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How To Handle Rude Players
syxx210
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Please, do not tell people how to play their characters. They aren't yours. Thank you!
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Mr_Apollo✭✭✭Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point."Am I truly lost? Is this the end of me? Perhaps...just like all stories have a beginning, all of them will have an ending"
~Brelin Geolas
"The Divines gave you a nose for a reason, Tharn. So you can keep your mouth shut and still keep breathing"
~Lyris Titanborn
"It is good the people wear clothing. M'aiq wears clothing. Who would want to see M'aiq naked? Sick, sick people. Very sad."
~M'aiq the LiarKornwalsky - Dunmer - Nightblade
Tinker Knight - Khajiit - DragonKnight
Erenimir - Altmer - Sorcerer
M'zorna - Orc - Sorcerer
Kristof Nordgård - Breton - Templar
PAWS (Positively Against Wrip-off Stuff) - Say No to Crown Crates!13 -
Woeler✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭Dunno what build you run.
If you stand there crystal blasting mobs with your 3 pets active on your dual bow hybrid vampire sorcerer, then yes, you should either not do group content or listing to other people.13 -
Enslaved✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭How to handle rude player?
Suggestions by class.
DK- use whip
- use choking talons
- use wings to reflect bs back for 4 seconds
- use fear
- use cloak
- use prolonged suffering
- Daedric minefield, duh
- summon Greater Storm Atronach
- summon destro ulti zerg
- Repentance
- Repentance
- If it doesnt work, blazing shield tf out of it
Edited by Enslaved on November 4, 2016 2:09PM11 -
bottleofsyrup✭✭✭✭✭
✭Nothing to with Photobucket...This is all you linked: http://url/rudePlayer.png3 -
Jurand80✭✭✭✭my friend got kicked from a trial group coz they didn't like a khajit templar healer...........
/ignore works best for me.3 -
Rune_Relic✭✭✭✭✭
✭Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point.
Hhhmm! So how did the 1st players clear hardmode dungeons ?
Who taught them what to do and when ?
No.
There really isnt any excuse to be telling anyone what they should and should not be doing unless you were asked for advice.
Whether you choose to give any advice is of course upto you.Some people like to figure stuff out for themselvesEdited by Rune_Relic on November 4, 2016 2:11PMAnything that can be exploited will be exploited4 -
Mr_Apollo✭✭✭(Tip, tag users name so they know you replied to them)
@Rune_Relic
The first dungeons are done with trial and error, if a person doesn't help, then the system will hint you at solutions. I did agreed that there is no excuse for someone to tell you what to do, but the mentality that "No I wont accept any help, or advice" is wrong, because if someone gives you hints, tips, advices, then you should either consider it, think about it, acknowledge it or simply ignore them. Just don't call them rude if they are trying to help"Am I truly lost? Is this the end of me? Perhaps...just like all stories have a beginning, all of them will have an ending"
~Brelin Geolas
"The Divines gave you a nose for a reason, Tharn. So you can keep your mouth shut and still keep breathing"
~Lyris Titanborn
"It is good the people wear clothing. M'aiq wears clothing. Who would want to see M'aiq naked? Sick, sick people. Very sad."
~M'aiq the LiarKornwalsky - Dunmer - Nightblade
Tinker Knight - Khajiit - DragonKnight
Erenimir - Altmer - Sorcerer
M'zorna - Orc - Sorcerer
Kristof Nordgård - Breton - Templar
PAWS (Positively Against Wrip-off Stuff) - Say No to Crown Crates!1 -
Woeler✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭Lord_Dexter wrote: »
Current world #1 Sanctum Ophidia and #1 Hel Ra Citadel have a khajiit healer and a khajiit tank in the team. Just sayin.10 -
vyndral13preub18_ESO✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭I would think it goes both ways then. If you dont want to listen or accept advice, dont be upset of the group decides they dont need you.7 -
cjthibs✭✭✭✭✭
✭You have every right to run whatever crazy build you want (or suck at a good build), you don't have a right to be free from criticism.
If people are willing to help you, you might want to actually listen.4 -
Tandor✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭✭Rune_Relic wrote: »Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point.
Hhhmm! So how did the 1st players clear hardmode dungeons ?
Who taught them what to do and when ?
Hey man, they didn't need no teaching cos they was ELEET
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Ch4mpTW✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭✭my friend got kicked from a trial group coz they didn't like a khajit templar healer...........
/ignore works best for me.
