaining or you are worried about having ONE low CP noob in your easy peasy level 1 veteran dungeon..well, then you're probably not as much of an elitist as you think you are.


    Word of advice, if you are going to single out someone for being low level, make sure you are at the very least MAX level your damned self.

    Shoutout to that CP 94(now 96 after the pledges!) for hanging in there. There ARE elitists out there that are helpful and willing to play as a team.


    Not going to lie. I felt awful last night when I was queuing the dailies as a tank on my dps to level my other skills only to find out my dps sorc was in vet blessed crucible. What an accidental ass I was but the team I was with was real cool and we beat it with ease. So I guess it's hit or miss?

    It's completely hit or miss. that's why I don't use the finder very often whatsoever.
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
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    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.

    Is the auction horse crown crate only?

    hahah

    And no, I don't read forum by sections. I occasionally click 'recent" and open some threads on the first few pages. But I was surprised so much how oblivious some people are in this thread. Not to mention that the post is screaming elitist if you actually read it.

    Yeah I saw this guy taking his tears to at least 2 different trades about trading that in no way were about auction, but he had to bring it up.

    what are talking abt? i never brought this up anywhere else? i dont even comment on trade threads. im sorry but you are very mistaken. Its not hard to see someone post history, at all. So what you are talking about, it never happened!
    So either you are being flat-out disingenuous or you're lying.

    That last paragraph wasn't about you. It was about another guy who I saw doing that. I mentioned it because those 2 guys I quoted mentioned the auction horse.
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    omg.show me whole seperate post i created. because that never happened! this is the only post. the only one. history for people is not hard to see. And that never happened. As i stated before. I think it takes 2? clicks to see someones post history. Reclick please. Look at mine. I never brought this up in any of my other post on other threads and I didn't make a separate topic about this at all which is very easy to verify.

    Gladly. Here https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/359492/a-story-about-a-wannabe-elitist/p1
    Here's a whole separate post/thread created by you, even though you could simply tell this story in, say, this thread https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/305475/negative-players-pugslife-the-good-the-bad-and-the-hilarious/p1

    I was talking about this very post.

    This very topic is a separate topic created just to farm attention and awesomes with agrees. That's why you got that negative reaction. Another reason is that you actually did demonstrate that you are an elitist. You just weren't raging in this particular example and screenshotted another guy doing so. Yet, YOU were the one to start the vote and kick him, he didn't even start the vote to kick that cp94 guy. That's all. I don't care about it, I'm just answering the question that sounded here so many times.
    Edited by Artis on July 15, 2017 7:47AM
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    Artis wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Artis wrote: »
    Iselin wrote: »
    @Artis have you been on Gen. Discussion on the forum before?

    It's pretty much all self congratulatory masturbation with the occasional whine thread.

    Oh, and a GD auction horse thread that gets recreated every other week.

    Is the auction horse crown crate only?

    hahah

    And no, I don't read forum by sections. I occasionally click 'recent" and open some threads on the first few pages. But I was surprised so much how oblivious some people are in this thread. Not to mention that the post is screaming elitist if you actually read it.

    Yeah I saw this guy taking his tears to at least 2 different trades about trading that in no way were about auction, but he had to bring it up.

    what are talking abt? i never brought this up anywhere else? i dont even comment on trade threads. im sorry but you are very mistaken. Its not hard to see someone post history, at all. So what you are talking about, it never happened!
    So either you are being flat-out disingenuous or you're lying.

    That last paragraph wasn't about you. It was about another guy who I saw doing that. I mentioned it because those 2 guys I quoted mentioned the auction horse.
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »

    omg.show me whole seperate post i created. because that never happened! this is the only post. the only one. history for people is not hard to see. And that never happened. As i stated before. I think it takes 2? clicks to see someones post history. Reclick please. Look at mine. I never brought this up in any of my other post on other threads and I didn't make a separate topic about this at all which is very easy to verify.

    Gladly. Here https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/359492/a-story-about-a-wannabe-elitist/p1
    Here's a whole separate post/thread created by you, even though you could simply tell this story in, say, this thread https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/305475/negative-players-pugslife-the-good-the-bad-and-the-hilarious/p1

    I was talking about this very post.

    This very topic is a separate topic created just to farm attention and awesomes with agrees. That's why you got that negative reaction. Another reason is that you actually did demonstrate that you are an elitist. You just weren't raging in this particular example and screenshotted another guy doing so. Yet, YOU were the one to start the vote and kick him, he didn't even start the vote to kick that cp94 guy. That's all. I don't care about it, I'm just answering the question that sounded here so many times.

