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Be Excellent To Each Other

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On the forum and in game. I've had a pretty rotten day with harassment online, sexual and otherwise - and I think with all the issues we've shared as a community we should be being a lot nicer to one another. When your in game and you see someone heading towards an ore you want, let them take it. If you're on a killing spree as part of a quest don't jump in front of someone and steal their kill. Try to be helpful, meaning try not to verbally abuse people or actively prevent people from enjoying themselves. Don't be rude on here, guys. I don't think I've ever felt the need to be to anyone here. Acknowledge the newbies! If they post, say hi!

Let's make the community a great one, yeah? :smile:

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Edited by Cazzy on June 18, 2016 11:42PM
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  • Peekachu99
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    You're right. After a day of forum posting, I feel exhausted. The world needs more kindness, not less. We should appreciate what we have (even this game, even if it's a little broken at the moment). Too much anger in this world.

    Hope you have a friendlier day tomorrow!
  • Cazzy
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    Peekachu99 wrote: »
    You're right. After a day of forum posting, I feel exhausted. The world needs more kindness, not less. We should appreciate what we have (even this game, even if it's a little broken at the moment). Too much anger in this world.

    Hope you have a friendlier day tomorrow!

    You too! :smiley:
  • KICHZY
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    When I'm farming materials in Orsinium and I notice another player charging towards that sweet sweet reagent...sh!t gets real! I view it as a competition and I'm already planning my next dash before even picking it up. I don't know I see it as a competition.

    As for helping people, If I see a player struggling with an enemy I will definitely help them. The same goes if I need a clear out of items, I'd much rather give them to newcomers in Daggerfall than sell them.
    Edited by KICHZY on June 18, 2016 11:45PM
  • UrQuan
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    Falidir Altmer Sorcr (AD)
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    Tylera the Summoner Altmer Sorc (EP)
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  • FortheloveofKrist
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    I don't know you, Cazzy, but that's upsetting that you experienced harassment, sexual or otherwise. Sometimes I'm embarrassed by my own sex.

    (That last sentence is a softball for any d-bag who's willing to take a swing. You'll just be proving my point.)


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    Since we're posting pictures (not that this is even relevant) here is an photo merge I created the other day.

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    Edited by KICHZY on June 20, 2016 10:27PM
  • Silverado
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    @Cazzy Sorry to hear you have been harrased.That is way unacceptable and wrong. I greatly respect you for the way you've seemed to handle it though. Oh and @KICHZY, that photo merge is freaking sweet. much love y'all and respect.
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  • KICHZY
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    Silverado wrote: »
    @Cazzy Sorry to hear you have been harrased.That is way unacceptable and wrong. I greatly respect you for the way you've seemed to handle it though. Oh and @KICHZY, that photo merge is freaking sweet. much love y'all and respect.

    Thank you very much :D
    Edited by KICHZY on June 19, 2016 12:44AM
  • waterfairy
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    I can't be excellent to random strangers but I can be courteous and not race them to a lockbox, ore, etc. It makes you both look stupid, fighting over something meaningless.

  • WldKarde
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    I just think that sometimes people forget that this is just a game.

    Real life is already a big enough PITA without people bringing that behavior to Tamriel.

    I've found for the most part that people I've crossed paths with both in-game and on these forums, have been awesome.

    Sorry @Cazzy that you had to deal with the "other" sort today.

    I guess at the end of the day, ya just gotta laugh at the way that some people feel they have to act. :/
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  • Ethromelb14_ESO
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    Tomorrow I'm going to give gold to a random newb ... maybe. No. Yeah. I'll do it ... sort of. :#
    Edited by Ethromelb14_ESO on June 19, 2016 2:37AM
    Motto: Make deceivers believers.

    Strength of character is not a physical thing. -E
    Walking a mile in someone else's shoes, has nothing to do with the path taken. -E

    An accusation of elitism, is an indirect recognition of one's own inferiority. -E

    The best way to prove someone wrong, is to do better yourself. -E

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    Tomorrow I'm going to give gold to a random newb ... maybe. No. Yeah. I'll do it. :#
    The free weekend was a good time to be a newbie in Tamriel - I think there were quite a few of us giving gear and gold to them as they came out of their starting locations.
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    Falidir Altmer Sorcr (AD)
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    Isabeau Runeseer Breton Sorc (DC)
    Fevassa Dunmer DK (EP)
    Manut Redguard Temp (AD)
    Tylera the Summoner Altmer Sorc (EP)
    Svari Snake-Blood Nord DK (AD)
    Ashlyn D'Elyse Breton NB (EP)
    Filindria Bosmer Temp (DC)
    Vigbjorn the Wanderer Nord Warden (EP)
    Hrokki Winterborn Breton Warden (DC)
    Basks-in-the-Sunshine Argonian Temp
    Someone stole my sweetroll
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  • Ethromelb14_ESO
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    Allow me to say 'sorry' for the person that did you dirty, Cazzy. Hope tomorrow is a better one.
    Motto: Make deceivers believers.

