You guys are sick! ((

deleted008293

I formed like usual a group in zone chat for nMOL, invited friends, guildies, randoms and some of their friends.
I didn't explained mechanics. It was my time, my nerves and yes my fault for that. Now if you don't know mechanics it is just as simple to say and I was willing to help, or others if not me.
Because I was solo tanking it and half of the group were inexperienced, Twins went bad and as a tank I started to get trashed, told how to do my job, swore at, harassed, bullied for the rest of the raid, despite the fact I've told them I am experienced in vMOL since back 2016 perhaps months ahead before thousands of other players. I did my best to continue and asked one of my friends to tell his/her friends whom he/she invited that I do not like negativism, toxicity and bad behavior in my raids. I couldn't do my job. I started shaking, i started crying, I feel anger, I feel sad, I started complaining.
On last boss I got kicked from the team, I made, before clearing, looting, turning in quest and sharing loot.
Then you guys call me sick?
You guys made me sick! You took away my time, my resources, my happiness, my sanity, my health, my friends, close friends. You took everything from me. You are a disgrace to this community. I never seen most of you elite wannabee forming raids in zone chat yet, you rage on a simple mistake, rage quit on a death or a single wipe, become toxic towards others and so on. And yes you deserve those hate words! You are negativist, hateful, never constructive, never helpful but you make sure to point it towards others!
Maybe I'm not such a good player not a good person but I never rage quit a raid, disbanded or kicked anyone from my teams even if they deserved.

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We need a VOTE TO KICK option for the raid leader.
Also raid leader should not be allowed to kick an online player from group without initiating a vote, to prevent abuses.
Raid leader should also not be allowed to disband a group without a vote system.

mairwen85

nMol you say? Personally, I've never seen this level of negativity in a normal trial -- they can pretty much be balls-to-the-wall with any group of players... that must have been one terrible bunch you got saddled with.

Can you clarify this:

nordmarian wrote: »

I didn't explained mechanics. It was my time, my nerves and yes my fault for that. Now if you don't know mechanics it is just as simple to say and I was willing to help, or others if not me.

I don't quite follow -- especially in regards to the twins... if the group wrecked, it sounds like bad co-ordination, and on normal they must have been, well, I don't really know what to call it, but they must have been that

deleted008293

nMOL zone pug yes

mairwen85

nordmarian wrote: »

nMOL zone pug yes

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SassiestAssassin

Ooof, solo tanking that one?? Sounds like a bad time all around. Sorry for the bad group

Matthew_Galvanus

first rule of raids is to never pug them, doesnt matter if it is normal or veteran, pugs are some of the most toxic creatures to ever walk the face of the earth. im sorry this happened to you.

mairwen85

mairwen85 wrote: »

it sounds like bad co-ordination, and on normal they must have been, well, I don't really know what to call it, but they must have been that

I imagine something like this x12

Shanehere

Pugs suck, I know a lot of players feel skiddish about joining Guilds but finding a good Guild with nice players who are into doing all of the same content as you is one of the best aspects of the game and almost always eliminates the toxic experiences that Puggers deal with.

It often eliminates the chore of having to advertise for entire groups in zone, the likelihood of getting incompetent or toxic players are drastically decreased, and eliminates the stress of performing perfectly or not progressing through the dungeon in a timely manner because the players don't know the mechanics.

pattyLtd

Relax, its just bunch of randoms who cares what they say.
Move on to the next group and hope its better

Azirius

I do find the brothers to be a bit of a spike in difficulty, usually due to people being unfamiliar with the mechanics. I tanked it one time and people were ‘fairly’ understanding. I pre-warned it was my first time ever tanking a trial and the main reason I died is because of the ‘colour mechanic’. People just freak out and run around like headless chickens. It’s a simple trial, in theory, depends on the group.

I’m really sorry you had such a bad experience. Would happily group with you. Regardless of experience, as long as your honest and explain lack of knowledge. We all have a ‘first time’, so people should be understanding.

I’d kinda expect impatience with a veteran trial, as people should really understand the mechanics before entering.

Usually though, my experience is all good. Very few grumpy people.

deleted008293

Some were my friends and they didn't made me feel that I have them supporting me. (

Raids are cancer because most of the time u don't have a good guild or group of friends to do some nice raids so you end up zone pugging. Besides that zone pugging is what spin the wheel and keep ppl together. It is a MMO in the end not a solo game. And not everyone have a good friend close.

Chicharron

nordmarian wrote: »

I started shaking, i started crying, I feel anger, I feel sad, I started complaining.

You guys made me sick! You took away my time, my resources, my happiness, my sanity, my health, my friends, close friends. You took everything from me.

A stupid video game makes you feel that way? wow I think you take it too seriously.

SidraWillowsky

I'm really sorry that happened to you

But seriously... Do NOT form nMoL pugs and only have one tank. Do you do that regularly? I only asked because I pugged nMoL a few weeks back and the leader was a solo tank. They said that they had a method and that they'd show us, but someone aggroed the twins before the tank could show us and after that wipe, one of the DPS put on their tank gear and we ended up having two tanks. A few of the pugs were making bets on whether we'd finish the final boss (one tank + lots of nMoL virgins in the group) and things got negative. A few DPS got randomly selected to do the portal thing on the final boss (since no one knew how) and after wiping a few times, the tank and one of the dissenters (who was a healer) got into it and the tank/raid lead kicked the person, leaving us down a healer. We found a replacement and eventually finished, but it took WAY longer than it would have had we just waited a bit more time to find a second tank. I don't think that anyone had fun- in that run, several people let the group know that they were new and were not provided any instruction (these people were also looking at guides but help from players helps; I tried but admittedly don't know the mechs well enough to explain them in detail), a few higher-CP players were lightly mocking the tank (and also berating the noobs in doing so), and everything just took way longer than it should.

If that was NOT your group, learn from my experiences and just get a second tank- no one will question you then. Wiping a few times to bosses in a pug nMoL group is to be expected. A solo tank leading a pug nMoL run? Not so much, and it makes people rightfully wary.

ZOS_RogerJ

Greetings! We've closed this thread due to its baiting and non-constructive nature. While we completely understand everyone has their own opinions, thoughts, feelings and even frustrations, we want the forums to be a civil and constructive platform for the game and it's community as a whole.