Strider__Roshin wrote: »I find it to be weird. Tried playing DnD once. It's not my thing.
VaranisArano wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »@Aelorin they/them are gender neutral terms that you can use when you don't know the gender of somebody. these terms can be used for single individuals or groups.
Actually, that's wrong. They/ them should only be used to describe more than one person, he/ his/ him is for a male person and her/hers/ she is for a female person. I understand that not everyone is a native English speaker, and that's fine, but this is pretty basic stuff.
Not anymore. In the last years (or so), "they" has become common as a pronoun for a singular of undetermined gender. In many cases, the border towards the plural can be blurry (when talking in a general sense), but the actual singular they is possible as well. Language evolves.
I'm sorry but you don't get to change the well-established rules of the English language just to suit you. Using "they" as a singular pronoun is considered grammatically incorrect.
Gotta love derailing threads into language nitpickery.
As a native English speaker, I am perfectly cognizant of the difference between "formal, grammatically correct English of the type I would use on a test, in a paper, or when speaking to my high school English teacher" and the perfectly understandable conventions we use when speaking and writing in less formal contexts such as conversation or forums.
Using they/them as a gender-neutral single person pronoun is an example of the latter.
FlipFlopFrog wrote: »VaranisArano wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »@Aelorin they/them are gender neutral terms that you can use when you don't know the gender of somebody. these terms can be used for single individuals or groups.
Actually, that's wrong. They/ them should only be used to describe more than one person, he/ his/ him is for a male person and her/hers/ she is for a female person. I understand that not everyone is a native English speaker, and that's fine, but this is pretty basic stuff.
Not anymore. In the last years (or so), "they" has become common as a pronoun for a singular of undetermined gender. In many cases, the border towards the plural can be blurry (when talking in a general sense), but the actual singular they is possible as well. Language evolves.
I'm sorry but you don't get to change the well-established rules of the English language just to suit you. Using "they" as a singular pronoun is considered grammatically incorrect.
Gotta love derailing threads into language nitpickery.
As a native English speaker, I am perfectly cognizant of the difference between "formal, grammatically correct English of the type I would use on a test, in a paper, or when speaking to my high school English teacher" and the perfectly understandable conventions we use when speaking and writing in less formal contexts such as conversation or forums.
Using they/them as a gender-neutral single person pronoun is an example of the latter.
I'm not derailing anything, I simply don't see the problem with Aelorin's comment. He's talking about his character which is male, so would you rather he wrote;
- where was they born? How old?
- How did they grew up?
- What are them talents and they flaws?
- Married? Single, Children?
- What does they do for a living?
- Is they a good, neutral or bad person?
- Hobbies?
See how linguistically awkward you make it when you're obviously talking about a single individual, especially if you're not a native speaker?
VaranisArano wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »VaranisArano wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »FlipFlopFrog wrote: »@Aelorin they/them are gender neutral terms that you can use when you don't know the gender of somebody. these terms can be used for single individuals or groups.
Actually, that's wrong. They/ them should only be used to describe more than one person, he/ his/ him is for a male person and her/hers/ she is for a female person. I understand that not everyone is a native English speaker, and that's fine, but this is pretty basic stuff.
Not anymore. In the last years (or so), "they" has become common as a pronoun for a singular of undetermined gender. In many cases, the border towards the plural can be blurry (when talking in a general sense), but the actual singular they is possible as well. Language evolves.
I'm sorry but you don't get to change the well-established rules of the English language just to suit you. Using "they" as a singular pronoun is considered grammatically incorrect.
Gotta love derailing threads into language nitpickery.
As a native English speaker, I am perfectly cognizant of the difference between "formal, grammatically correct English of the type I would use on a test, in a paper, or when speaking to my high school English teacher" and the perfectly understandable conventions we use when speaking and writing in less formal contexts such as conversation or forums.
Using they/them as a gender-neutral single person pronoun is an example of the latter.
I'm not derailing anything, I simply don't see the problem with Aelorin's comment. He's talking about his character which is male, so would you rather he wrote;
- where was they born? How old?
- How did they grew up?
- What are them talents and they flaws?
- Married? Single, Children?
- What does they do for a living?
- Is they a good, neutral or bad person?
- Hobbies?
See how linguistically awkward you make it when you're obviously talking about a single individual, especially if you're not a native speaker?
Given that ZOS has removed a good chunk of the previous conversations about grammar, I'm going to bow out of continuing that line of discussion. Have a great day!
But for anyone interested, a general set of starting roleplaying questions, not oriented towards a specifically male character as Aelorin did, might look more like:
Where were they born? How old are they?
How did they grow up?
What are their talents and their flaws? Married? Single? Do they have children?
What do they do for a living?
Are they a good, neutral or bad person?
What are their hobbies?
The questions I tend to use as a starting point for creating a TES character are as follows:
What race are they?
In what ways are they a stereotypical example of their race? In what ways are they not?
Which archetype(s) best represent them: Warrior, Mage, and/or Thief?
How do they relate to the various Divines, Daedra or other powers?
What was their life like before the Call To Adventure that kickstarted the game's plot?
How did they end up in jail/in exile/in the execution cart/getting sacrificed/whatever the latest tutorial is?
Personally, the character's gender usually gets figured out at some point in the above list, but it may or may not have been something I had in mind from the beginning.
What first attracted me to role playing (way back in Dungeons and Dragons), was that I could pretend to be a hero with fast reactions and superb co-ordination. Unfortunately to be really good at ESO I would actually have to HAVE fast reactions and superb co-ordination - which is why I only do the solo PvE parts of it....
drkfrontiers wrote: »I hear some folks mention roleplaying.
Is questing considered role playing? Or is it something else.
How does one roleplay - I'm curious.
What first attracted me to role playing (way back in Dungeons and Dragons), was that I could pretend to be a hero with fast reactions and superb co-ordination. Unfortunately to be really good at ESO I would actually have to HAVE fast reactions and superb co-ordination - which is why I only do the solo PvE parts of it....
Yeah, you can often tell a true RPG by the extent to which they make game outcomes dependent on player skill versus character skill. True RPGs put character skill front and center, which is why they tend to have pretty elaborate character stat systems. Success or failure is determined primarily by character skill, plus a bit of randomness. ESO barely follows this model at all. We have character skills, but their effectiveness is governed far more by player button pushing skill (or quality of internet, if we're honest) than character skill.
On the plus side, you don't need to be really good at button pushing skills to tell good stories and have fun doing RP, whether it is your own solo RP or doing things in groups.
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drkfrontiers wrote: »I hear some folks mention roleplaying.
Is questing considered role playing? Or is it something else.
How does one roleplay - I'm curious.