[Quoted post Removed]
JoDiMageio wrote: »If there were more men like you, who thought and acted like you, with simple respect, more women would feel safer playing games.
Thank you.
redspecter23 wrote: »Over half of my18 toons are female avatars and have never experienced this in chat at all. Some people are just creepy. Keep reporting, ignoring and moving on I suppose.
redspecter23 wrote: »Over half of my18 toons are female avatars and have never experienced this in chat at all. Some people are just creepy. Keep reporting, ignoring and moving on I suppose.
I never really experienced it until recently. I think it was more of a ramp-up. I've been playing ESO with female toons for years, would get the once-in-a-blue-moon cat call, but for whatever reason it like really compounded recently. And, of course, our experience isn't everyone's experience, but it just got to the point where I was like - okay, time to speak up a little about this.
Starting back some time ago - around when U29 went live - I've been getting some disturbing interactions at least once per week. Men, you should not feel the need to harass someone playing a female toon. If someone asks you to stop, you need to stop. It doesn't matter if it's a game. I've had to report multiple people the last few weeks for this behaviour. I'm a guy, and it bothers me; it's not cute, and it's not funny - It's creepy. Especially do not send sexually charged tells to people; I've had to actually resort to playing in offline status because of this - AND I'M A GUY. I feel bad for people that are actually emotionally and/or psychologically affected by this behavior. Don't be an apologist, and try to excuse the behavior. Just stop if someone asks you to stop. No means no, even in a video game.
This happened like 10 minutes before starting this post. Ticket #210430-003667
TheImperfect wrote: »What platform do you play on? I play on PC EU and haven't experienced this. I was wondering if it was more common on certain platforms or if you have just been unlucky.
I'm PC-NA here, and it happens to my wife, too. She gets really aggressive, and will lay into people that are sexually harassing her. It's always the same two replies: 1. "It's just a game, calm down." or 2. "Learn to take a compliment."
SpiritofESO wrote: »As a guy who creates and plays beautiful women characters (because, yes, I like pretty girls ) I have been shocked at the misogynistic behavior that I believe comes from Tweens and Teens (because I once was a Tween and then a Teen and later, much later, an Adult).
But, as far as Chat Text is concerned, I have done here what I finally had to do in WoW (and other games) and shut off the Text Chatbox because of all the toxic language and attitudes on display.
The game becomes so much more peaceful when most of the annoyingly vulgar communication is eliminated.
redspecter23 wrote: »Over half of my18 toons are female avatars and have never experienced this in chat at all. Some people are just creepy. Keep reporting, ignoring and moving on I suppose.
All my chars are male.
Wonder if I am safe then
Tsar_Gekkou wrote: »Is this just a pc thing? All but 1 of my characters are female and the only whispers I get on xbox are generally from women saying they like my outfit.
Viewsfrom6ix wrote: »My character is a robot. Never been harassed. Guess no one has robot fetishes.