Lip color is virtually nonexistent outside of Stages 3 & 4, both of which I believe get a death-like purple tint. However, if you’re going for looks, the overall appearance outside of Stages 1 & 2 are hideous. So pick your poison. Tattoos fade out as well in all stages, so you might as well just forget that. Unless you’re using the Buoyant Armiger face tattoo which, oddly enough, is the only tattoo I know of that doesn’t fade out.
For what it's worth, the lip colors that can be purchased in the Crown Store do not fade at any stage of vampirism. The colors remain quite luscious.