I share a home with my girl and it's my place to go when I want to refine, relax or get away from the hustle of Tamriel! I go there every session to log out, but when I log in I'm immediately in the middle of a busy bank or something, typically with a load of mail and messages to process.
One change I would love, and that would REALLY improve my gaming experience, is it I could log in at that home so I have time to get up to speed before venturing out (#roleplay4life).
We also share a guild home and have similar issues there. If our guildies could log in at the guild house it'd help to make it more of a community place.