There isn't a one on one direct answer.
there are two things that matter in eso.
1: chooses in build have limited effect (so you can't go very wrong nor very good)
2: it is important to have balance in your stats.

Another thing important is to decide for what you want to use a setup. A pvp build is very different as a solo-pve setup. For dungeon another setup is yet again optimal.

Night silence gives a lot of things typically needed for your setup. But as kahjiit and medium armor (and possibly mundus setup) does the same, it might be too much and it might be that you need more weapon critical (e.g. hundings rage).

I would advice to look at your entire build and see what you actually need.

edit: a lil tidbit I wanted to share as an example. I'm a VR3 DK tank. While doing gold pledges for the first time as a tank I noticed that all in all my setup was pretty good, but some blasts where too heavy while the healer had no issue keeping me alive without running out of magicka. So I looked at the size of these blasts and saw they where 24k. I could boost my health by changing my drink with health recovery (to help lessen the strain on the healer) for some food that give extra health. This way I could survive the blasts and that ment the healer could heal the lost damage.
That is a way you should look to your setup as well.

MexicanMurrican wrote: »

I prefer to do PvE, but occasionally PVP and Dungeons. It would be mainly a PvE setup.

My current attribute dist. is 10 in Health, all others in Stamina. That may get switched around soon to more in Health.
I can give a better picture of this when I'm in front of my game (Skill point dist., etc.).

My point is that it isn't an easy question that can be answered directly.
You got some fixed variables (race, class) and a lot of other variables. My edit was ment to illustrate how you can see (by looking at your stats under "C" what you need. After that it is also important to look at how you can get what you need. Changing a mundus effect or food is cheaper than changing attributes and skills. All has to be in balance so championpoints, attributes, mundus, etc. So it is not that I can look at stats and say you need go this or that. You can copy a ready made build from the internet, but if you don't you need to find your own balance. So look at the numbers, and see what you miss or can improve when fighting.

MexicanMurrican wrote: »

Hi, all! I run a Kajiit Nightblade (using Shadow and Assassin abilities). She runs full medium armor (I'd be willing to look at Heavy). I was curious what Set Armours would be best for her to run. I know Night's Silence is very highly suggested.

When selecting an armor set, I take all the armor and jewelery off of my character and loot at their naked stats. Then I pick sets that give a boost where it is needed. This can either build up something that is lacking or it can build up something that is already buffed but can use some more. Of course it all depends on your playstyle.

For example a Critical Strike rating of 50% is good for a NB, and easily reachable with certain gear like Dual Wield Daggers. Once there, I look to other factors to buff, like perhaps Health or Stamina or Weapon Damage. But, this all depends on your playstyle.

For me, my NB is a Burst Damage Dealer who Crits on the first strike from Stealth and hopefully or nearly one shots the first mob. This is so I can take down other mob once the first is dead. Health regen is an issue for this class, but buffing Health Regen is not the best way to fix it, being able to kill the other mobs before they can kill you might be better.

@Ranique, I understand.

And thanks @MTibbs89 and @Nestor for your suggestions. Especially the Jewelry removal tip.

5 peices hunding's rage 3 pieces ashen grip IMO if you're looking for craft-able armor. Or like the post above states hunding's and night's silence. If duel wield you can add another piece. There are some cyrodiil rings that add weapon damage too Not sure the name but im looking to add those to my build also

You all do realize that once Update 1.7 comes out... both Torug and Ashen Grip are having their Weapon Damage and Spell Damage greatly reduced... in fact, Torug has lost it's Weapon Damage altogether, it is now "Spell Resistance". Kinda sucks, but now makes using these specifically for those stats is worthless after the update.