While I'm aware that theoretically any race can be solid at any role — how exactly does being a khajiit work out for doing something as serious as trials for healer work? Let alone if the group is aiming to clear a trial on hard-mode. And please don't misunderstand, I'm not saying all healers have to be Argonians or Bretons. But like... It's a khajiit... They have no benefits toward magicka or healing as a race... That's like making an Altmer stam-tank... Or a Nord healer... Why would you do this?Edited by Ch4mpTW on November 4, 2016 2:35PM6 -
Lord_Eomer✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭Lord_Dexter wrote: »
Current world #1 Sanctum Ophidia and #1 Hel Ra Citadel have a khajiit healer and a khajiit tank in the team. Just sayin.
I am not about to debate this point, Khajit Racial passives for Healer just not competitive as other Breton or Altmers..
With new sets it does not mattet a lot about race passives stuff but still count somehow..
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Rune_Relic✭✭✭✭✭
✭(Tip, tag users name so they know you replied to them)
@Rune_Relic
The first dungeons are done with trial and error, if a person doesn't help, then the system will hint you at solutions. I did agreed that there is no excuse for someone to tell you what to do, but the mentality that "No I wont accept any help, or advice" is wrong, because if someone gives you hints, tips, advices, then you should either consider it, think about it, acknowledge it or simply ignore them. Just don't call them rude if they are trying to help
Help....is something that is requested or offered.
Not imposed.
PS... any quotes should get a notify.Edited by Rune_Relic on November 4, 2016 2:37PMAnything that can be exploited will be exploited3 -
Rune_Relic✭✭✭✭✭
✭Rune_Relic wrote: »Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point.
Hhhmm! So how did the 1st players clear hardmode dungeons ?
Who taught them what to do and when ?
Hey man, they didn't need no teaching cos they was ELEET !
Very good...I had to giggle Anything that can be exploited will be exploited0 -
Woeler✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭Lord_Dexter wrote: »Lord_Dexter wrote: »
Current world #1 Sanctum Ophidia and #1 Hel Ra Citadel have a khajiit healer and a khajiit tank in the team. Just sayin.
I am not about to debate this point, Khajit Racial passives for Healer just not competitive as other Breton or Altmers..
With new sets it does not mattet a lot about race passives stuff but still count somehow..
You say it is insane. I have proof it isn't. Suboptimal at worst. That's all.Edited by Woeler on November 4, 2016 2:40PM6 -
Ch4mpTW✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭✭Lord_Dexter wrote: »Lord_Dexter wrote: »
Current world #1 Sanctum Ophidia and #1 Hel Ra Citadel have a khajiit healer and a khajiit tank in the team. Just sayin.
I am not about to debate this point, Khajit Racial passives for Healer just not competitive as other Breton or Altmers..
With new sets it does not mattet a lot about race passives stuff but still count somehow..
Lol. I just want to know the logic behind taking a race that has no actual benefits toward the role that they're aiming for, and attempting to mold it into that role. Unless for roleplay reasons. And again, I'm not saying it can't be done. But, it makes no sense. Why intentionally make your life harder (potentially), and make your group's life harder (again potentially)? I don't understand.
Like even when I play Skyrim and other Elder Scrolls games. I'd look at the races, and decide from there how I'd go about my build. If I picked an Altmer, they were going to be strictly involved with magicka. If I picked an Orc? Stamina/melee it was. And so on. I never saw the appeal of mixing things up for no reason, and going about "hybrid-builds".1 -
vyndral13preub18_ESO✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭my friend got kicked from a trial group coz they didn't like a khajit templar healer...........
/ignore works best for me.
While I'm aware that theoretically any race can be solid at any role — how exactly does being a khajiit work out for doing something as serious as trials for healer work? Let alone if the group is aiming to clear a trial on hard-mode. And please don't misunderstand, I'm not saying all healers have to be Argonians or Bretons. But like... It's a khajiit... They have no benefits toward magicka or healing as a race... That's like making an Altmer stam-tank... Or a Nord healer... Why would you do this?
What are you talking about!? Obviously they dual wield swords so that kitty weapon crit is needed!3 -
kidwgm✭✭✭How to handle rude players? Simple. Ignore and move on.DPS StamDK CP506 X1 NA GT Kid Whimsical2 -
Mr_Apollo✭✭✭@RuneRelic
Did not get warned by the notification so have no idea.
