After searching, I know that only 1 person needs to have the Pledge of Mara in order for 2 people to get married to one another.
However, I think it would be great if there was a shared pledge. What do I mean with this? Simple:
- Both players buy a pledge for 500 crowns and use it on each other.
The reason? Me and my GF both have 500 crowns for buying a certain version of the game, and we would like to get married ingame. We both have the crowns, but we can't combine them.
It would be great if we could both pay a part of a marriage
Also, why shouldn't this be possible? Both sides have to agree to this bonding, yes, but only one of them pays. How is that a fair relationship? It only shows that one cares more than the other, while the other is like "Yeah, sure, whatever. Accept."