ArchangelIsraphel wrote: »Watching my 60 year old mother solo the last boss in fungal grotto 1 back when we were new to the game, while my father and I were lying dead on the floor like a bosmer and altmer shaped carpet.
Even though I'm an adult, me, my mom, and dad connect over playing MMO's. They got into gaming because of my interest in it, and have played along side me in many mmo's for a long time. We've 3 manned a lot of difficult content in many other games. But back in 2018 we started playing ESO during the August free weekend and got hooked.
We played consistently throughout September, but none of us were fully leveled yet by the time the October halloween event rolled around. We must have been around level 35-40, not yet capped but close enough. We weren't rushing the game- we were questing, having fun, taking our time. We hadn't yet touched any group dungeons. But when we saw the new motif that dropped in the plunder skulls, we had to have it...
So, a Khajiit Warden (my mom), An altmer sorc vampire (my dad), and A bosmer werewolf nightblade (me) walk into a bar....
Anyway, I know Fungal grotto 1 is one of the easiest dungeons for an established player (I chose it to get our dungeon plunder skull for that reason, on the recommendation of other players) and we decide we're gonna go for it. We aren't geared. We don't yet understand our classes incredibly well, nor do we quite get the idea of how the set bonuses work yet. Sure, we could have done our research...sure, we could have excessively prepared or asked someone...but we weren't really thinking of all that min-maxing at the time. We were more caught up in those glorious first months of an MMO that are full of new discovery and running face-first into anything interesting that came at us, learning as we went.
So we start taking on FG1. And its hard. We die, we res each other, we work together figuring out the mechanics and what we need to do. It was fun, the kind of fun we've always had together in MMO's- learning how to take on stuff with just the three of us, form tactics, alter our characters to work off of each other and succeed.
So after a long fight, repeatedly dying and figuring out boss mechanics, our under geared team finally reaches the last boss.
We start the fight. We die many times over, but we're still having fun. We're determined to beat this thing. Finally, having learned the mechanics through trial and error, comparing them through discussion to other games we've played, we start doing quite well. But then my dad's character dies, and I die shortly after slipping up and getting one-shot.
But my mother with her warden and bear are still on their feet- she's self healing, the bear is tanking while she DPS's. She's NOT giving up this time. She's NOT letting this boss take her out again. It took her a good ten or twenty minutes to wittle that things health bar down until it was dead, but through absolutely stubborn determination, she soloed it like a champ while me and my dad lay there.
This 60 year old woman with arthritis in her hands, who often is tired or feels sore, can still kick some serious arse by sheer will- and continues to do so. We continue to play together, learn together, fight together. And although we're geared far better now and research our mechanics first before we start a fight, we still look back on that story and laugh at the time mom completely kicked our butts in FG1 because she wasn't going to back down.
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