Checked this - I logged into a different game, and even got my wife to login on MY ps4 to see if hers was okay.. And her account is fine. And the controller is fine during other games too... so I know this is a game problem. It only started since 1.34.
During lag and combat and anything making the controller vibrate a lot. If you jump to pick a lock straight after, for some reason the options are automatically jumping in to turn the vibration setting to OFF.
Is this some kind of fail safe you put in to override the permanent vibration last patch??