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  • JHawkk
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    Art3miz wrote: »
    JHawkk wrote: »
    Have you by chance read Ready Player One? and is that where your name comes from?

    Exactly! :)

    Wonderful! I saw the name and I thought I was inside the book again, and then realize I was on an ESO forum :). Great name!
  • Artis
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    jkemmery wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    @Artemis could you explain? As in, what is sexist in this thread and why you think so?

    New friends can only make it to the friend list based on their gender, so by definition it's ... . Also, it was a joke.
    p.s. what I liked though is how all the guys are throwing themselves at the girl, even on a gaming forum it's like everywhere in the Internet.
    Art3miz wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    Its not sexist. I stated in my first post that I have plenty of guy friends that I play with and would just like more girls to play with. I don't see whats sexist or wrong about that.
    Shouldn't matter who plays a character, should it? We're all players and have no genders/sex :) also, it wasn't serious, as I said.
  • Kammakazi
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    There's a lot of thirsty guys on the internet, so you'd better watch out.
  • VoidBlue
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    I understand, sometimes you just want to game with other people of your gender so you can chit chat about gender things the other gender would never understand since they are not your gender and have never experienced those gender things.


    I hope you find some peeps you can play with.
  • DerpyGoldfish
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    Hey, I'm female, but unfortunately totally new. :[ I played in CBT as part of the Psijic Order, but didn't really get around to getting the game until now. I'm currently browsing forums to see if there's anyone who might be interested in playing with me from Lvl 1, but no luck so far. On PC, too btw, if you're interested. ^_^ <3
  • DerpyGoldfish
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    Oh wait just saw you're PS4. :cry:
  • DXCortEX
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    I don't really understand this kind of subtle discrimination. It's probably because i play without a mic or even audio coming from the game, but i really do not care about peoples gender. It makes no difference, theres some good people, some bad people, some who don't care. But at the end of the day, we're all just people. I can guess it's more about past experiences, experiences which i can't truly see i've lived, as being from the opposite gender.
    Mind you, i'm not trying to talk from a high horse. Obviously, i can conceive some people want to play with others who are more akin to themselves than other players, and it would be ridiculous to keep you from doing so.
    All in all, good luck :p
    Edited by DXCortEX on August 5, 2015 3:18AM
  • Art3miz
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    I never said that I completely leave out playing with guys. I have plenty of guys to play with and I love playing with them some are my best friends. I just created this post to try and find girls close to my age to play with also.
  • Art3miz
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    DXCortEX wrote: »
    I don't really understand this kind of subtle discrimination. It's probably because i play without a mic or even audio coming from the game, but i really do not care about peoples gender. It makes no difference, theres some good people, some bad people, some who don't care. But at the end of the day, we're all just people. I can guess it's more about past experiences, experiences which i can't truly see i've lived, as being from the opposite gender.
    Mind you, i'm not trying to talk from a high horse. Obviously, i can conceive some people want to play with others who are more akin to themselves than other players, and it would be ridiculous to keep you from doing so.
    All in all, good luck :p

    I agree. But I already play with a ton of guys and I would just like girls to play with as well. Thats why I created this post.
  • Ace_of_Destiny
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    Not being a smartarse, nor sarcastic, but...

    Sometimes I wish I was female.
    I just want to feel *special*, and then I might actually understand what my wife is really trying to say to me once in a while. (lol)

    :smiley:


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  • Art3miz
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    Artemis wrote: »
    jkemmery wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    @Artemis could you explain? As in, what is sexist in this thread and why you think so?

    New friends can only make it to the friend list based on their gender, so by definition it's ... . Also, it was a joke.
    p.s. what I liked though is how all the guys are throwing themselves at the girl, even on a gaming forum it's like everywhere in the Internet.
    Art3miz wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    Its not sexist. I stated in my first post that I have plenty of guy friends that I play with and would just like more girls to play with. I don't see whats sexist or wrong about that.
    Shouldn't matter who plays a character, should it? We're all players and have no genders/sex :) also, it wasn't serious, as I said.

    No worries. I was just explaining my situation to you. No it doesnt matter what or who you play as, however I would just like to find girls like me to play with since I currently play with my guy friends.
  • Art3miz
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    Oh wait just saw you're PS4. :cry:

    It was almost perfect.. :'(
  • Osteos
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    In a sea of men its nice to enter into TS and hear another women speak. Its a yay! moment. Obviously there's no guarantee that you'll get along in the grand scheme of things, but its still nice. Siren Song is a female only guild. I was in it for awhile but left after it changed leadership several times. I don't know if they have a ps4 branch or how active they still are. I'm PC and XOne but there are plenty of women that play this game. I'm sure you'll find a few to game with.
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  • Artis
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    No worries, ladies. There's actually a lot of girls playing this game and you will find them sooner or later. Pretty much in any guild I raided with I would hear at least 1-2 girls.
  • Art3miz
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    Artemis wrote: »
    No worries, ladies. There's actually a lot of girls playing this game and you will find them sooner or later. Pretty much in any guild I raided with I would hear at least 1-2 girls.

    Nice name by the way haha
  • Azurulia
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    Not being a smartarse, nor sarcastic, but...

    Sometimes I wish I was female.
    I just want to feel *special*, and then I might actually understand what my wife is really trying to say to me once in a while. (lol)

    :smiley:



    lol you are not a lone my friend. Both in that it would be nice to feel a bit special, and understand what madness is brew in our significant others' head that we should knew before they mention it. :tongue:
    Artemis wrote: »
    No worries, ladies. There's actually a lot of girls playing this game and you will find them sooner or later. Pretty much in any guild I raided with I would hear at least 1-2 girls.

