FYI depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain NOT poisoned genes <_<

AlMcFly wrote: »

Mavloc wrote: »

When you allow other people's words to affect you, you surrender control over to them.

I agree. I definitely agree. The vast majority of NORMAL people are way too sensitive and throw there hands up at the slightest HINT of criticism. These people need chill the **** out and stop over-reacting.

However, on the other side of the coin, subhuman degenerate garbage people have been using the above argument as a blanket for getting away with saying the most vile detestable word vomit trash, while having no consequences for their action.

Not all people are normal. Not all people are healthy. There are many people who have real genetic deficiencies or predispositions toward depression or anxiety. Maybe their parents in the 70s and 80s cooked their brains with so many drugs that it ruined their DNA when it came time to pass it on to the current generation. Is it that kid's fault that he/she inherited poisoned genes?

So I say to you garbage degenerate people who wish everyone will just toughen up. Are you still comfortable screaming in the face your vomit trash to people who are mentally ill? No? DO these people not use the internet? Do they not play videogames? If you are comfortable with acting in this deplorable way, than you need to be tossed into the open ocean and left behind. If you don't like my words, toughen up little snowflake.

P.S. Personally I find it far more tough to continue being a nice person even when confronted with degenerates. From my perspective, people who explode and/or treat others like garbage for no good reason are the weakest-willed people in our society.

I agree with you to a certain extent.

No, your words don't bother me enough to really care about you calling me a subhuman degenerate. It's the fact that you come out with an argument..and then back your argument with what your arguing. I believe the word is Hypocrite.

People are going to say what they are going to say; these are consequences of living in a free country where the first amendment being free speech. This is interpreted in all directions. You have free speech to say that I am a garbage degenerate who only speaks vile vomit trash. I can then say grow a pair..simple as that. We don't have to like what each other has to say but I respect the fact that you CAN say it. Don't cloak your argument for defense of the mentally-ill.

My 2 y/o son is autistic. I know that one day things like this will come across him and at him. Knowing that it is my responsibility to emotionally arm him with the strength to face these things head on as best as he can. Teaching him; someone will always be strong for you isn't in my opinion the right way to go about it. Yes, I show him his mother and I are there for him to love and nurture him. The overlying factor here; we won't be here forever. Look at Temple Gradin; she dealt with MASSIVE amounts of bullying and not just from kids..from adults; yet she created an entire system for farmers and the like. She has made TREMENDOUS strides in her field as well as in the autistic community.

She didn't need the SJW of the world defending her and telling other "don't be mean to her". NO, it was her and all her having the strength to move over the words and do something with her life.

SJW always look to the examples like the mentally ill to promote their views when there are MANY examples of the exact opposite.

And no, I'm not saying this gives me the right to spout dumb crap at people in the spirit of just being mean.

All I am saying is be a decent human being. If someone isn't capable of being a decent human being then do away with them. Why keep contact? Ignore whatever it takes. Don't let yourself become a "victim" because someone hurt your feelings.

Jeremy wrote: »

This is not a good comparison.

Children who are bullied at school can't just simply put their bullies on ignore. They are obligated to attend school and usually have to endure the abuse.

You were lucky this bully stopped messing with you after you punched him as well. Some bullies would have hit back and you might have wound up in the hospital. This is especially the case if it was a much older kid (who are often times the bullies). So I don't really think turning our schools into Fight Club is the answer either.

Thank you for your response but I do not believe that it takes into consideration the actual mentality of a real bully.

You show an inch of weakness to a bully and he'll want to devour you, "he'll smell blood", however, knock him once or enough time for him to understand you will always fight back and he'll prefer to look for easier targets that don't knock them around.

From experience, I am not theorizing.

FrostFallFox wrote: »

RainaLionheart wrote: »

FYI depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain NOT poisoned genes <_<

Exactly. It's bad seeing all these people excuse someone saying "kill yourself" with "lmao get a thicker skin!"

Hmm... What if the person spewing the vitriol, telling others to "kill themselves" was doing it because they suffer from a chemical imbalance and were bipolar?

Maybe they were in one of their anxious or depressed states and they didn't actually mean what they said?

Maybe they just couldn't control themselves because their chemical imbalance compelled them to say hurtful things to other people?

Maybe the aggressor was also the victim of their own emotions and they need help more than anyone else.

Surely, they should be forgiven for their outburst despite the consequences of hurting someone else's feelings. After all, they couldn't control themselves.

starkerealm wrote: »

Well, it's nice to know you learned that violence is an appropriate response to harsh language. Because that never escalates the situation beyond your ability to control it.

Human relationships are dictated by laws that legislators will never understand.

If you allow harsh language today, tomorrow you'll be beyond your ability to control the escalating targetting.

And note: this is also true for "positive" respect: Show early, in whatever type of relationship you want to nurture, that you are reliable and dignified and it will leave a prolonged mark for the rest of it.

So it is not something specific to bullying at all.