Just quit the game OP, and play other games until the next update. Trust me me when I say that you'll be much happier, and feel much refreshed.
I used to take things like: Smooth performance, solid RNG, and lag-less games for granted prior to playing ESO. Played that P.O.S. damn near everyday for over 2 years, and finally burned out a few days ago. Got tired of anything and everything involved ESO, and now I don't even login to do my daily riding skill improvements. Let alone undaunted pledges or crafting writs. I just don't care anymore. Why should I care about something that has exhausted me emotionally and mentally, and is only out to drain every dime I earn and second of my life?
Since quitting a few days ago, my relationship with my boo is smoother and I'm arguing much less with family and friends. Let alone getting ticked off so easily by things. ESO isn't the end all and be all, OP. Don't let it get it or its community get to you. Take it easy, play some other games, watch some movies, hangout with friends from college or that you grew-up with, as you'll forget all about logging into ESO.
Oh, and remember. ZOS is a company. They want to drain you for every dollar you have, and try and keep you coming to play their product by any means. But just remember, you don't have to be 1 of the hundreds of people hooked. You can disconnect from that unbalanced grind-fest known as ESO, and have a ball playing games that actually run smoothly and look gorgeous doing so.
Just quit the game OP, and play other games until the next update. Trust me me when I say that you'll be much happier, and feel much refreshed.