SydneyGrey wrote: »I am baffled at the people saying "no" to free stuff. Like ... WHY??????
SydneyGrey wrote: »I am baffled at the people saying "no" to free stuff. Like ... WHY??????
My reason for not liking it much; if its an item I don't like the looks of, or an item that none of my characters would use, an item I'd never have bought, why would I want it? And if it works like the stuff from the rng crates, you can't get rid of it.
That depends how it's done. If they do it the same was as TES Legends then you only get good stuff if you log in X number of times/month. Would the offer of some items push you to log in more often than you normally would?DieAlteHexe wrote: »It’s a gift.
I’m grateful for whatever I might receive.
It’s something that I didn’t have five minutes ago that someone gave me for potentially doing something that I was probably going to do anyway.
Why are we worrying about the quality of a free thing?
Beats me. I'm pretty much impervious to attempts to get me to do things I'm not up for, so the theory of "let's get 'em logged in" doesn't work on me. So, it's a freebie for doing what I was already going to do. Can't beat that.
KanedaSyndrome wrote: »Definitely not. I'm sick and tired of loot box/loyalty rewards chaining me to a game. Let me play when I want to, not because I feel I have to login not to miss out.
DieAlteHexe wrote: »I used to feel that way about something sort of similar back in high school. The urge to not miss out (was for a book group thing. Read books and got prizes). I got to thinking about what would happen if I missed out and weighing it against what I could gain and made my decision from there.
DieAlteHexe wrote: »I used to feel that way about something sort of similar back in high school. The urge to not miss out (was for a book group thing. Read books and got prizes). I got to thinking about what would happen if I missed out and weighing it against what I could gain and made my decision from there.
That's called FOMO these days. Fear Of Missing Out. And it's exactly what they're trying to capitalize on.
DieAlteHexe wrote: »I used to feel that way about something sort of similar back in high school. The urge to not miss out (was for a book group thing. Read books and got prizes). I got to thinking about what would happen if I missed out and weighing it against what I could gain and made my decision from there.
That's called FOMO these days. Fear Of Missing Out. And it's exactly what they're trying to capitalize on.
KanedaSyndrome wrote: »That depends how it's done. If they do it the same was as TES Legends then you only get good stuff if you log in X number of times/month. Would the offer of some items push you to log in more often than you normally would?DieAlteHexe wrote: »It’s a gift.
I’m grateful for whatever I might receive.
It’s something that I didn’t have five minutes ago that someone gave me for potentially doing something that I was probably going to do anyway.
Why are we worrying about the quality of a free thing?
Beats me. I'm pretty much impervious to attempts to get me to do things I'm not up for, so the theory of "let's get 'em logged in" doesn't work on me. So, it's a freebie for doing what I was already going to do. Can't beat that.
How about they improve on the core game to get people to log in more instead of pointless loot in a game where everything that isn't PvP/Trial is too easy anyway.
jedtb16_ESO wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »I used to feel that way about something sort of similar back in high school. The urge to not miss out (was for a book group thing. Read books and got prizes). I got to thinking about what would happen if I missed out and weighing it against what I could gain and made my decision from there.
That's called FOMO these days. Fear Of Missing Out. And it's exactly what they're trying to capitalize on.
it's something people need to get used to.... i say this as an old man.... you can't do and have everything. if you live your life by fomo you are going to be perpetually disappointed.
that is down to you.... no one else, just you.
Would you take a free lottery ticket if someone gave you one each day? Or would you not take it because chances are, you will not win anything, and you will find that disappointing?Why the question Doctor, isn't that exactly what we are getting with Summerset anyway??
Not quite. Summerset is giving login rewards, but they are fixed, not random. And currently on the PTS, the reward is 10 gold.
jedtb16_ESO wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »I used to feel that way about something sort of similar back in high school. The urge to not miss out (was for a book group thing. Read books and got prizes). I got to thinking about what would happen if I missed out and weighing it against what I could gain and made my decision from there.
That's called FOMO these days. Fear Of Missing Out. And it's exactly what they're trying to capitalize on.
it's something people need to get used to.... i say this as an old man.... you can't do and have everything. if you live your life by fomo you are going to be perpetually disappointed.
that is down to you.... no one else, just you.
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MornaBaine wrote: »When a corporation stoops to playing headgames with its customers they have crossed a line. And I'm going to out myself as an old person here when I say: It's the principle of the thing. But it truly is.
Aren't most commercials based on "head games"? What is the threshold? When companies play on people's compulsions/addictions?
MornaBaine wrote: »MornaBaine wrote: »When a corporation stoops to playing headgames with its customers they have crossed a line. And I'm going to out myself as an old person here when I say: It's the principle of the thing. But it truly is.
Aren't most commercials based on "head games"? What is the threshold? When companies play on people's compulsions/addictions?
I already pay a sub, I shouldn't be bombarded with ads for a service I pay for. Lots of things let you "opt out" of the obnoxious ads if you are a paying user. Still I can deal with it on log in if I can also just X right out of it and continue on my way. If it happens DURING my game play I'm going to find that jarring and highly irritating. My patience would end right there. That's one factor regarding my tolerance. The other is, of course commercials attempt to manipulate people. They have since the inception of advertising. I wrote a paper for a psychology class many years ago when we were studying just how advertisers USE psychology when crafting their ads. Mine was on the use of women in advertising, which overwhelmingly is done far more than using men in ads targeted to men AND women. To men women are used to essentially say, "Use our product and a hot woman like this can be yours!" To women an ad essentially says, "Use our product and you can BE this hot woman!" Both are outright lies of course and we've been trained to not only just shrug our shoulders over that fact and excuse the behavior of marketers but to accept that it's perfectly okay to do this in the pursuit of making money. We put the responsibility of whether or not a person falls for this nonsense squarely on the consumer. And that's fair to a degree. Buyer beware. Have the savvy to know when someone is attempting to scam you. What we've lost sight of is that it's really NOT OKAY for corporations and their advertisers to lie to us in the first place.
