Curtdogg47 wrote: »Some people take their PvP tad to serious. And some people let the crown go to there head!!
failkiwib16_ESO wrote: »@danielpatrickkeaneub17_ESO there is more to it though, OP here feels he is new in the guild, and joined the raid to help out. The CALL TO ARMS message he got may have been a regular weekly or daily guild mail, and the officers or raidleader was not aware that OP was new to their playstyle..
Not all guilds give introductions, and people who recruit for guilds don't give introductions either.
Can we just PLEASEstop using the words "Elitism" or "Elitist" to somehow magically explain everything that happens to us when interacting with rude people somewhere. Elitist or Elitism is just so very limited in its power to explain that which is happening.
Thank You in advance.
kind regards
ps. And in my view there is no reason here for this episode to get you down at all. Just hang on to your belifs and brush experiences like this off, laugh and move on. Do you Think people will think about what happend the day after? Nobody will remember anything.
You can however be sure that things will get said when things are heated in MMO's due to various reasons one of them being addiction and lack of sleep just to name two. And I would estimate that atleast around 5-10% of the people playing have some kind of developmental disturbance, which also effects them emotionally, like we find in the rest of the population. Some of those are psychopaths. So dont you Worry
There are always people who think being crown or guild leader/officer gives them the authority to tell others how to build their toons. Often the loudest person in the guild/group has no authority to tell anybody anything. There are good PvP guilds that help others without telling them its 'their way or the highway". Your best bet to find them is to join different 'pugs' in PvP and shop around.
Honestly every guild is different.
In ours, youre expected to follow a certain standard of play, which involves following instructions. We dont exactly stack on crown anymore, thats a bad idea due to many factors, but to be near the lead is considered required.
Force multiplication and the like.
But unlike some guilds we explain this right out the door. After 14 days you either make the cut or you dont, most dont. Is it elitist? Yes, but its because we want LIKE MINDED folks in our ranks. We have under 90 members, over 400 have applied or been a tryout since we started back in January.
So 25 percent retention rate to our playstyle (excluding people who have full on quit the game i guess), because what we do is normally outnumbered organized away from the front lines fighting. Self sufficiency and adaptability are vital traits.
Elitism isnt the word id use, selective is.