I don't generally have an issue with talk about balance, to pretend that things don't need to be changed in an MMO is silly and to pretend that PVP alone drives these changes is again, silly. While a nerf sometimes needs to happen, I prefer seeing counters rather than nerfs, like block breakers rather than outright nerfs to classes like Templar and Dragon Knights.
That said, these forums are starting to get a little silly themselves, half way down the page we have a thread on bow kills being over powered, a little lower than that we have a post on bow users being useless.
There are other examples but I think you get my point, that highlights it perfectly. It's not like I don't moan myself, my duo partner must hate being on mumble with me sometimes because that's all I do, mumble while I'm playing but a good number of people here just frankly need to learn to play.