    Strength of character is not a physical thing. -E
    Walking a mile in someone else's shoes, has nothing to do with the path taken. -E

    An accusation of elitism, is an indirect recognition of one's own inferiority. -E

    The best way to prove someone wrong, is to do better yourself. -E

    I keep forgetting to remember to get a photographic memory.
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    Just drink. That's what I do.

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  • FortheloveofKrist
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    Tomorrow I'm going to give gold to a random newb ... maybe. No. Yeah. I'll do it. :#
    The free weekend was a good time to be a newbie in Tamriel - I think there were quite a few of us giving gear and gold to them as they came out of their starting locations.

    When I was on PC I gave a newb a GOLD level 10 Whitestrake Greatsword. At the time I had gold to burn and was getting bored with the game. The player I gave it to was just baffled because I gave it to him randomly and then ran away.

    I almost pissed myself laughing. I think I may have been a little tipsy. But it was totally worth it.

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    UrQuan wrote: »
    Tomorrow I'm going to give gold to a random newb ... maybe. No. Yeah. I'll do it. :#
    The free weekend was a good time to be a newbie in Tamriel - I think there were quite a few of us giving gear and gold to them as they came out of their starting locations.

    Yes! Some of us in the subreddit got a bunch of people together and went to starter areas to make gear for newbies and answer their questions during the free weekend.

    Even if you are not a crafter or you don't have much gold, just answering their questions and being friendly and welcoming is already awesome.
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    Durza gra-Maghul, Orc blacksmith: The thing was done perfectly, in the most efficient way.
    Tegwen, Bosmer troublemaker: You can't prove I didn't do the thing.
    Sings-Many-Songs, Argonian fisher: Sure, I'll do the thing... Eventually. Maybe.
    Aerindel, Altmer stormcaller: After extensive research, I've come to the conclusion that doing the thing would be a waste of resources.
    Liliel, Dunmer pyromancer: Aerindel said I shouldn't do the thing. Something about "resources".
    Gyda Snowcaller, Nord cryomancer: I will find a way to do it that won't waste resources and make Aerindel proud of me.
    Beatrice Leoriane, Breton vampire: I persuaded someone else into doing the thing. You are welcome, dear.
    Sahima, Redguard performer: Doing the thing sounds awfully unpleasant and really not my problem.
    Ellaria Valerius, Imperial priestess: I'll pray to the Eight for the thing to be done, if it is Their will.
  • newtinmpls
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    I like to offer armor or something to newbies still wearing cold harbor garb.

    @Cazzy sorry to hear about your bad experiences.

    There are a lot of good/friendly folks out there.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
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  • Rosavyn
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    @Cazzy Sorry to hear about your rough day, I know how that sort of thing can go. If everyone practiced random acts of kindness, both online and off, the internet would be a happier place and "It's the internet, what do you expect?" would have new meaning. People seem to forget that there's another person on the other side of those pixels.

    Have some hearts!
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    Edited by Rosavyn on June 19, 2016 4:50AM
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    Agreeeed completely!

    Be nize!

    Git gud.


    Jokes aside, I think ESO has one of the best communities out there (And I've stressed this in my previous posts that I've been in a LOT) and I hope it will develop the virtues of compassion and camaraderie :)
    "We are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are; One equal temper of heroic hearts, made weak by time and fate, but strong in will, to strive, to seek and not to yield."

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    Know what? While running a public dungeon in Wrothgar today a player was reported by other players for typing abuse at other players through zone chat. What was humorous about the whole situation, is the fact, the said person could not even spell the insult correctly.
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  • menedhyn
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    Sometimes a thread like this can be more powerful and more relevant than a reminder of the Community Rules. It costs nothing to be civil, courteous and considerate, both here and in-game.
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  • Cazzy
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    I'm glad people are taking notice! You lot are awesome <3
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    If I am on my templar running around getting mats or questing and I see people fighting mobs I generally throw them a heal or 2 :smile:
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    Sorry to hear you're not having good experience online lately. Do report those are harassing you, especially if on this forum. That is so juvenile and should not ever happen. As for the ores and mats, even it is petty, don't sweat it. There are lots of them and respawn fairly quickly. I get someone all the times sneaking in or racing me to get to the ores, mats or treasure chests. For me, I just let them have it and I go to the next locations. I even offer it to them.

    On the kills.. oh, I did not realized someone else could take your kill points. I have the impression that all involved get the same kill points no matter who get the last kill shot. I normally do assist when I see someone engaged in a fight no matter who against.. the world bosses or the normal cronies running around. I do it so I can help make the killing and fight more quickly for the other guy and not any intention to take the last kill shot or kill points. If you say is true that someone could take the kill points away from the other person, I would be hesitant now even to assist in someone's fight.

    Hope you have a better day!
    Edited by GreenhaloX on June 19, 2016 11:53AM
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    That was such a good movie bak in the day.
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