And yes, you have every right to follow the help or not, all I'm saying is to not call someone rude or act dickish towards people who only want to help and meant good."Am I truly lost? Is this the end of me? Perhaps...just like all stories have a beginning, all of them will have an ending"
~Brelin Geolas
"The Divines gave you a nose for a reason, Tharn. So you can keep your mouth shut and still keep breathing"
~Lyris Titanborn
"It is good the people wear clothing. M'aiq wears clothing. Who would want to see M'aiq naked? Sick, sick people. Very sad."
~M'aiq the LiarKornwalsky - Dunmer - Nightblade
Tinker Knight - Khajiit - DragonKnight
Erenimir - Altmer - Sorcerer
M'zorna - Orc - Sorcerer
Kristof Nordgård - Breton - Templar
PAWS (Positively Against Wrip-off Stuff) - Say No to Crown Crates!2 -
Grabmoore✭✭✭✭✭So this topic is about OP being rude? Because thats what I read...
Seriously, don't take every word for gold, but if you come along and say "i dont make misstakes, dont teach me", then you are the rude player.EU - PC - Ebonheart Pact
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Do-Ra'Zhar - Khajiit Stamina DK | Ashmedi - Dunmer Magicka DK
Vanya Darchow - AD Altmer Magicka Sorc | Malek gro'Kash - Orc Stam Sorc
GM of "Handelshaus von Riften" - Trading & PvX Community7 -
KramUzibra✭✭✭✭Rune_Relic wrote: »Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point.
Hhhmm! So how did the 1st players clear hardmode dungeons ?
Who taught them what to do and when ?
No.
There really isnt any excuse to be telling anyone what they should and should not be doing unless you were asked for advice.
Whether you choose to give any advice is of course upto you.Some people like to figure stuff out for themselves
Wrong If your in my group and not preforming adequately then I absolutely have an excuse to tell you or suggest playing your class/build a certain way that may be more effective for whatever content we as a group are attempting to accomplish.3 -
DocFrost72✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭Lord_Dexter wrote: »Lord_Dexter wrote: »
Current world #1 Sanctum Ophidia and #1 Hel Ra Citadel have a khajiit healer and a khajiit tank in the team. Just sayin.
I am not about to debate this point, Khajit Racial passives for Healer just not competitive as other Breton or Altmers..
With new sets it does not mattet a lot about race passives stuff but still count somehow..
Lol. I just want to know the logic behind taking a race that has no actual benefits toward the role that they're aiming for, and attempting to mold it into that role. Unless for roleplay reasons. And again, I'm not saying it can't be done. But, it makes no sense. Why intentionally make your life harder (potentially), and make your group's life harder (again potentially)? I don't understand.
Like even when I play Skyrim and other Elder Scrolls games. I'd look at the races, and decide from there how I'd go about my build. If I picked an Altmer, they were going to be strictly involved with magicka. If I picked an Orc? Stamina/melee it was. And so on. I never saw the appeal of mixing things up for no reason, and going about "hybrid-builds".
Well, to your point: some people are so good they can give up bonuses to their race and stI'll be number one. When you know you can perform to the degree of, for instance, being a #1 raid group, I doubt 10 % less magicka regen is go8ng to slow you down much.
And OP, best way to deal with rude players is to disprove them to bruise their egos. If someone doesn't want to run vWGT with your breton stamplar in the group, run it with someone else and link that divines piece baby.Edited by DocFrost72 on November 4, 2016 3:11PM0 -
Tandor✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭✭KramUzibra wrote: »Rune_Relic wrote: »Mine says page cant be reached. And I agree to that said but, I also disagree with some of that mentality. If you bluntly tell someone "Hey your build is wrong, do this this this and this or you're a skrub" then I completely agree to tell them to go take a walk and come back when I have the patience. But if someone actually tries to help you? Like "Hey, you know you can do this for a higher health" or "Mind if I suggest this set and you take a look at it see if you like it?" then I disagree with your mentality. Because no one gets good by themselves, you'll need help at some point.
Hhhmm! So how did the 1st players clear hardmode dungeons ?
Who taught them what to do and when ?
No.
There really isnt any excuse to be telling anyone what they should and should not be doing unless you were asked for advice.
Whether you choose to give any advice is of course upto you.Some people like to figure stuff out for themselves
Wrong If your in my group and not preforming adequately then I absolutely have an excuse to tell you or suggest playing your class/build a certain way that may be more effective for whatever content we as a group are attempting to accomplish.
The difference between "tell" and "suggest" is the real point whenever these threads come up.1 -
Wollust✭✭✭✭✭
✭✭✭✭That's why I don't pug at all. Too many people thinking their time and fun is more valuable and more important than anyone else's.Susano'o
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