    You're upset because I didn't post this topic and the thread that you thought I should have posted it in? Ok. You're linking the thread that we're talking in now as the separate thread I made about this even though it's the same thread.
    Edited by TARAFRAKA on July 15, 2017 7:56AM
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    I always love to carry teams as well, especially if they are struggling a lot and really need a top leaderboard raid DPS to support them :)

    But please...... elitists are people who are of decent-good skill level who are just d***s to everyone by praising themselves and belittling others based on player skill. If you're a top leaderboard person you don't have to be an elitist....
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »

    Well apparently, I am elite, NOT an elitist.

    Yeah, man, I can agree with this. You don't come off from this thread/post as anyway snobbish. You just seem like the kind who enjoys this game very much and do his best to be the best in any content. If you also help or have helped others to become better, with your skills and experience, then you are a better person than I. Take Superman, for example. Practically, nothing can killed him.. well, except for Kryptonite, of course, but that can be mitigated. The dude is so damn powerful that he can accomplish any feat, yet, he is the mild-mannered Clark Kent who tends to help anybody, in any given situation. Likewise for good ole Spidey.. what they say?.. great power comes with great responsibility, or something like that.

    Not saying you have any great power or anything, but if having completed all contents in vet and hardmode and able to maintain the top tier in the leaders board, then that says quite a bit about someone like you as a players in ESO. I, myself, am too casual to care about having or needing to complete all end-game in hardmode or to even get on the leaders board. However, good for you and those that do strive for that. That is what ESO can be for. Kudos more if you all are sharing your skills and experience with others in a positive way. To those "elitists" that come off as snobbish or bullish to others, well.. I say to them, good for you, so, you're good at playing a video game. Ha ha
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    GreenhaloX wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »

    Well apparently, I am elite, NOT an elitist.

    Yeah, man, I can agree with this. You don't come off from this thread/post as anyway snobbish. You just seem like the kind who enjoys this game very much and do his best to be the best in any content. If you also help or have helped others to become better, with your skills and experience, then you are a better person than I. Take Superman, for example. Practically, nothing can killed him.. well, except for Kryptonite, of course, but that can be mitigated. The dude is so damn powerful that he can accomplish any feat, yet, he is the mild-mannered Clark Kent who tends to help anybody, in any given situation. Likewise for good ole Spidey.. what they say?.. great power comes with great responsibility, or something like that.

    Not saying you have any great power or anything, but if having completed all contents in vet and hardmode and able to maintain the top tier in the leaders board, then that says quite a bit about someone like you as a players in ESO. I, myself, am too casual to care about having or needing to complete all end-game in hardmode or to even get on the leaders board. However, good for you and those that do strive for that. That is what ESO can be for. Kudos more if you all are sharing your skills and experience with others in a positive way. To those "elitists" that come off as snobbish or bullish to others, well.. I say to them, good for you, so, you're good at playing a video game. Ha ha

    You just made me wish I was a superhero. In real life.
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    You're upset because I didn't post this topic and the thread that you thought I should have posted it in? Ok. You're linking the thread that we're talking in now as the separate thread I made about this even though it's the same thread.

    I'm not upset, I don't care. I just answered to people who couldn't understand the negative reaction.

    Also, yes that's what I'm saying and that's why I linked this thread. BECAUSE YOU CREATED IT TO BRAG!! You could've replied in the other thread I linked that was made months ago SPECIFICALLY for stories like this one.
    GreenhaloX wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »

    Well apparently, I am elite, NOT an elitist.

    Yeah, man, I can agree with this. You don't come off from this thread/post as anyway snobbish. You just seem like the kind who enjoys this game very much and do his best to be the best in any content.

    and see? they still don't get it and say/agree with crap like this. When OP is clearly saying:
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    I loved it so much, I drug him along to do the 2nd pledge (Not the DLC, I may have my saint moments but Im not Mother Theresa) and he heavy attacked his way to another skill point in BC.
    And then mentioned how you're at the top of leaderboards which means you are in a top guild with requirements.

    And elitist is a person who refuses to play with others who aren't good enough in that person's opinion period. No matter if he is insulting them or not.
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    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
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    Elitism has positive an neg conotation in the gaming communities. Good on you for not being a jerk and helpìng someone develòp in the game and not excluding them.

    We do not know the other persons story and maybe they only have so mucj game time. While that does not excuse the behavior as they can always drop and jump back in que or actually find a good guild. Good on you again for not enabling them.

