Rebornlogic wrote: »so by you attempting to reach that goal you now become a elitist that strives to get better.
1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
I disagree. I play for fun and relaxation. I don't care about achievements. I will do my best but lack time to be the best. Also single player games like Skyrim really do not have competition
2. play the game anyway you like and be accepted by anyone.
A. so if your running 2-3k dps running vAA. that means your going to make it were you cant clear the run unless the others "carry" you pushing 30+k dps
Agree. I only join guild groups when they don't care about how long it takes and don't mind carrying. Although I know all tactics and DPS is decent I don't want anyone to carry me for speed runs or dps races.
3. arguing that the game should be the way you feel it should be
A. why should it be the way you want it to be? i'm pretty sure you didn't invest into the game management. so let management decide whats best (after all THEY created the game)
Agree, what is want in the game is still just my opinion. I cannot force it upon anyone since 99% may dislike my idea
I'd be far more impressed if people making this sort of post could sort out their commas and apostrophes - no offence, but it would be nice to think you had a balanced life where you may have achieved some things like spelling and grammar as well as gaming
I'm not sure where you got that idea from. Games are made primarily for filling in spare time i.e. entertainment. If you play solely for the purpose of "being good" and are so competitive that you just have to win and beat everyone else, that speaks volumes about your inadequacies and insecurities in the rest of your life. While there's nothing wrong with endeavouring to improve your ability in a game, their purpose is simply to have a fun way to fill in time.Rebornlogic wrote: »1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
BlackSparrow wrote: »One thing I saw a while ago that really stuck with me is that the difference between a "casual" and a "hardcore" gamer is whether you favor relaxed gameplay or stressed gameplay.
Some people have fun constantly looking for the next challenge, playing competitively, honing their characters to the sharpest edge they can... They take fun out of the sense of achievement and improvement that comes with clawing their way up the ladder toward being One Of The Best.
But others play the game to be immersed in a fantasy world, to meet new characters and explore. Such players take their fun in trying out new and interesting builds or in crafting a story and personality that is unique to their character.
(And I'm sure there are people who are a little of both, but I suspect most people lean toward one side or another.)
Personally, I'm the latter. I don't like competitive play, in any game, because I play games to relax. If I'm not relaxed, I'm not having fun, and then I stop playing. IMO, my irl job is stressful enough without me making my free time into a job, too! And sure, this means I will try out non-optimized builds and make some odd decisions, just to fit a character concept I had envisioned... and I will gently turn down any "advice" otherwise. I get by in PvE, and I don't run dungeons outside my close friends, so no one else ever has to feel burdened by "carrying" me through a dungeon.
This, more than the fact that I work 5 days a week, makes me "casual." I could play all day every day, and I would still have no interest in being a high achiever in this game. It's just not why I play. That's why I would never consider myself "hardcore."
AMadAussie wrote: »I'm not sure where you got that idea from. Games are made primarily for filling in spare time i.e. entertainment. If you play solely for the purpose of "being good" and are so competitive that you just have to win and beat everyone else, that speaks volumes about your inadequacies and insecurities in the rest of your life. While there's nothing wrong with endeavouring to improve your ability in a game, their purpose is simply to have a fun way to fill in time.Rebornlogic wrote: »1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
Rebornlogic wrote: »im very curious about the "casual gamer" slang going around. what entails this "casual gamer" tag.
so i though about it and here is what i came up with.
1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
2. play the game anyway you like and be accepted by anyone.
A. so if your running 2-3k dps running vAA. that means your going to make it were you cant clear the run unless the others "carry" you pushing 30+k dps
3. arguing that the game should be the way you feel it should be
A. why should it be the way you want it to be? i'm pretty sure you didn't invest into the game management. so let management decide whats best (after all THEY created the game)
Rebornlogic wrote: »im very curious about the "casual gamer" slang going around. what entails this "casual gamer" tag.
so i though about it and here is what i came up with.
1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
2. play the game anyway you like and be accepted by anyone.
