AlienDiplomat wrote: »I hope the team aren't too disheartened by all the negativity.
Blackwidow wrote: »AlienDiplomat wrote: »I hope the team aren't too disheartened by all the negativity.
Yes, let's hope the devs feel good about the job they have done so far, because rewarding mediocrity is what we do now.
I liked your story and I'm glad you had a good day in ESO.
That does not take away the fact this game needs a lot of work. Calling posts that point out problems as negative is one of the problems on this forum.
Trying to fix the game is a positive thing.
nerevarine1138 wrote: »Relentlessly nitpicking subjective points of taste/opinion isn't a positive thing.
It creates a toxic community and makes the developers' jobs a lot harder.
Blackwidow, there is a difference between discussing negative issues, constructively, on threads made for that purpose and deliberate pissing on someone cornflakes just because they are having a good day in game.
nerevarine1138 wrote: »Blackwidow wrote: »AlienDiplomat wrote: »I hope the team aren't too disheartened by all the negativity.
Yes, let's hope the devs feel good about the job they have done so far, because rewarding mediocrity is what we do now.
I liked your story and I'm glad you had a good day in ESO.
That does not take away the fact this game needs a lot of work. Calling posts that point out problems as negative is one of the problems on this forum.
Trying to fix the game is a positive thing.
Relentlessly nitpicking subjective points of taste/opinion isn't a positive thing. It creates a toxic community and makes the developers' jobs a lot harder.
Blackwidow wrote: »Blackwidow, there is a difference between discussing negative issues, constructively, on threads made for that purpose and deliberate pissing on someone cornflakes just because they are having a good day in game.
Yes, there is. Do you know the difference?
He posted the comment about the negative posts. He could have left that out and it would have just been a nice story, but in the end he went negative.
I didn't *** all over his story. I even said, "I liked your story and I'm glad you had a good day in ESO."
You guys need to let people speak their mind without attacking them.
If you notice, I never said one negative thing about the poster or his story.
No desire to go through VR leveling again in it's current state.
AlienDiplomat wrote: »As a man, sometimes you have to be strong enough of character to know when to let things go.
It takes a strong person with character to be able to see an opportunity to post something not related to the topic and will themselves not to.
Why does every thread regardless of the topic have to be reminded that it is OK to be negative?
I was casually commenting about NEGATIVITY, not "negative posts."
It took me several attempts before I got a group with which we could finish my first veteran dungeon
AlienDiplomat wrote: »
Overall I am feeling pretty good about the future of the game. I hope the team aren't too disheartened by all the negativity.[/i][/b]
Great read OP. Could been nicer to "negative" posts though. Right or wrong, everyone should be able to voice their view. Even if some posts wants to transform ESO to WoW :-p
I have a great time in the game. 1-50 and even better at Vet 1, WOW! I really had to rethink and get even better to perform now.
One main problem in ESO, is not ESOs fault. This is an MMO, but people seemed to have forgotten how to make a group without a group tool.
I started at launch, and I grouped through all levels, and now at Vet1, I group as well.
There is NO problem getting a group, if you simply try to get one.
You know, try yourself, ask people, friends, guild, unknown, me?
AlienDiplomat wrote: »Blackwidow wrote: »Blackwidow, there is a difference between discussing negative issues, constructively, on threads made for that purpose and deliberate pissing on someone cornflakes just because they are having a good day in game.
Yes, there is. Do you know the difference?
He posted the comment about the negative posts. He could have left that out and it would have just been a nice story, but in the end he went negative.
I didn't *** all over his story. I even said, "I liked your story and I'm glad you had a good day in ESO."
You guys need to let people speak their mind without attacking them.
If you notice, I never said one negative thing about the poster or his story.
KariTR took the words out of my mouth. There is a fine line. I have no problem with constructive criticism, in fact I encourage it, and I don't even consider it to be "negative." I think most people would agree which is why I sort of left that to be taken for granted and didn't feel the need to derail another thread going into specific details and potential flame wars about what I specifically meant by "negativity" (which is what I said), NOT "negative posts" which is what you read.
Here is the thing though. When people get overly defensive and feel the need to come onto other people's threads and nitpick semantics like the whole world needs to hear what you have to say on every single post, it tends to get irritating and that fine line begins to get a little fuzzy.
As a man, sometimes you have to be strong enough of character to know when to let things go. I am not posting a fanboi rant here, I am not defending the company as being without blemish or saying nothing else needs to be fixed. Read some of my other posts. I get just as frustrated as anyone and have posted MANY suggestions for making things better.
But this isn't the sort of conversation that needs to be jumped on for not being constructively critical enough. This is the sort of post that I would say, unless you wanted to share something YOU enjoyed in the game, should probably just be skimmed over and then moved on from.
It takes a strong person with character to be able to see an opportunity to post something not related to the topic and will themselves not to. To let something go, and find a more appropriate place for your personal feelings and insights. Like YOUR OWN thread for example? If you have these strong feelings and insights, maybe you should make your own thread, that way people won't get offended by you posting off-topic reminders in theirs? People might respect you more for it, and you will be prouder of yourself in the long run.
Let me as you this. Why does every thread regardless of the topic have to be reminded that it is OK to be negative? No one is disputing this. If you actually read what I said I was casually commenting about NEGATIVITY, not "negative posts." Nothing to defend here, you simply misread what I said.
Have a nice day!
The OP waded into this battleground and took up a position: everything is fine and the game's critics should be dismissed at some level by the Devs as extreme and unreasonable.