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I get bored playing by myself. But I don't know how to make friends in ESO.

HyrulesPrincess
HyrulesPrincess
Soul Shriven
I'm not bad at making friends. I just don't know many people who have ESO. And I have people who added me in-game but we don't play together or anything.
  • Shadesofkin
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    Are you PC or Console?

    @shadesofkin -NA Server.
    Tier 2 Player.
    MagDK Main forever (even in the bad times)
  • HyrulesPrincess
    HyrulesPrincess
    Soul Shriven
    PC.
  • Nestor
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    Best thing is to join a guild of like minded people (PvP, Questing, Dungeons etc) or a social guild that dips their toes in everything.

    There are guild recruitment threads here in the guild section.

    Also, if your running a delve, sometimes a person will tag along. If your doing well together and your not even talking to each other, request them to group with you. It might only be for that delve or it might be that you go run some others.
    Enjoy the game, life is what you really want to be worried about.

    PakKat "Everything was going well, until I died"
    Gary Gravestink "I am glad you died, I needed the help"

  • Theodorus
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    Join a guild?
    Walking Dead survival tip ... just run faster than Otis
  • UrQuan
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    Your best bet is to join a guild - preferably one that does regular events. When you start joining in on some of those events you'll find yourself getting to know a bunch of the regulars.
    Caius Drusus Imperial DK (DC)
    Bragg Ironhand Orc Temp (DC)
    Neesha Stalks-Shadows Argonian NB (EP)
    Falidir Altmer Sorcr (AD)
    J'zharka Khajiit NB (AD)
    Isabeau Runeseer Breton Sorc (DC)
    Fevassa Dunmer DK (EP)
    Manut Redguard Temp (AD)
    Tylera the Summoner Altmer Sorc (EP)
    Svari Snake-Blood Nord DK (AD)
    Ashlyn D'Elyse Breton NB (EP)
    Filindria Bosmer Temp (DC)
    Vigbjorn the Wanderer Nord Warden (EP)
    Hrokki Winterborn Breton Warden (DC)
    Basks-in-the-Sunshine Argonian Temp
    Someone stole my sweetroll
  • EIGHTS
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    I have no friends too. Because my English isn't well.
    But I'm fine to play this game alone.
    I'm not native speaker in English. I hope that I don't make you misunderstand.
  • HyrulesPrincess
    HyrulesPrincess
    Soul Shriven
    I'm in a couple guilds but my highest lvl character is 26 and they have a ton of Vets. I think both of them are DC and my 26 is EP. Which causes some problems. I joined cause she's a werewolf and its a werewolf group but I forgot to think about my activity in the guild lvl and alliance wise. I've looked around on the guild recruitment but not much. So I'll try again and see if I find a guild that is similar to what I'm looking for.
  • bertenburnyb16_ESO
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    Playing with yourself huh.....
    Happens to the best of us
    Haze Ramoran Dunmer Dragonknight Tank/Dps – Smoked-Da-Herb Saxheel Templar Tank/Healer

    Red Diamond, Protect us 'til the end (EU EP Thorn)
  • Nestor
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    I'm in a couple guilds but my highest lvl character is 26 and they have a ton of Vets. I think both of them are DC and my 26 is EP. Which causes some problems.

    What platform and server are you on?
    Enjoy the game, life is what you really want to be worried about.

    PakKat "Everything was going well, until I died"
    Gary Gravestink "I am glad you died, I needed the help"

  • MishMash
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    I am the same way. I am a bit shy until I get to know someone.

    It was PvP that actually gave me the opportunity to meet new players and get invited to guilds. Joining an active guild introduced some amazing players to me (which I call my mentors as they kindly guided me on playing/builds) THANK YOU MO! If it wasn't for how wonderful they were to me I most likely would have left ESO. Hugs to all MO members!

    My tips would be go to PvP, take your time, watch for groups running and tag along. Even if they seem to not pick you up in group, still try to follow. Guilds do get to know you by name if they seeing you supporting and following. If a group tells you TeamSpeak (TS) is required, then use it! You can get to know people just by listening to them (no don't creep on them) just be part of the group, and when you feel more comfortable, use your mic to get in on the conversations. Now I have a few guilds, and can say I am part of another guild that I really appreciate so very much!

    Lastly, there will always be troll bullies out there that usually cause people to fear ridicule, but that is why ESO has an ignore button.
    Edited by MishMash on January 25, 2016 4:28PM
    PC NA DC 4eva! I try my very best. If it is not good enough for you too bad! Playing off and on since April 2014 CP2009.
  • Skinzz
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    Depends on if u like to pvp or just pve. Easier to make friends in pvp.
    Anybody got a group? LFG, anybody? Hello?
  • sirrmattus
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    @HyrulesPrincess

    im in ep currently making new toons
    holler at me in game 6-10 CT if you wana grind. I reside in EP. Do you have orsinium DLC?
    Ebonheart Pact - North American Server
    - THE MORALES -
  • Zerok
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    Most content in this game can be done alone, including public dungeons. You only need a group when you're doing group dungeons, trials and Craglorn.