    Yeah, they are out there, they just often don't make them selves known for any given reason they may have. They don't have to say that they are female after all, so it's often impossible to point them out.

    I mean, imagine how much it would suck for them if they had to? I wouldn't want that kind of harassment lol.
    Edited by Azurulia on August 5, 2015 5:54AM
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  • theforgottenking1779
    Art3miz wrote: »
    I forgot to mentionI play on Ps4, I'm 23 years old and live in the US

    Lol u just put this information expect desperate messages from guys lol
  • Lionxoft
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    Just search the guild recruitment area. I'm sure there are feminist guilds here.

    [Moderator Note: Edited per our rules on Rude and Insulting comments]
    Edited by ZOS_Racheal on August 5, 2015 11:48AM
  • Vizier
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    Oh, come on. This is a personal add gimmick, right? Brilliant! Wish I'd thought of it.
  • DisgracefulMind
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    DenMoria wrote: »
    k2blader wrote: »
    Any female only PvP guilds out there? :-)

    Okay. Now there's a guild I would NEVER mess with! You ladies are scary in PvP!

    We are quite horrifying. The female PvPers I know are all monsters. (:
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  • F7sus4
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    Art3miz wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    Its not sexist. I stated in my first post that I have plenty of guy friends that I play with and would just like more girls to play with. I don't see whats sexist or wrong about that.
    Of course it's not sexist.

    Then go find a guy that wants to join a male-guild only and you'll see a flow of "sexist" accusations.

    Same situation, different sex, double standard.
    Move along, nothing to see here.
  • Cherryblossom
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    Art3miz wrote: »
    Hi, I'm looking to play with girls to run through the game with. The reason is I have plenty of guy friends and sometimes just want another girl to play with too. I have a mic and and multiple characters for each alliance. I also dont mind making another one if anyone else would like to start from the beginning also.

    I'll put on a dress and you can call me Susan :)
  • Rosveen
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    Well there's one advantage girls have over guys: when they're looking for girls, at least nobody suggests they're creepy sexual predators. Oh wait...

    Just joking. Good luck with your search! I wouldn't join an all-male guild any sooner than an all-female one, so I understand why you're looking for more variety in your social circle.
  • F7sus4
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    I'll put on a dress and you can call me Susan :)
    Here, have some F64.1 (or 302.3 if you're from US). :wink::cookie:
  • Igawotch
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    Would you play with me if i am neither male or female?
  • Rylana
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    DenMoria wrote: »
    k2blader wrote: »
    Any female only PvP guilds out there? :-)

    Okay. Now there's a guild I would NEVER mess with! You ladies are scary in PvP!

    We are quite horrifying. The female PvPers I know are all monsters. (:

    Every.... damn... one... of... them

    The girls in GoS, LoM, Decibel, and other guilds legit frighten me =/ They are like tiny balls of death and destruction just looking to massacre everything in their path.... and quite effective at it :(

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  • teladoy
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    I'm not a girl but I can do like if I'm one, I usually do it in every mmo, from wow till now, because it helps me to progress more fast when the idio... I mean the gentlemans help me, giving me money, rushing me instances, helping me questing, etc.
  • Eloka477
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    Lionxoft wrote: »
    Just search the guild recruitment area. I'm sure there are feminist guilds here.

    She doesn't need to search guild recruitment because she isn't looking for a guild. She is specifically looking to play through with other women on her platform, the forum can accommodate that, it's what they are for.
    F7sus4 wrote: »
    Art3miz wrote: »
    Artemis wrote: »
    So sexist.

    Its not sexist. I stated in my first post that I have plenty of guy friends that I play with and would just like more girls to play with. I don't see whats sexist or wrong about that.
    Of course it's not sexist.

    Then go find a guy that wants to join a male-guild only and you'll see a flow of "sexist" accusations.

    Same situation, different sex, double standard.
    Move along, nothing to see here.

    She never asked for a women's only guild, she asked for other women to run through the game with, because she has heaps of guy friends already! Makers breath.

    [Moderator Note: Edited quote to match moderated version]
    Edited by ZOS_Racheal on August 5, 2015 12:44PM
  • Milktray
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    There are a hell of a lot of female gamers .. not 50/50 but god damn close and that was when DDO:EU was in beta (not the current DDO incarnation)

    [Moderator Note: Edited per our rules on Rude and Insulting comments]
    Edited by ZOS_Racheal on August 5, 2015 11:54AM
    ZoS please understand everyone thinks and pronounces things differently, so please add to your 'rules' that things get removed if the Mod doesn't actually quite understand phrasing
  • vyrusb23
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    DXCortEX wrote: »
    I don't really understand this kind of subtle discrimination. It's probably because i play without a mic or even audio coming from the game, but i really do not care about peoples gender. It makes no difference, theres some good people, some bad people, some who don't care. But at the end of the day, we're all just people. I can guess it's more about past experiences, experiences which i can't truly see i've lived, as being from the opposite gender.
    Mind you, i'm not trying to talk from a high horse. Obviously, i can conceive some people want to play with others who are more akin to themselves than other players, and it would be ridiculous to keep you from doing so.
    All in all, good luck :p

    You don't really understand it because you aren't a woman.
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