Taken to an extreme we might say, "Well of course Billy is a serial killer. I mean, he's insane. He can't NOT be a serial killer. But you already KNOW he's a serial killer so... just don't put yourself in the same room with him and some sharp knives. That's on you."
But now what we are starting to have in gaming goes far beyond the usual banal come on of, "Play our game and you can have this hot pixel chick!" and "Play our game and you can BE this hot pixel chick!" Now, once they've got you playing they start in with keeping you paying in B2P and F2P games such as this. And they do that NOT by producing a quality product that is so fun to play in a variety of ways that you WANT to keep paying them for further development and more content but by literally using stuff that goes clear back to Skinner to PSYCHOLOGICALLY MANIPULATE you into literally feeling COMPELLED to log in and to EXPERIENCE ANXIETY if you don't! Once a company has sunk to the point they are willing to do that to their customers... yeah I have a moral and ethical problem with that.
I love ESO. I really do. I'm still going to hand ZOS a big ol handful of cash for Summerset and many of its related goodies. And I don't mind doing that. Gaming is where I spend my entertainment dollars rather than going out to movies and restaurants every week. But if they don't back away from this disturbing trend and change direction in the practice of their gambling boxes and their cash store with its flash sales and their propensity to say, "Yes you can get this cool thing just by playing the game!" but then making its drop rate so abysmally low that to ever ACTUALLY get it if you really want it you are "forced" to purchase it from the cash shop... and now treating players like pigeons trained to turn in a circle to get a food pellet... it will be the last money they make off me.
I just want a high quality product that I'm happy to pay for. I DON'T want to have to be constantly on my guard so as not to fall victim to the machinations of morally bankrupt professional psychological manipulators.
Great, well-thought out post.
MornaBaine wrote: »MornaBaine wrote: »When a corporation stoops to playing headgames with its customers they have crossed a line. And I'm going to out myself as an old person here when I say: It's the principle of the thing. But it truly is.
Aren't most commercials based on "head games"? What is the threshold? When companies play on people's compulsions/addictions?
I already pay a sub, I shouldn't be bombarded with ads for a service I pay for. Lots of things let you "opt out" of the obnoxious ads if you are a paying user. Still I can deal with it on log in if I can also just X right out of it and continue on my way. If it happens DURING my game play I'm going to find that jarring and highly irritating. My patience would end right there. That's one factor regarding my tolerance. The other is, of course commercials attempt to manipulate people. They have since the inception of advertising. I wrote a paper for a psychology class many years ago when we were studying just how advertisers USE psychology when crafting their ads. Mine was on the use of women in advertising, which overwhelmingly is done far more than using men in ads targeted to men AND women. To men women are used to essentially say, "Use our product and a hot woman like this can be yours!" To women an ad essentially says, "Use our product and you can BE this hot woman!" Both are outright lies of course and we've been trained to not only just shrug our shoulders over that fact and excuse the behavior of marketers but to accept that it's perfectly okay to do this in the pursuit of making money. We put the responsibility of whether or not a person falls for this nonsense squarely on the consumer. And that's fair to a degree. Buyer beware. Have the savvy to know when someone is attempting to scam you. What we've lost sight of is that it's really NOT OKAY for corporations and their advertisers to lie to us in the first place.
Taken to an extreme we might say, "Well of course Billy is a serial killer. I mean, he's insane. He can't NOT be a serial killer. But you already KNOW he's a serial killer so... just don't put yourself in the same room with him and some sharp knives. That's on you."
But now what we are starting to have in gaming goes far beyond the usual banal come on of, "Play our game and you can have this hot pixel chick!" and "Play our game and you can BE this hot pixel chick!" Now, once they've got you playing they start in with keeping you paying in B2P and F2P games such as this. And they do that NOT by producing a quality product that is so fun to play in a variety of ways that you WANT to keep paying them for further development and more content but by literally using stuff that goes clear back to Skinner to PSYCHOLOGICALLY MANIPULATE you into literally feeling COMPELLED to log in and to EXPERIENCE ANXIETY if you don't! Once a company has sunk to the point they are willing to do that to their customers... yeah I have a moral and ethical problem with that.
I love ESO. I really do. I'm still going to hand ZOS a big ol handful of cash for Summerset and many of its related goodies. And I don't mind doing that. Gaming is where I spend my entertainment dollars rather than going out to movies and restaurants every week. But if they don't back away from this disturbing trend and change direction in the practice of their gambling boxes and their cash store with its flash sales and their propensity to say, "Yes you can get this cool thing just by playing the game!" but then making its drop rate so abysmally low that to ever ACTUALLY get it if you really want it you are "forced" to purchase it from the cash shop... and now treating players like pigeons trained to turn in a circle to get a food pellet... it will be the last money they make off me.
I just want a high quality product that I'm happy to pay for. I DON'T want to have to be constantly on my guard so as not to fall victim to the machinations of morally bankrupt professional psychological manipulators.
Great, well-thought out post.