Orcs are supposed to look hideous, it's the whole "cursed race" punishment for supporting Trinimac in the dawn era. Plus ESO orcs look rather dapper and human compared to how they look in the various TES games.
I dunno, I enjoyed reliving vintage orc fashion. Haven't seen a big orc in a wedding dress for some time now, it's all just skinny girls with big chests in battle bras everywhere.
I play as the darkest orc so I can role play as redguard/orc hybrid. I can still claim to be redguard but I just have orc passives. That's how the dice rolls.