I eventually uninstalled the game. I thought I would find a way but, after several trials, it appears that I cannot play this game the way I want. What I want is to explore, to be able to go everywhere, talk to people about their traditions, observe them living and performing their rituals, without having to take quests: not possible.
Plus:
- bosses are unkillable; I'm not talking about the bosses in public dungeons but the ones the player must kill by itself. I had a level 8 character once; the boss in front of him was level 4 but there was still no way to kill it. And they are all like that. I'm pretty sure that even if we had a difficulty level system, these bosses still would be unkillable,
- ESO is all about killing; I'm fed up with killing,
- after playing Skyrim during hours on end, I'm afraid the look of the races, places, countries, are not to the par. The only credit I'll give the devs is about the Dwemer ruins: they are gorgeous. My congratulations to the people who made them.

To finish with, I'll never be able to get accustomed to multiple players running everywhere and acting stupidly.
Farewell.