Being what some see as ugly is
not a downside of choosing to be a vampire. Lower health recovery and more vulnerability towards fire damage age the downsides. Being a vampire in stage 1 grants no positive and/or negative buffs what so ever. You are just a face freshly dipped in flour, with warpaint and/or other makeup barely visible. Therefore you are merely a human, yet look like a vampire. Do not come at me with lore when we have Count Verandis Ravenwatch and Lamae Bal that claimes her kin hides among crowns and rags.
Disguises obtainable from quests are pretty cute. They show your character just like you saw it in the character creation. But you do not get the chance to wear any Crown Store cosmetics. No new hairstyle, no cute dwemer goggles or eyelashes. Disguises also hides guild tabard, not just the visual, but for nameplates purpose too.
Skins are another option. Yes, they hide your pale vampire skin, but they hide your skin no matter if you are a vampire or not anyways. Currently several of the skins require DLC/ESO+ and Morrowind expansion. Not only do they require that, but you need a damn good group to clear the content to achieve the skin(s). Besides, who says looking like a character from Tron or a meatball is any better? One of the skins requires a hell of a farm (also DLC/ESO+) with a ridiculous droprate and lootsystem. Twelve people Sloot, not guaranteed the skin to drop, while eighty people are farming with you, is so weird it is funny.
I am looking at you Imperial City anniversary event.
Polymorphs are great too. They completely change your character appearance to the unrecognizable. But running around Tamriel looking like Spooky Scary Skeletons all year is nothing for me. The Maelstorm Arena Baron or the 250K Tel Var stones are ok, but not for those that wants to show their armor and/or costume(s).
From a pvp perspective where some people (for odd reasons I do not understand)
really needs to know if their opponent is a vampire or not, we have buff trackers on all platforms for creeps like them. Do you really change up your skills because you are facing a vampire??! Now I did read somewhere that the in-game buff trackers only shows your own buffs, not other peoples buff. (Someone correct me here please) And if that actually is the case, just add that toggle. Add so that you can see the buffs other people have. Just make it a toggle, because surely some can live without seeing if their opponent is a vampire. Or a werewolf for that matter.
Looks are clearly important in this game as people spend ages in character creation to customize their character just the way they want it. There is a high demand on changing not just the traits, but on changing armor and weapon styles too, even adding weapon dyes. Therefore vampires and their terrible looks are also important in this perspective.
In the end, all the methods that currently allows you to somehow hide your vampire appearance, is simply avoiding the issue. Vampires look absolutely terrible. We are a pink-purple hue and veiny. We look like Halloween-makeup gone wrong. If you do actually like your vampire appearance, that is great! You rock that look! But I, and many others
really,
really,
really do not like the look. Give us an option to hide our vampire skin, and still be able to show our armor and/or Crown Store cosmetics. If it is a skin from Crown Store only, an option in regular settings, a skin with the level 10 vampire achievement, or some other way (NOT CROWN CRATES, OH GOD PLEASE). I support it. I just want my bis bosmer cuteness back.
Hell I would even support werewolf fur dye. Want to be a pink werewolf? Be a pink big dog. ))))))))
*I wrote this on phone so sorry for any typos if you find some*