Every time a DLC comes out there are a few different "I can't afford end game gear because I only XYZ." Sometimes it's PVP, sometimes it's PVE, sometimes it's RP, sometimes it's dungeon running and I'd venture a guess that sometimes it's naked dance parties in Davon's Watch. I'm not here to judge; it's your game to play as you want.
However, if you cannot afford end game gear because you are ESO poor, much like real life, you need to start looking for a job. For many months my ESO job was filling and selling grand soul gems. I didn't want to do this, but it allowed me to afford stuff that was pretty useful. Later on I turned to potions, and picking flowers. Now, since I pretty much do 90% PVP I just sell the rewards for about 1000 gold each. When I'm running dry on those I have my mountain of mountain flowers to fall back on. If those are low, random stuff like crafting stones get sold. All in all I clear 50 to 100k a week without much effort even though my on PVE time is while I'm in the queue.
Long story short, before you beg for nerfs or leach off of others, pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get a job.