Death - Same penalty for any type of rez?

Uberkull

Whats the penalty for gem-rez, wayshire rez, another player rez? All the same?

Nestor

Your equipped gear degrades on any death. But, from what I can tell, that is not a big degradation, you get more degradation from killing mobs (the more exp you get, the more your armor degrades, probably to make up for no weapon degradation).

If you Res in place, you use up a filled soul gem, if you have one. If someone else res's you, they use up a filled soul gem.

Otherwise, just choose the Wayshrine option and you ported to the nearest wayshrine so you can walk back or port somewhere and fix/upgrade your gear if needed.