Let me preface this by saying that I do, to some level, understand the difference between ESO and most other MMOs when it comes to the leveling system.
So I started playing a few weeks ago, and a couple of days ago hit 50. Yay, I'm a champion! I'm totes awesome and strong and powerful and that group of three random mooks just teabagged me while laughing after killing me. I didn't even know the NPCs could teabag, but there you have it.
Long story short, I feel weaker than a wet noodle. Random groups of enemies when out questing can wipe the floor with me, three hits in a dungeon make short work of my 13k'ish HP, and all in all I'm left asking myself how the hell I got this far in the first place.
In my experience from previous MMOs, mainly WoW and FF14, hitting the level cap would also mean being able to somewhat quickly leech your way through your first few heroic dungeons for some gear so you could start helping out. That hasn't really been my experience here, unfortunately.
So that really brings me to my main question: What kind of gearing process am I looking at here? Do I stop questing and doing dungeons to get crafting up to speed, make myself some gear and THEN go for group content? Is there some place to relatively easily farm some passable gear so I can at least keep questing? Do I need to stop completely, grab a guide and find out how many things I'm doing wrong with skills and fighting style? Because let's face it, the game doesn't tell you much more than "Here's a sword. Pointy end goes into the bad guy. Have fun!" when it comes to learning the tricks of the trade.