A. so if your running 2-3k dps running vAA. that means your going to make it were you cant clear the run unless the others "carry" you pushing 30+k dps
3. arguing that the game should be the way you feel it should be
A. why should it be the way you want it to be? i'm pretty sure you didn't invest into the game management. so let management decide whats best (after all THEY created the game)
this isn't meant to be insulting if you took it that way and are a "casual gamer"
Elitism is what is meant to be in any MMO, just look at achievments you get rewards for completing "hard" or "not so hard" tasks
if your playing any game there's no such thing as "casual gamer" in any mmo you play. think about anyway you set a goal that's hard to reach and play towards that goal. so by you attempting to reach that goal you now become a elitist that strives to get better.
just some reading that makes very logical sense for people that are (sober)
Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
@Pibbles There's a notable difference between partaking in an activity with the intent of being the best you can be and partaking in an activity with the sole intent of beating others. If you've performed to the best of your ability as was your intent, you'll feel content with that regardless of your performance. The latter scenario requires winning and beating others in order to feel content. Winning gives you a feeling of power. If you need to beat other people at video games in order to obtain said feeling of power, it means you're lacking it in other areas of your life.Logically, it does not mean someone has insecurities in the rest of their life if they desire to be the very best at a game/some games. We all have areas of our life where we strive to be the best; mine have been my career, music and motorsport, (not that I've achieved this!). If another person chooses a computer game, that's objectively no less valid a choice than the other more traditional items, such as I mentioned.
This is totally irrelevant and beside the point of my post but I'll argue it anyway.There's really no difference between someone feeling they want to be the best at <insert any computer game here>, than someone feeling they want to be the World Champion of Chess.
I have to ask - what has caused so many people to respond thoughtfully and in length to this incoherent, rambling nonsense? I'm not even referring to the OP's opinions. Nothing in that post can even be considered a thought, let alone something that requires a response. If you heard this sort of mumbling idiocy IRL you wouldn't speak to such a person, or even listen to the words, you'd just move away in disgust and shake your head in wonder.
I am absolutely aghast at how many people cannot even compose a normal paragraph on these forums.
AMadAussie wrote: »@Pibbles There's a notable difference between partaking in an activity with the intent of being the best you can be and partaking in an activity with the sole intent of beating others. If you've performed to the best of your ability as was your intent, you'll feel content with that regardless of your performance. The latter scenario requires winning and beating others in order to feel content. Winning gives you a feeling of power. If you need to beat other people at video games in order to obtain said feeling of power, it means you're lacking it in other areas of your life.Logically, it does not mean someone has insecurities in the rest of their life if they desire to be the very best at a game/some games. We all have areas of our life where we strive to be the best; mine have been my career, music and motorsport, (not that I've achieved this!). If another person chooses a computer game, that's objectively no less valid a choice than the other more traditional items, such as I mentioned.
The trouble with your argument is that it's from the perspective of someone who plays video games for fun (this is a good thing). You need to look at the situation from a different perspective.This is totally irrelevant and beside the point of my post but I'll argue it anyway.There's really no difference between someone feeling they want to be the best at <insert any computer game here>, than someone feeling they want to be the World Champion of Chess.
Using your examples of your career, music and motorsports, you get a return on your investment of time other than just "fun". Your career can provide you with: an income (at the very least), travel and cultural experiences, knowledge and experience you can apply to other areas of your life. Skill with a musical instrument gives your the ability to entertain others and maybe even make pocket change busking. Engaging in motorsports gives you mechanical experience which enables you to modify, repair and maintain your vehicle.
Video games give you what? Typing experience and slightly improved reaction times with a mouse? Wow, life changing..
Rebornlogic wrote: »im very curious about the "casual gamer" slang going around. what entails this "casual gamer" tag.
so i though about it and here is what i came up with.
1. non competitive.
A. Well why are you even playing any video game? gaming has always been about achievements/being good/making yourself better.
2. play the game anyway you like and be accepted by anyone.
A. so if your running 2-3k dps running vAA. that means your going to make it were you cant clear the run unless the others "carry" you pushing 30+k dps
3. arguing that the game should be the way you feel it should be
A. why should it be the way you want it to be? i'm pretty sure you didn't invest into the game management. so let management decide whats best (after all THEY created the game)
this isn't meant to be insulting if you took it that way and are a "casual gamer"
Elitism is what is meant to be in any MMO, just look at achievments you get rewards for completing "hard" or "not so hard" tasks
if your playing any game there's no such thing as "casual gamer" in any mmo you play. think about anyway you set a goal that's hard to reach and play towards that goal. so by you attempting to reach that goal you now become a elitist that strives to get better.
just some reading that makes very logical sense for people that are (sober)
DigitalShibby wrote: »I think casual isn't a word used to reflect how you approach the game but the time you have to spend. Someone who works 5 days a week and only gets to play on weekends can play the game with a "hardcore" mentality where they focus on improving, end game, and min maxing their builds but with only two days a week to play they call themselves casual.