Hello everyone! I'm Geno - I just started playing again yesterday after a 4 month break and I'm started to feel the addiction coming on again

It is a good pain

Though it seems I've come back to 3 COMPLETELY INACTIVE trading guilds (300+ people, with only 20 or so who have played in the last 3 months), and no active friends

So I'm looking to join a guild! I am looking for smaller, more intimate guild with vent and friendly people. I don't care if it's PvE, Social, or even RP! But I'd like to find an active group of people who are dedicated to playing the game and won't randomly quit for no reason.
This goes into my next questions: WHERE ARE ALL THE PVERS AT??
It's almost impossible to do lowbie (5-50) dungeons anymore

I'm a TANK and it takes a good half hour on EP to get groups going... What happened??
Even when I use zone, people aren't interested. And group finder isn't the greatest option either.

Anyone else notice this?