    Based on the very first reply to my post, it seems there are even forum elitists! I wouldve never guessed.
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    Elitism has positive an neg conotation in the gaming communities. Good on you for not being a jerk and helpìng someone develòp in the game and not excluding them.

    We do not know the other persons story and maybe they only have so mucj game time. While that does not excuse the behavior as they can always drop and jump back in que or actually find a good guild. Good on you again for not enabling them.

    Aww but you see if he was worried about time he had no reason to even complain. Like i said, up to the point he called out the low cp guy, we had been doing fine. it was wayrest for gods sake.
    the low cp guy hadnt died or ran the boss around in circles or anything like that. if cp 400 had just kept quiet we wouldve flown thru it like we did without him.
    Yes when we got to last boss, low cp guy wouldve gotten one shot repeatedly and I wouldve swapped to tank just like I did without cp 400.
    Nothing changed whatsoever except Mr cp 400 didnt get to complete it with us bc he had a terrible attitude towards the low cp guy for no reason whatsoever.

    Mr Cp 400 should have taken a chill pill.and enjoyed the gravy train lol. I like doing randoms to meet new people and if we dont get through it there is always next time. Enjoy the social aspect have some laughs. Have also used it as an opportunity to recruit to guild.

    He who lives in a glass house shouldnt throw stones.

    Modern translation: He with low CP that DPSes in heavy armor and a 2H should not attack the humble low CP tank in heavy armor/2H ..while Im around.
    And its a fantastic way to recruit. I met some of my best guildies in random dungeon runs.

    Reminds me of being sh**-talked on my baby EU in vet DC II. I was cp ~90 at the time in cp 80 purple set gear and pulling 15-17k dps(despite having agro half the time because the 200-something cp tank didn't seem aware of existence of taunts). The fun part? The guy who sh**-talked me, a ~400 cp stamblade, did so laying dead on the first boss. You know, the one who moves the giant fire thing around himself that kinda screams "DON'T STAND IN ME UNLESS YOU WANNA DIE"? ...yeah. He ran right into it, died, then used the time he spent laying there dead to tell me(alive and dpsing the boss) how much I suck and how I should never have queued for vet dungeon.

    The saddest part of it is when the other 2(~200 cp tank and I think ~300 cp healer, both pretty subpar in their roles) totally agreed with him and kicked me after Gorbul despite us not wiping once and me doing ~40% group dps. Why do people tend to believe the loudest yelling idiot, especially if he finds lots of cursing and sh**t throwing to back up his point? Smh...I hope they got a 600 cp potato who light attacked his way with bow and got them wiped on last boss. Yes I'm vicious like that :p

    Good job to you on helping the little one :D
    Edited by Magdalina on July 15, 2017 9:29PM
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    Artis wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    You're upset because I didn't post this topic and the thread that you thought I should have posted it in? Ok. You're linking the thread that we're talking in now as the separate thread I made about this even though it's the same thread.

    I'm not upset, I don't care. I just answered to people who couldn't understand the negative reaction.

    Also, yes that's what I'm saying and that's why I linked this thread. BECAUSE YOU CREATED IT TO BRAG!! You could've replied in the other thread I linked that was made months ago SPECIFICALLY for stories like this one.
    GreenhaloX wrote: »
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »

    Well apparently, I am elite, NOT an elitist.

    Yeah, man, I can agree with this. You don't come off from this thread/post as anyway snobbish. You just seem like the kind who enjoys this game very much and do his best to be the best in any content.

    and see? they still don't get it and say/agree with crap like this. When OP is clearly saying:
    TARAFRAKA wrote: »
    I loved it so much, I drug him along to do the 2nd pledge (Not the DLC, I may have my saint moments but Im not Mother Theresa) and he heavy attacked his way to another skill point in BC.
    And then mentioned how you're at the top of leaderboards which means you are in a top guild with requirements.

    And elitist is a person who refuses to play with others who aren't good enough in that person's opinion period. No matter if he is insulting them or not.

    Im sorry, Im not going to feel guilty for not adding my story to a necro thread about pugging that was created months ago that until you mentioned, I didnt even recall existed.
    I posted it, on an open forum in an appropriate category and got to hear about some cool experiences that others have had that are funny or similar.

    In my book thats a win win even with the few negative replies. I wouldnt have made it thru life if I only ever did what OTHER people thought I should do at any given moment.
    Edited by TARAFRAKA on July 15, 2017 9:09PM
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