For me, I play because I enjoy the game. I mostly solo, having been turned off on group play because everyone seems to want to run through the content just as fast as they can, and will usually boot someone that actually wants to do the questing. Sure, it's not hard anymore, but it's still fun.
Myself, I can't stand pvp, in this or any other game I've tried so far. It is the main reason I don't play Eve anymore. Thus, I don't care a whit for what meta is currently on top, or what is the 'must have' gear, I have the sets I need and they are tailored to how I want to play. After all, I'm the one paying for my account, I'm the one that purchased my copy of the game, therefore I'm the one that determines how I play. Seems pretty straightforward, actually.