JayKwellen wrote: »**Edit -- just realized this was about no-CP lol. I don't know much of anything about that except that it's a post-apocalyptic proc-laden wasteland. Maybe throw on heavy armor instead and push more recovery? Idk. Leaving this post anyway just in case there's some useful information.
If you just want something safe and functional for MYM then any of the sets you said would be just fine. Crafty Alfiq and Spinners are usually pretty cheap too. You could even just try crafty alfiq + necropotence too, if she's good at keeping a shade up.
Does she have a monster set? If not I'd almost suggest instead throwing on a crafted set of some sort, even something bland but reliable like Shacklebreaker, that way you can craft a heavy chest and legs or head, since crafty/spinners/war maiden are all light armor sets. Then just get a couple pieces of willpower to get a decent enough two-piece bonus in lieu of the monster set. Using a crafted set would probably also help with traits, since finding everything in a trait you want sometimes isn't possible, and I'm guessing she won't have a huge stockpile of transmutes available.
You'll probably want to help her with a build too. I wouldn't do anything fancy, just a base functional build that she can tweak and change as she gets more experienced in PvP. Keep everything impen. Probably will want higher recoveries. Will likely want to have swallow soul, fear, merciless resolve, siphoning strikes, cloak, shade, at least 1 resto heal, and soul harvest (or meteor) as her base abilities so that she has the minimum tools to damage, CC, burst, heal, and disengage.
Also, when she dies for the millionth time, reassure her that this is just 'part of the process' and the fiery spiritual rebirth we all endured at one point when we first ventured into PvP as younglings. Joining a group will probably help too, now that cross-heals are just a fever dream.