I suggest having different gear sets for PVE and PVP. So you can just easily swap them over depending on what you are doing at any given moment.
For PVE gear sets you could go:
3x Agility - all jewellery
5x twice born star or leviathan - body
5 x night mothers gaze 2x body 2x daggers and 1xbow
This isn't a hard setup to get. There are better builds you could have but take some time to get.
3 x Agility - jewellery
5 x hundings rage (mix of weapons and gear)
2x any stamina monster set
Again there are better builds to get but these are easy to get builds.