    If you're looking for socializing, then I can invite you into a very social trading guild. In fact, they chat so much I had to create a chat tab just for this guild.
    Zeerok (the sneaky ruffian) - LV50 Bosmer stamblade DPS (AD)
    Gontrand de Bourbon (the greedy aristocrat) - LV50 Breton magsorc tank (DC)
    Augustus Aquilarios (the imperial claimant) - LV50 Imperial stamDK PvP (EP)
    Zeerokk (the AD zealot) - LV50 Altmer magblade PvP (AD)
    Lianna Storm (the inferno maiden) - LV50 Dunmer magDK DPS (EP)
    Fights-With-Khajiit (the gullible faithful) - LV5 Argonian templar (EP)
    Miner'va (the skooma addict) - LV3 Khajiit sorcerer (AD) - chaotic neutral
    Siggy Thorvaldsson (the charismatic baroness) - LV50 Nord stamwarden tank (DC)
  • Reedx
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    Just talk to does who help in WB/Dolmen or dvelve,

    Most players doesnt mind being social, but most ppl dont take the first step because they dont really care, but if you really want be find some who you can fun with and do quest with, then you need to make a effort and talk to ppl.

    Freinds doesnt just show up you see
    Maker of Drama & Lover of Roleplay
  • Lenikus
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    How to make friends :
    - Complete that Public Dungeon in EP where you get "Mistery Meat"
    - Find a newb populated area
    - Place said Mistery Meat.
    - Wait in a corner. if you also see someone laughin' at the newbs who eat it, befriend them. they gud.
    ... Mai cave. >:3
  • NobleNerd
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    I run a friendly guild that welcomes new players. We have many veteran players that take time to assist new players. This is a great way to make someone a bit shy feel comfortable and get to know each other.

    The guild info is in my signature if you want to check us out.
    BLOOD RAVENS GAMING
    ~a mature gaming community~
    Website
    DISCORD
  • Lysette
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    Some people send friend-invites without to even talk before - that is how teenagers might try that, but not adults. Talk to people for a while and if they like you and are like-minded, they might agree to become friends and do something together with you. Just be a social person, friendship requires real life social skills, just using ingame tools alone will not make you friends.
  • Avonna
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    this title made me spit my coffee out................
  • Tavore1138
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    I'd say what everyone else says here and find a guild if you can - it's probably easiest to do that if you PvP but there are ones that do the PvE group stuff too. The ones you probably want will use a voice client of some kind which makes it far easier to interact with people. The best ones will be both serious and fun. You will see some advertised around as you game - be a bit picky!

    But as a fresh to MMO player my first real contacts in game were from doing group dungeons with people - over the course of quite a few I met a handful of people who I chatted too a lot. We formed our own small guild of about 12 and just did stupid sh*t together... our epic 5 person attempt at Hel Ra just after it came out is still a favourite memory of mine (and no we did not complete it).

    If you enjoy PvP and are reasonably competent then sooner or later someone will invite you to a guild - just bear in mind there is a lot of 'drama' in PvP between guilds and alliances but that can be part of the fun if you don't let it take over your gaming experience.

    Help people out in /zone from time to time when they shout - I've made a couple of friends that way too...

    And all this comes from someone who is pretty antisocial at the best of times.

  • SirCritical
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    I'm in a couple guilds but my highest lvl character is 26 and they have a ton of Vets. I think both of them are DC and my 26 is EP.

    With the next DLC you'll be allowed to group up with your mates in another factions, and with the scaling, it will be possible to be on a same "level" as them (at least in the dungeons).
  • eliisra
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    Play tank or healer. Join pug groups and be reasonably friendly + competent. Watch friend requests literally raining down once the last boss is dead.

    That's the only way I'm making acquaintances outside of guilds really. I group with people, they add and than poke me to infinity for pledges or farming monster helms. The ones I dislike I remove. The ones I like I tend to become e-buddie with or whatever we shall call it.

    Not sure how you make friends as dps though lol. Guess you need to take initiatives yourself. So if you're shy or lacking social confidence, don't play dps :grimace:
  • Praeficere
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    I'll tell you not what to do:
    Run up to random people you've never talked with or seen before and send them friend requests.
    Though the shadow has moved not,
    A thousand miles I’ve passed –
    Ageless as the mountains but forgetting not the past.

    Are you Resolute?
    PC EU Progression Guild
  • HyrulesPrincess
    HyrulesPrincess
    Soul Shriven
    Thanks everyone!! Your advice has been very helpful!
    Lenikus wrote: »
    How to make friends :
    - Complete that Public Dungeon in EP where you get "Mistery Meat"
    - Find a newb populated area
    - Place said Mistery Meat.
    - Wait in a corner. if you also see someone laughin' at the newbs who eat it, befriend them. they gud.

    I will have to try that!!!! To answer some questions:
    I do not have any DLC. Most of my characters are in EP. One is in DC because I got tired of playing the same quests. I play on PC. I have made a healer for the purpose of grouping with people. Just have to level her up (insert groan here) My lvl 26 is a DPS....I think.... and a werewolf.... I'm not very good at knowing builds........But shes for the purpose of playing alongside my boyfriend. Which means I need a character I can play when he's not home.
    I am a very outgoing person but I'm also awkward and don't get out of my comfort zone much.
    Avonna wrote: »
    this title made me spit my coffee out................

    I tried so hard to make it sound better too.... I seriously typed "I don't like playing with myself" and then realized my mistake and typed "by myself". And when I hit post I realized I could of just said "Playing alone" :neutral: Welp.
  • ShadowDisciple
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    Instructions:

    -join a guild
    -say "hi" in guild chat
    -say "any groups going on, if not anyone wanna do vWGT/pvp/IC"
    -read the answers to your question
    -form a group
    -get together in arranged place
    -use abilities to overcome the common obstacle
    -say "thanks for group" when you guys are done

    Thanks me later.
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