In instances, when you see that flashy, extremely obvious animation windup and telegraphed red zone pointing at your healer/etc., why in the name of all the gods is it so hard for people in melee to adapt their "I'm so amazing" rotation and do their job to bash them to interrupt it?
Maybe "kids these days" were spoiled by WoW and figure they can just stand in fire and rely on healers to save them while they tunnel, but no one else can see your DPS in this game, so the only way they have to know if you are terribad is seeing you constantly refuse to do simple things like bash.
How hard is it to adapt and why does literally no one seem to do it?