Hello there, i'm new here so hello to every one.

Some time ago I have bought eso for me and for my brother and we started to play together, it was fun. But then I had to go to work, he had his job and we kinda separated in levels. I went a bit ahead of him so when we had time to play together I wanted to do his quests, events or whatever you call it with him. But then I discovered that im in different stage of an event so I couldn't do it with him. To be more specific there were ruins with ghosts and you have to go underground and fight evil guy, after you do that sprirts disappear. So when I got there second time with my bro and he started the quest I just couldn't do it with him.
It's sad because that was the sign I need to wait for him to the moment we can do events of the same stage together.
Maybe I don't know something but I couldn't overcome that. From my experience some games offers downscalling of level. What if he could invite me to a party, start the event and I could go with him do his quest just having fun, the game could downscale me for that purpose - it would be the uber fun for me and him.
As I said I'm knew and maybe game offers a mechanics of that sort and I just dont know it yet. If so please tell me.

Because of whole this game feels very singleplayer oriented while leveling a toon. I don't have anything against that, but it would be nice to be able to participate in my brother's lower level character quests so we can have fun together as we always have in mmos.